SERIOUSLY? FOR example...if u wanna hook up with someone and u know theyre in a relationship...are u really just going to walk away??
2007-08-14 09:05:18 · 26 answers · asked by chi_south_kid1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Everyone seems to ask this question hoping for justification for their being a selfish jerk. Unfortunately, it is not right to act on your hormones after you found out someone has a gf/bf. In life you can't do what you want all the time, throw consequence to the wind. Social and moral responsibility actually mean something, whether you think they apply to you or not.
Honestly, would you like this done to you?
Then don't do it to others.
Funny for such a simple concept is so hard to act on. Walk on.
2007-08-14 09:13:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it matters a great deal if the person in which you are attracted to has a bf/gf.i have been attracted to men and they were already in a relationship and honestly it didn't make me less attracted to them nor did it increase the attraction.i knew that he was off limits.i hate the fact that what we want sometimes we just can't have but at the same time if you are the type that don't want to share a gf/bf then you must take in consideration that more than likely neither does anyone else.sometimes being attracted to someone doesn't mean that they are" the one".you would definetly have to respect the fact that they are in a relationship.if you were to insist on being with that person it will one day come back to bite you.if they would date you knowing that they are involved with someone else,couold you trust them to not do the same to you?so i guess it would be wise to walk away!if it's meant for you two to be together then you will.
2007-08-14 09:20:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You seriously have to ask that question?
For example: You finally met the woman of your dreams. Your life is going great. Then all of a sudden a man comes up and simply because he wants to hook up with her, he tries his hardest to take her away from you.
How would you feel if someone was trying to take away the person you love? Once this happens to you, you won't have to ask a stupid question like this.
2007-08-14 09:22:39 · answer #3 · answered by pamela2406 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I've been doing it for years, but that's because I'm really ugly (reason my real pic isn't posted) and I know they probably wouldn't like me no matter what.
I usually even walk away if they're interested in someone else. I've been hurt so many times by thinking that someone liked me only to have them ask someone out the very next day that I stopped trying.
If I was pretty, I'd actually try to win them over for a while, but...no most of the time I just let them go.
2007-08-14 09:13:15 · answer #4 · answered by tamara_giggles 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not really. It depends on the situation. If I'm getting the attention, I'm going to let her choose, not take advantage of the situation, so be careful.
Also...
If she leaves her bf for me, it's a STRONG possibility that she will do to me at some point down the road. Feel me?
2007-08-14 09:12:01 · answer #5 · answered by Califiyah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree that it does matter. They are with that person and not you for a reason. Just wait, unless they are really serious their relationship won't last long and if you really care than you will be able to wait. That way the person you liked wouldn't have to choose and you wouldn't hurt your reputation.
2007-08-14 09:08:38 · answer #6 · answered by Echidna eats an enchilada 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes, BUT ... They're not married. Let them know that you are interested but ALSO express that you respect their situation and don't intend to interfere w/ their currewnt relationship. Leave the ball in their court.
2007-08-14 09:12:32 · answer #7 · answered by pawnjob75 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. i know i will not want to hurt myself, so i really go and find out first what his background is. does he have a gf, if he does i let it go. it's better to let go when love is in it's beginning. if i let myself go for love i know it would hurt more Cos eventually i would have to let him go.
i know i would not like it if i have a bf and he begins liking someone else and she knew about me. it would hurt be very very much, so i try not to hurt someone else in the same way!
2007-08-14 09:24:29 · answer #8 · answered by safla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF you cared about anyone but yourself you'd walk away!! Why break up a happy couple because you aren't happy? How selfish! If she isn't happy with her bf she will break up and then you can make your move!! How come nobody respects relationships anymore???? there are too many homewreckers like the one above me!!! yeah, i thought she'd give me a thumbs down... ha ha..
2007-08-14 09:09:53 · answer #9 · answered by Heather 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
If they are with that person and not you there is a reason for it. You don't want to start something with them by gettin between their bf or gf.
2007-08-14 09:11:43 · answer #10 · answered by lil_rebell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋