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how old is perfect age to get married? what do u think? what is it by law?

2007-08-14 11:50:20 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

34 answers

I think getting married any earlier than 22yrs is too early, no matter how long you've been in the relationship.

I would want to have a kid around age 29-31, so I think the perfect age, for me, would be to marry around age 26-27.

There are no law-set 'perfect' ages. Certain states do limit marriages until you are a certain age, but these are usually 16-18, which most people consider too early to marry anyhow.

2007-08-14 11:57:08 · answer #1 · answered by CherryPie 4 · 0 0

There is not a specific age. Laws vary from state to state from as early as 17-18. Most are 18. However, I believe no one should marry until they are over their partying and wild days. Not until they are mature enough to take on the responsibility of marriage. It is not all roses. Every marriage has its problems. It is a bond between you and the one you love. You two become one when married. There are many responsibilities in marriage, just like with having children. If both are not ready to solely commit to each other, then they should not get married. I would say at least 25.

2007-08-14 11:56:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

18 is generally the minimum age to get married.

But no one should really get married before 24/25. Up to that point your personality is still in development and you need to focus on being an individual.

I think the PERFECT age to get married is 27. But that is from experience. When I was that age, I thought it was 23. And when I was 23, I thought it was 30.

2007-08-14 11:55:49 · answer #3 · answered by mj69catz 6 · 0 0

I think the right age to get married is when you are mature and of sound mind, like you have had some life experiences, and that helps you make a good decision about who and what you are marrying. In the begining the romance of getting married and the love makes it exciting and can blind you to the cold hard facts of marriage. Marriage is a commitment. you cant just break up when you are tired of it. It takes alot of hard work and commitment. Dedication, communication, honesty and loyalty. When you are willing to put all of this into a marriage then you might be ready. At least 21 years old

2007-08-14 11:56:17 · answer #4 · answered by ?? yaddajean ?? 6 · 0 0

You have 2 be 18 in most states.......there is NO perfect age. You should wait till in love and happy. Lot of people say...there 2 young...but I got married at 17 and were still happy & in Love and will be having our 10 anniversary next March. So it all depends on when u meet the right person!

2007-08-14 12:09:40 · answer #5 · answered by clr9798 3 · 0 0

Law is 18, 16 and 17 if a parent gives permission in some states. Marry when you have lived with this person for at least a year, knowing all of their home habbits and know that you both want the same things in life.

2007-08-14 11:53:48 · answer #6 · answered by RedRabbit 7 · 0 0

There is no perfect age to get married.. people have gotten married at 18 others at 85.. doesn't matter...

Depending on country you are in the age for marriage is either 18, 19 or 21

2007-08-14 11:53:33 · answer #7 · answered by Angel 6 · 1 0

by law they don't have a perfect age just minimum

there is no perfect age i got married at 17

and was never sorry, had 2 great kids !!!!!!!!

even though the marridge didn't last you still have the kids :)

no matter what age you get married doesn't mean it will last.

people need to learn that when your married you are not just you anymore. you are supposed to work together and let each other know how you feel when something bothers you

2007-08-14 12:04:15 · answer #8 · answered by justmeandcaring 3 · 0 0

By law here in the states it 18 .. i personally think 30 its a great age to get married. I believe that you need to live up y our 20s and forever is a long time. I have plenty of friends that are married though ( we are in our mid twenties ) and if it works for them awsome! But i personally think 30 is a great age.

2007-08-14 11:54:08 · answer #9 · answered by kati2319 2 · 1 0

My personal opinion is two things: #1. is has to be the right time for YOU, and #2. don't try to put a number on it. when the time is right it's right, and it may not be career dependent in the end. you'll know it when it happens. a wise person once told me, "if you wait to begin life for you to be steeled and to have the career under way and find the "right" time, you'll be waiting forever." For some people they were taught that career and money come before love. but be ready to risk losing the love of your life if you decide to pout career above him. Because no matter how you spin it, claiming if he loves you then he'll wait or he'll understand, it's still comes down to the woman putting career as the top priority in her life over him. And for some woman that is truly what they want, and if you're one of them, then fine. But keep an open mind. if you can't handle working up the ladder with a spouse at home, it's unlikely you'd be a very attentive and devoted wife later, either. My husband and I married and had kids while he was still in university. He completed his degree, did his masters with a 1 yo in toe, had a second child, got a house and did his doctorate at the same time scoring 98% in his classes, and 100% in several of them. He's graduating this spring to officially be "Dr" and had job offers all over the world. and still comes home every night for dinner. Why did we do it? because no other time would have been better or easier. and it's been fine for all of us.

2016-05-17 23:21:22 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0 0

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