It seems that women want guys to be able to read their minds and be more sensitive to their emotional needs. And guys want women to be more open & understand their need to "just be guys"...even though most women have no idea what that means...just as we have no idea about your emotions.
2007-08-14 04:34:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I got lucky - I found a guy who loves me for who I am and we are so alike we can practically read each other's minds. Sometimes my emotions are unpredictable and it confuses him a little bit but instead of getting into a fight we're able to sit down and talk through it instead. For me this is the ideal relationship and I wish everyone could find their soulmate like I have.
2007-08-14 04:40:09 · answer #1 · answered by Kleineganz 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Funny that you ask this one..there are a lot of women I would like to relate to..or get closer to..though it does not cross my own mind to ask them. My thoughts are never around such things like getting together, hitched and to make out with it. Maybe I am alone here..maybe that's why..though there are things in life that are equally as important than to jump someone's bones for the fun of it. On the other hand, it is a hurtful thing to do. We are humans..humans make mistakes. We all have mouths and voices to ask..though women in my view prefer to keep stomp as it were. So, later on in a relationship..you think that everything is fine..though it isn't..'cos she's out there trying to impress on another whilst you are home or at work trying to get it together. Women will always think that their loverboy is on the loose..if it ain't you then it will be some one else. It boils down to commitment and what you are willing to do for it. Putting your fingers in the fire will not make things better. Men, as the saying goes; do think in terms of 'getting laid' by every girl possible..if not by means then other ways will appear before them. It's amazing really how inventful men and woman can be. Reading a persons thoughts is not an easy task. Some wink, some blink, some get stuck in without reasoning or doubts...but they always get to unfaithfulness too later on.
2007-08-14 05:16:23 · answer #2 · answered by upyerjumper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's a Mars Venus thing - if men weren't so different we would not like it at all. How boring would the world be if we were so similar? Relationships are such a great adventure - finding out about the person is just the beginning...Men are very simple and women are complex that's why it's interesting! Think about how quickly relationships would end if there were no discussions...just agreements.
2007-08-14 04:41:49 · answer #3 · answered by singlegreenjeff 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Opposites do attract, but I think that girls must know when to be one of the guys, be friends, do things together, that way its easer for him to understand us, and if not…. At least we will be on the “buddies” good side. Someone in the circle of friends will understand us, and explain to our guy what we want/need.
2007-08-14 04:41:38 · answer #4 · answered by sara76c 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
its not really rocket science.... both men and women really have the same needs... men just deal with it differently than women...
2007-08-14 04:46:00 · answer #5 · answered by happygolcky75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like really girly girls, just not the ones that are obsessed with their looks
I'm far from a girly man, so I dont think so.....
2007-08-14 04:38:51 · answer #6 · answered by dick_ache 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see the media has trained you well....next step, sensitivity college.
2007-08-14 04:38:04 · answer #7 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋