Family & Relationships - 10 August 2007

I am in Chicago and it is 0156 here. What is up with the little kids on here asking about making out and who likes who and what they should do? I have kids also. Guess where my kids are....In bed like they damn well should be. Damn can't we have some adult time??? EVER??? Do we have to have to constantly censor our questions and answers because there are kids on??? I can understand it during prime time but come on!! Doesn't anyone watch their kids anymore?

2007-08-10 20:02:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been with my boyfriend about 6 mos. He knows when my birthday is, which is this coming weekend. But he's taking his vacation on the day of my birthday for a week with his mom to mexico. He had told me what he was going to do weeks back. But now he hasn't mentioned anything about my birthday at all.
What should I do? Am I being selfish? My birthday is months before his too. Should I be mad if he doesn't do anything with me, but just say Happy Birthday?

2007-08-10 19:59:43 · 2 answers · asked by littleasiangirl2007 1 in Singles & Dating

I love this girl im dating in different ways shae does. Theres days i get off work and im really tired but she calls me everyday after i get home and we're on the phone for ever it feels like and its hard for me to just tell her that i had a long day. plus i have chores to do and i normally dont get them done till 10:00 every night because im talking to her for two or three hours that feels like twevle or thirtteen hours. and im getting tired of it.
we've been together for two years and i love her and dont want to break her heart. so what do i do with her???????
HURRY PLEASE ANSWER QUICK????

2007-08-10 19:59:11 · 29 answers · asked by bubbak 2 in Singles & Dating

Me & my friend was just talking about my ex, & I just realized that I had nothing in common with him. He doesn't like anything I like, & I don't like anything he likes. Also, he turned out to be very fake. & throughout our 6-month relationship, I can count on my fingers the many times we've seen each other in person, & he hardly ever called me. He would text msg. me. A lot of things didn't add up in our relationship.

I've been 100% faithful to him, & now he has a new girlfriend who he writes several blogs about how wonderful she is. He never wrote a MySpace blog about me. When he was with me, he only wrote 1 blog about how everyone who broke his heart deserves the worst STD. & things I did for him, he never appreciated. Like when I would cook for him, he'd sneak behind my back & throw my food away. When I asked him why he cheated on me, he said he just wanted to see how it felt to cheat. & when I tried to dump him, he threatened to hurt me.

2007-08-10 19:57:50 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've only dealt with a 'few' on a really close level, and this has left me with this impression - That i cannot REALLY trust them. Can't trust them to 'trust themselves' about their own emotions.

For example, I had a g/f. She had a few issues, but mainly she wanted me to love her, be there for her, etc. Understandable. I tried to be a man about it and work with her. Eventually we broke up, both 'moved on.' But i still 'cared' about her, i just wanted to date others. But she, who was really an emotional psycho about us being together, was now acting like i was a nobody. She had a new b/f, tried to call me arrogant and selfish. WTF? I was always the same person in our whole relationship. Months later, she's telling me all the good things she used to like about me. So which one was it? But the damage had already been done. I didn't know what to believe.

And my mom, she frequently MAKES UP negative things about me that aren't even true. Then i spend time trying to argue w/her that

2007-08-10 19:55:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous 2 in Singles & Dating

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I met a guy in school (college), that would be perfect for me. It took us forever to finally speak our first words to each other. We are both extremely shy,atleast I THINK HE is. Anyways, I always noticed him looking over at me, and we would exchange smiles sometimes, but oonly a word or so every once in a while. The worst part is, we have all the same friends, but even if we are standing right next to each other, we don't talk. He is always on my mind. I can't help how I feel. I finally got courage to email him 2 days ago, cause he is extremely proficient with computers and I neededhelp. He called my phone as soon as he got it, and then offered to come over, which was today. While he was here, he mentioned that he was affraid I was mad at him for not calling till late in the evening.Then i asked when he was getting married, and he shyly replied with not any time soon.Does he like me?

2007-08-10 19:55:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im in 7th grade if that helps

2007-08-10 19:54:46 · 10 answers · asked by akash_singh95 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-10 19:52:03 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay this is really serious and I need help. There is this guy I like. I have known him since high school, we graduated this year and well there are times where he calls me and talks to me and then there are times when I call him and talk to him. Are conversations dont last very long, the longest we have ever talked is about 10mins on the phone. I have told some of my friends about me liking him and they say that I am to good for him that he isnt good enough and that I can do better. Well I have known him for a year and a 1/2 and I feel that I know him pretty well. He has no Idea that I like him and I want to tell him but I dont know how. I dont want to be straight up and tell him "I like you" I want to kind of give him hints rather than just tell him. What kind of hints would you give a guy/girl.
P.S. he is a class clown and he might not take it seriously I want him to take it seriously though.
The reason my friends say that im to good for him is cuz of looks and how he is a clown

2007-08-10 19:51:13 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 19 - thick (plus size) and I want to wear something sexy. I just have no idea what it is. I know I want my arms hidden.

HELP!!

2007-08-10 19:47:37 · 3 answers · asked by abasov01 1 in Weddings

my clear question is that after the discarge man feels satisfied and he goes to sleep but what a female thinks immediately after after sex , i mean what type of feeling emerges in her mind , such as , not satisfied today , today had lot of fun , i needed more but my man has withdrawn, it was noremal today , sex is best thing or what else she thinks right after sex

2007-08-10 19:43:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i hang out with these group guys who i known since forever.and they always known me as one of the guys which i don't mind. and recently my sister came in to town and she a complete girly girl and she always wants me to be girly girl and dress up and all that stuff. so i decide since i rarely see her i'd cave in .so she gave me a total make over.so to celebrate she took me to a club and it just so happens the guys that i hang with r there. and they actually hit on me with out realizing who i was. i thought it was funny.anyways to make a long story short they came to realize it was me. and since then they haven't talk to me. its been 2 months and i don't know what happen. so can u explain. if they don't quit acting stupid i'm gonna have find a new group guys to hang with.

2007-08-10 19:41:37 · 20 answers · asked by lashalle 2 in Singles & Dating

But the first time we set up a privet meeting,he stands me up.I really like him,How can i tell if he is jerking me along?

2007-08-10 19:39:19 · 3 answers · asked by bobcat_kitty2 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Everbody keeps telling me its a rebound relationship....but I have deep feelings for her I believe to be true love.We've been together 8 months and Ive done more for her then anyone Ive ever been with...or her for that matter.Ive even asked her to marry me and she said yes.But we see things from a different perspective and continue to argue and fight.Sometimes I find myself wanting to leave her....but when I picture my life without her.....I cant bear it.I think about her 24/7 and she tells me she feels the same.She tells me she truly loves me and that she wouldnt have said "yes" if she didnt love me.......any suggestions?

2007-08-10 19:37:27 · 9 answers · asked by Cory 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i remember my first time i thought maybe it was because ive never done it before and i thought also that maybe the guy i was with was well...not so endoud. but after i had been with a few other men i just do not understand why it doesnt feel good. we've tried different positions and other things and nothing works. i dont know, its just really frusterating because i am 27 and i have never had an orgasm. i am currently with someone and i havnt told him about it with a fear of hurting his ego. i dont know what to do.
what is wrong and how can i fix it?!?!?!?!

and please i dont appriciate smart remarks or people against premarital sex. those topics are not relivant.

2007-08-10 19:37:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-10 19:31:40 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My Gfriend and I have been together for 6 years. I have not been to Disneyland for over 20 years and she has never been. We are both in our 20s n without kids is this a good fun weekend or will she laugh at me? Do girls think its fun and want to do that?

2007-08-10 19:30:43 · 11 answers · asked by C A 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-10 19:30:25 · 35 answers · asked by Jethro T 1 in Singles & Dating

If he goes through training for 2 years , but never actually fights , is he considered a veteran ? Can you take time off from the Koren military to get married ? Should we get married in America [ my country ] or Korea [ his country ? Or both ?

2007-08-10 19:30:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I am 19 years old and have never had sex and I do not want to until I am married. However, a guy that I am in a relationship makes me feel bad and calls me frigid.My family brought me up to not have sex until marriage, but most people my age don't understand that. I know that if I were to lose my virginity that I would feel extremely sorrowful and guilty if it was not to the person I was married to. I also feel like I need to be a positive role model for my sister. I feel as if I did that, then I could no longer giver her advice bc I would be living a lie.

Your thoughts please.

2007-08-10 19:26:41 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have this huge crush on a guy i've known for a year, everyone tells me that he likes me back....but i'm too scared to find out.....what should i do?

2007-08-10 19:25:33 · 63 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 13 going on 14 and I need money fast. I want to be a babysitter but it crossed my mind that if I did put up flyers that I would babysit people I didn't know.....well it doesn't sound safe. I don't want to be paronoid but I could make it so I could call my friend to tell her I was okay or something. I just need opinions on this.

2007-08-10 19:24:56 · 9 answers · asked by Mandy 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi i am getting married and i am looking at some wedding dresses. i found this really pretty one but it has a castillion train which is like 3 yards away from the waist. really long. i am 5'1'' and weigh about 90 pounds. it looks nice but i am worried. i am not getting married at a church so it will be an outside wedding. t the train too long for my wedding? or for my body? take a look at alfredangelo.com style 1929 please let me know what you think.

PS i am getting married in the summer of 08
and i don't like strapless cus i am too bony.

2007-08-10 19:22:18 · 9 answers · asked by avaladez 1 in Weddings

2007-08-10 19:22:15 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

One of my close friends has been going through some "regression" since someone close to him passed away. We've been friends for years and according to him and our friends, i was always the girl that "opened him up" - he felt comfortable w. me and could easily tell me things compared to other people where they would question him about things. He's a "shy" type with girls and keeps to himself with his own personal matters but open and outgoing with others.

Since we've met he's always adored/respected me. Earlier this year, i realized i felt the same way and he did, so we kinda "got together" (kisses/cuddles) and I was his first kiss (we're in our 20's). But after this, we decided not to rush and become friends. About a month later, he lost his friend and everything went downhill with out relatiionship.

The whole time i was just concerned about my friend and how he was doing; i didn't want anything else but for him to be okay and for us to be good friends again. Instead, he's been avoiding me the most - avoiding all his friends and only talking to "certain people" and i'm not included. He has no "problems" anymore, and he's back to this insecure, quiet guy who comes off as an a s s h o l e. The random times when we would talk now and then, he would be NORMAL but everytime he gets closer to me, he comes different - he's NORMAL with everyone else but with me, it's like i'm the plague and he wants to avoid getting sick...


Why doesn't he wanna get close again?

2007-08-10 19:19:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Currently, I am in a long distance relationship. However, I am gradually not wanting to allow him to visit. Now, I am 19 and I am a virgin and he is 20 and had been in a sexually relationship before. In the past, we talked about sex and he respected my decision to not do anything until marriage. However, now he is saying that I am frigid etc. I am worried bc he seems like he is becoming more and more aggressive/ aggravated w/o sex. Now, I am just curious to now if all men get upset when they are not getting any sex. I do not want to go and visit him and then he attempts to do something. He keeps telling me that men and women have urges that they just can't suppress. I know to an extent he is truthful, but that does not mean that a person can't control his/her sexual desires. I also feel that he is trying to persuade me to have sex. My question is.. do men typically get more upset and angry without sex?

2007-08-10 19:19:03 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well, I DO love my husband he is my world! He is my hero among other things. He is just so darn jealous. I have talked to him about this problem and he just gets very defensive. I have been told by friends and family that it is insecurity but he has nothing to be insecure about and I have told him over and over how much I love him. We have been together for 4 years married for 1 year. Here's an example : I found out today that an old friend of mine had passed away. I recieved an e mail on my myspace from another old friend (that was a man) telling me of the unfortunate incident. At the end of the email he wrote "by the way you still look great". I admit the statment was a little inapproprate but my hubby flew of the deep end when he read it. Oh yeah my hubby does check my e mails daily. Ok dont get me wrong my hubby is a very wonderful man. He is great to me and very loving. Just very jealous. What should I do? Am I going to have to wait for him to grow up? I want a happy marriage now

2007-08-10 19:18:32 · 10 answers · asked by Jenn 2 in Marriage & Divorce

after we get done talking, nothing ever gets done about what we talked about. Nothing changes except now we both know whats upsetting the other person. I don't know what to do anymore, I really need for more to happen. Any ideas? Does this happen to anyone else?

2007-08-10 19:17:46 · 16 answers · asked by dohm84 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-10 19:16:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-10 19:16:19 · 2 answers · asked by matthewweiss2006 1 in Singles & Dating