Hi!
You guys have to help me! Ok, there was this guy that I kinda had some feelings for. He seemed so nice and perfect (his personality). And he has told everybody that he has feelings for me. We have spend time together almost everyday. At Saturday he was at this party with one of my friends and they slept together! Now I'm just so dissapointed in him, and I just want to hurt him so bad!
Please help me guys!
F.Y.I: I'm kinda attracted to his bestfriend. Not that it has anything to do with this. And forget about my friend, I'll have to deal with her later.
2007-08-14 07:58:37 · 20 answers · asked by Lovelii 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know that they both were drunk! But it just bothers me! And he sent her a message and wrote that they have to do it another time. And my friend sleeps with a different guy like every weekend + she's pregnant.
2007-08-14 08:09:09 · update #1
Thank you guys for all the answers.
You're perfect:D
2007-08-14 09:55:26 · update #2
Was there drinking at this party?
Don't bother trying to hurt him - you'll only wind up making yourself look like a fool.
His loss, ya' know?
2007-08-14 08:03:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe, he has a nice personality, but he may be looking for more then what you are willing to give. Did your best friend know you liked this guy? If not you can't get to steamed at her! As a male I have no problem talking, meeting with another woman, as long as each person knows what the other person wants, needs. However, your male friend may have thought differently about this relationship then you did or do. I tend to see the very best in every woman, but I also know that what they want from me might be different. You for example, may only want a nice guy to be friends with, talk to, no strings attached. And that is great! But I have also known some women to be pretty forward, and want to jump into bed with no strings attached. You will find the right guy. Just don't expect the guy to meet everyone of your expectations! LOL! Barry
2007-08-14 15:32:12 · answer #2 · answered by Barry H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing really more to say, I mean if him and your friend have slept together then he is off limits anyways, not to mention why would you want her leftovers. Move on. There are plenty of other good guys out there. Don't go for the sloppy seconds, Oh yeah and leave his friend alone too. That is just messy all the way around. Find a guy in a different circle of people.
2007-08-14 15:04:41 · answer #3 · answered by ?? yaddajean ?? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like you missed your chance to date a real jerk.
Talk to him about it. Ask your questions, be blunt and don't let him turn the tables or deflect the conversation. you have questions, he has answers. If he really likes you, he'll give you the answers. Tell him how you feel, and how that made you feel.
Listen to what he has to say. Really listen. Then leave. Make no decisions then and there. Take a moment to decide whether or not to keep him on your radar.
But don't sleep with someone to get revenge. Trust me. That will hurt you more than *anyone* else.
2007-08-14 15:35:58 · answer #4 · answered by Matthew P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
R E S P E C T ! ! !
If he liked you at all he would have never slept with your friend! If he was worth going out with he is NOT now!! You will only be setting yourself up for further heartache!! If you go out with him now you will be showing him you have very low standards for respect! And, yes, he will further disrespect you! Why would you want him if he slept with your friend... You need to have more respect in YOURSELF than that. Never let a boy/man take away your self respect. Always believe in your self and hold your head up high. DO NOT let anyone treat you like that. Let him know he blew it big time!!
2007-08-22 10:10:53 · answer #5 · answered by connie p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if this guy slept with your friend then he's not worth paying any attention to. If he really did like you, then he would have slept with your friend. I think that you might have a better chance with his friend. Plus you should tell him how you feel before you talk to his friend. Cause then if you two talk then you date his bestfriend that will make him mad or jeulous.
2007-08-14 15:10:18 · answer #6 · answered by Panic! lover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You 2 were never a couple so go out with the best friend, and act as though it did not bother you!```
2007-08-14 15:04:12 · answer #7 · answered by Moose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about the jackass that slept with someone else. if he really liked you he wouldnt have done that. and i dont think he was trying to make you jealous. just forget about him be the better person, blow it off, and move on! hes a jerk and a player! dont waste your time worried about him cuz he is not worth it at all! my advice: dont waste you time on someone as low as him.
2007-08-14 15:42:41 · answer #8 · answered by Jennifer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont know if he really liked you from what it sounds like hes a liar, so do not bother yourself with him at this moment just ignore him, if he really liked you he will try to apologise over and over just ignore him for a time, and your friend didnt she know that you liked him?
2007-08-14 15:25:40 · answer #9 · answered by jhods400 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clearly you're young. Don't worry about guys that are jerks. Have fun and be safe!
2007-08-14 15:03:36 · answer #10 · answered by confucius 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋