Why is my Ex-GF still obsessing over me? Is this normal?

Question

We were together for 4 months. We dated last year from April 2006 to August 2006. To this very day she still writes in her XANGA about me, and she even made her own seperate XANGA account where she would write only about me in it. She would say stuff like "i love him etc etc." and its been LIKE A YEAR.

dude, is she crazy? i didnt even notice if she was crazy or not when we were together, but we fought alot thats why i broke it off.

i just checked her recent xanga entry:

Friday, August 03, 2007


Up til now
I'm depressed.












Whenever I close my eyes
Or hide under multiple lies
I still see all that implies
Of you: black water and silver spies

Even now as I feel so dead
This heart of mine: robbed of its red
Having no choice but to live the life I've led
I guess it looks as though I still have tears to shed
Frustrated by the inability to get you out of my head

Whenever I think I

Whenever I think I'm at an all time high
Believing that the past has been left behind
Again and again I hear you sigh:
"So you say this is goodbye?"

I guess I have to admit that behind all that I say
And the hide n' seek that I play
I just can't deny
These feelings I have inside











I miss David. I wish he was here :(


1:49 AM - email it

we dont talk nemore, beacuse im afraid it might even be worse if we remained friends, so i broke it off completely what should i do? is she crayz?

i have told her to move on already. i told her this after we broke up, a couple weeks after and a couple more weeks after that. i feel bad for her.

Answer 1

You did the right thing. Its ok to feel bad for her, because she obviously has serious issues with depression, and it looks like she might possibly become a stalker. SAVE those pages just in case she contacts you when you don't want her to, and if by any chance she tries to harass you.

Answer 2

Oh well, she's pining for you, that is so tough. Tell her you think she should move on, you obviously have...!?