Met someone a month ago, knew he was going back to his country, but we were dumb and got too close. He leaves in 3 weeks, should we stop seeing each other altogether now, or just enjoy the time we have left? Neither of us have ever connected with anyone the way we have connected with each other, life is so strange, we just keep telling each other that we met for a reason, it just seems so cruel that we now have to say goodbye..........
2007-08-14 04:19:26 · 24 answers · asked by Girl 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he's been here for a few years, but decided to go back, misses family......no real reason to stay and had already made plans to leave, then met me........
2007-08-14 04:27:20 · update #1
Clarification, never said we were in love, just a strong connection.....we just aren't sure if we should continue to see each other, its another month...what could develop, etc.......no need for ugly replies or rudeness.......
2007-08-14 04:37:54 · update #2
You guys arent saying goodbye..you both are saying see you later!..[if you guys truley want to be together].
Ithink that you should enjoy the time you guys have left and create new memories with him...When he leaves theres also a reason for that...Maybe it will mAke you guys stronger but thats up to you guys...anyways I also think that you should keep pictures of him to remember his nice smile or his wonderful eyes[whatever it is you like about him].
dont worry..RELAX!
****If you guys were meant to be together then you guys will end up together..& If you both truley love or like eachother you would`nt let eachother go no matter what!
Its happened to me once..and I truley think I lost my One lOve..bUt i guess Ill have to move on =[
But you still have him so hold on to him for as long as you can =]
2007-08-14 04:27:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should stay in touch with him, because even though long distance relationships don't work it would be good to stay friends. You never know he could be the one, and for the last couple weeks that's left just hang out as friends.That way it would be easier on you to let him go than if you guys were dating , but do keep in touch with him, if ther is a reason why u met him it would all work out.
2007-08-14 11:28:36 · answer #2 · answered by Keewani B 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i wouldn't stop seeing each other now..enjoy the time left..if you stop now you are both just going to be sad and its pointless if you all really like each other .so keep seeing him and enjoy it..how old are you all??...why was he over here? im not tryin to be nosy im just wondering was he here just b/c he was visiting or he has family? if hes coming back you can see each other again..also if you all really think you met for a reason..that very well could be true..so when he goes back you all can still talk and if it was meant to be then maybe in the future you all can work something out...
2007-08-14 11:24:13 · answer #3 · answered by kristy_danielle06 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sorry but in 3 weeks everything is "rosey". You both like this park and that movie and this ice cream, etc. That is not a "connection". Let him go back. You can always be friends and keep in touch. I'm sure the "reason" you met was not to get married in 3 weeks. So, I would play it cool. Continue to see him but don't sleep with him, don't even kiss him. You don't know what you might catch. Good luck.
2007-08-14 11:25:51 · answer #4 · answered by supergirl 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
What is wrong with making a long distance relationship? I mean, to me it sounds like you both want to be together so make it a long distance and then see what the future has in store, who knows maybe things will work out... You'll never know until you try right?
If you two don't think a long d will last, then make sure to make the most of what time you do have, and live it out to the fullest...
2007-08-14 11:24:19 · answer #5 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Cherish the time you have left, and don't count the days down. To end it now will only be more painful for the both of you, see him as much as you can and enjoy it. Who knows what could happen in the future between you guys.
2007-08-14 11:30:09 · answer #6 · answered by Chicane 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would just keep seeing the person, hell enjoy it while you can , you'll either get over them or if it's real , you never know what could happen you might keep intouch and meet up in a little while or so. Dont just blow it off and stop seeing each other now.
2007-08-14 11:24:41 · answer #7 · answered by roth299 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Enjoy the time you have left together and then wait and see what life has to bring later on down the line. You're lucky in that you have the computer to stay in touch in you want. If you were meant to be together, it'll happen!
2007-08-14 11:22:58 · answer #8 · answered by Sunshine 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Life can be cruel. Enjoy the time you have left with him. If you don't, you might regret it. There is always e-mail and webcams. Maybe later in life you two will meet again.
2007-08-14 11:23:31 · answer #9 · answered by JamaicanGirl 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
enjoy the time you have left...we have so much technology now, that even an overseas relationship is possible.
keep in touch, and maybe in the future you can travel to his neck of the world and visit....even if you don't stay in a committed relationship, it's nice to have friends in foreign countries.
2007-08-14 11:23:43 · answer #10 · answered by 1912 Hudson 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋