i have this huge crush on a guy i've known for a year, everyone tells me that he likes me back....but i'm too scared to find out.....what should i do?
2007-08-10 19:25:33 · 63 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask him!! The worst he can do is say no, and then you can just find someone cuter and sweeter to have a crush on. If he says yes, all those daydreams will have a chance to happen! Don't let fear or doubt humiliate you, just take a dive and see what happens. If you really really are shy about asking him, have a friend get it out of him or write him a note (I know, so junior high) but get it soon, because if he does like you, you don't want him to get away :) Good luck
2007-08-10 19:29:41 · answer #1 · answered by raybradluvr5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hitch™ says:
If you have known him that long, you shouldn't be afraid to hint to him how you feel. Don't play the 'friend' role. Play the 'potential girlfriend' role and see if he goes for it. There are ways to flirt without asking the person, and you can find out how they feel. Or, you can ask him straight up. The worst he can say is no. You have nothing to lose. You can move on to another crush after that. That's how these things happen. Get those butterflies out! At least you can say you tried, right? Good luck!
2007-08-10 19:32:28 · answer #2 · answered by Hitch™ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK..so you have known him for a year and you really like him...and just maybe he likes you back! Well look at it this way...you only have two options....make a move or don't. I think that if you really like something...then you have to go after it. You win NOTHING by sitting in the bleachers. I know...the fear of him not actually liking you can really be overwhelming...but so is not having an answer of a problem you really want solved. If it is your birthday soon..tell him you want him for your Birthday! Be creative and let him know how you feel. I think you will be surprised on how it turns out! Wink Wink!
You go girl!
2007-08-10 19:37:49 · answer #3 · answered by Dragonflyshan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think he'll persue you or is he too shy? If he seems shy and like if you want to know you'll have to make the first move plan a night out together for just the two of you. Set the mood right (i.e. a quiet dinner, rent a movie, etc.) Get to talking. Bring the conversation around to that. It's bound to come out. If you really feel uncomfortable with this have one of your friends drop hints to him that you like him too. Good luck.
2007-08-10 19:32:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 02:23:11 · answer #5 · answered by mangini 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be nice and friendly towards him. Ask him if he would like to go for a coffee somewhere. Show an interest in what he does for a living. Start talking about football, cricket, any sport that you think he might be interested in, but do a bit of homework first. If you can get him talking about himself, you are halfway there. Good luck.
2007-08-10 19:31:52 · answer #6 · answered by montysmum45 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to ask him "Hey do you like me?" that would be weird and probably come out all nervous and giggly...just talk to him as casually as you can and not for long periods of time, if you go balnk and can't think of what to say just say See ya later and leave, if he likes you then he'll start talking to you too and both of you can have longer conversations, then ask him for coffee or lunch maybe, don't even call it a date, and I agree friends make things way more complicated if they're included, I'd just ignore whatever they say
2007-08-10 19:30:51 · answer #7 · answered by B B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're too scared to find out if he's Mr. Right, then maybe you're not ready for a relationship. Life is full of leaps of faith. This is one of them. Worst case scenario....your friends were wrong, he's a complete asshole, and he laughs in your face.
If that's the case, step back and KNOW that you are better than him, and he doesn't deserve you.
Anything other than the worst case scenario...is a stepping stone. Good luck...and go for it!
2007-08-18 18:44:13 · answer #8 · answered by imrt70 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If in your culture, it is okay for a girl to approach a guy on matters of love and romance, then send him a short note saying something like:
"Hi (mention his name), I plan to visit (mention a place that might interest him). I was wondering if you would want to come with me." If he does come, begin slowly but progressively to reveal that you deeply care about him. If he cares in return, and is available, you might be on your way to a blissful love affair.
The above note to him suggests that he already knows you (though from a distance) as a neighbour, classmate, workmate, etc.
If his body language suggests he is not interested in a relationship, please do not force the issue. There is a time to love and a time to give up as lost. (Ecclesiastes 3:1)
2007-08-10 19:39:26 · answer #9 · answered by Professor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, sometimes we can have a crush on the wrong person--one that's not available, one that does not like us back, etc.
You have a crush, but why? Its a crush on an image, of what you would like the dude to be or what you think he's like. You need to get to know him before you emote on him so much. Men still like to be the one to confront the lady about his interest in her. So. . .you gotta wait.
2007-08-18 06:34:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋