Family & Relationships - 10 August 2007

What happened?

2007-08-10 16:40:59 · 33 answers · asked by maisie24 3 in Singles & Dating

Dosn't anyone realize that the only person they can change is themselves?

2007-08-10 16:38:11 · 6 answers · asked by box of rain 7 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been w/my bf for 7 years..we communicate well, amazingly still are in love and the sex has just gotten better and better through the years..I think if I told everyone the truth you might think I'm just lying..so I'll spare you guys the mooshy stuff.

Anyway, I've been married for a year and divorced before I met my current bf..I don't want to get married, ever..I just want to grow old with him, and vice versa..My opinion is, won't know who my soul mate is until we are old and gray and we can say to each other.."We have lived a full, great life, babe"..

When we met I did tell him that someday marriage or not I wanted an engagement ring to symbolize what I mean to him and this year he just went to Tiffany's and spent a fortune on a wonderful ring....yes, my friends tell me it's time for me to get married..and they always frown (even my neighbors) when I say there's no need right now..What's the deal with everyone- specially women??

2007-08-10 16:36:50 · 11 answers · asked by contessa 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-10 16:36:32 · 7 answers · asked by cuntholyo 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

what is the best way to get an orgasm?? what have you done to get one?

2007-08-10 16:36:16 · 9 answers · asked by Mason's Mommy 2 in Singles & Dating

When I was 19, I got involved with a man who was 36 (yes, he was married then). I loved him, but after about 3 months together, I broke things off. Still, over the next 3 years we hooked up with each other about once every couple of months. Sometimes more, sometimes less. We talked and laughed and loved. I was crazy about him and he was about me. I knew he could never leave his wife for me and I never asked him to. I always settled for what part of him I could get. When I was 22, I got married. This ended us for about 5 years. Then, we met up with each other again. I realized then that I still loved him very much. But, I had made a committment to my husband and I honored that committment. My problem is that I still love this other man. I think about him every day. I miss him so much sometimes that it breaks my heart. He called a couple of months ago and said he still loved me too. It's not about sex. We haven't had sex in 8 years. How do I get over him and move on?

2007-08-10 16:32:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-10 16:32:27 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i hate my mom. she always mkes me visit her on the weekends. i hav cheerleading tryouts on monday i just found out about. i refused to go 2 her house after a fighting her over it. now she wants 2 pick me up after tryouts. i said no but she is going 2 b there &try 2 pick me up. i just want her 2 freaking leave me alone!! i live with my dad and she keeps trying 2 guilt trip me & i hate it! i dont have 2 go if i dont want to. my dad is alwayz late 2 pick me up after cheer practice(i was a cheerleader last year 2. they just make us try out again) so my ma will b there on time & try 2 force me to come w/ her. itz happened b4 after skool. wut do i say wen i c her & she trys 2 take me w/ her?

2007-08-10 16:32:22 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

For those of us that like to lounge around naked, what do you do when naked? (dont give me the obvious crap that no one wants to hear like touching yourself). I just wondering if anyone does something funny or cool while lounging around!

2007-08-10 16:29:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I had my son 6 weeks ago and he was five weeks early. My son and I are now home after a long hospital stay and my husband has been spending 3 plus nights a week out and comes home around 3 am. Monday I told him he had to choose between having a family to come home to or going out everynight. It seemed like a hard decision after 2 days he promised he would stay home more and not stay out so late. Tonight I went to pick up my step son with my new born which lives over an hr each way. While on my way my husband called and said he was going to 'hang out' and he stated he and his friends were going to a race track 2 hrs away. He said they planned on leaving a 9pm and he would be home late. When I got upset he said Im trying to keep him from having friends. Is it wrong of me to expect him to stay home and help me with the kids? Anyone elses husband done something like this and what did you do? I love my husband but im not sure he loves me anymore. Any advice?

2007-08-10 16:26:26 · 20 answers · asked by J&A 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am friends with a guy and i am pretty sure he likes me. We get along well and we talk about our past love lives for some reason. We both seem to have baggage and he has a girl that he would still be with if she wasn't in jail. I've told him about the guy i like, and he is naturally flirty with all girls but appears jealous when i mention other guys, and i am only friends with him and i'm not flirty towards him, could he be getting the impression that i like him more than friends? I am not interested in him, should i stop hanging out with him?

2007-08-10 16:25:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do you suggest I do with my time?

2007-08-10 16:25:34 · 4 answers · asked by Cyal8r bye 1 in Family

This girl i like we were standing in a group i let her catch me looking at her b/c i want her to know i like her but when she caught me for like the 5th time she turned in my direction facing me, looking at me i stopped looking at her b/c i was nervous and didnt want to be offensive but I need to know what she ment when she did this oh and no words were spoken between us during the whole time and i know her but i dont really know her good. Oh and shes been flirty before with me as far as body languege like touching my arm while lauging. I hope she doesnt think im a perv.or something all i wanted to do was let her know im interested

2007-08-10 16:25:02 · 11 answers · asked by dhfdfg 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-10 16:24:12 · 51 answers · asked by phlebrcn 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ever since my mom was diagnosed with Celiac's Disease (it's a gluten allergy, gluten is found in wheat, rye, barely, oats) she has been on an even bigger health crusade than before. She keeps trying to diagnose me with all these different diseases or disorders and blames the problem on my past diet but I basically eat what she does now,( which are veggies, fruits, and meat) and it hasn't changed my personality like she thought so she is still trying to label me so she can find out why we don't get along, when I think it is just because we are both neurotic and stubborn but she won't stop and it's really upsetting our whole family, what's wrong with my mom

2007-08-10 16:23:30 · 3 answers · asked by Hannah_X5 1 in Family

For example some men who drives a vehicle normally see school girls on the streets going home and they would stop and offer them a drive home, in the end it turns out that the men rapped them.

2007-08-10 16:22:49 · 6 answers · asked by BASELINE 1 in Family

K so i was just married a little over a month ago. anyways my cousin who was i thought my maid of honor is who im mad at. K so 2 weeks before the wedding. me and her had it out. anyway she lives in az and i live in ca. i told her not to brother driving out with my mom from az to ca a week before the wedding unless she could get over our fight and move on. so anyways she came out early with my mom and when she was here she was litterally on the phone with her husband for 8-10 hours a day for 5 days and when my big day came she walked around telling everyone that she dosent think that she should of came for the wedding and the only reason that she stayed is because of my new husband. so she just receiently started sending me stupid junk emails this week . so today i replyed to one of them saying "CAYLA PLEASE TAKE ME OFF YOUR E-MAIL LIST" and she wrote back saying
what does this mean' and i said exactly what it says" am i just being a ***** or do i have the right to be a *****?

2007-08-10 16:21:48 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-08-10 16:20:10 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My brother is staying in my apartment until his condo is done. Has anybody watched You Me and Dupree? Well he's the Dupree in my life. He sleeps on the couch in the living room, but still chooses to wear nothing but boxers to sleep with NO BLANKET! Sometimes his crack shows, and makes it hard to eat breakfast. He does nothing but watch T.V. and eat and also drink out of the carton or bottle. He hogs the phone, T.V., computer and shower. He doesn't clean after himself, he invites his friends over without me knowing. He's my older brother, but he's acting like a little kid. He criticizes me and picks on me about the most immature things, then we fight just like when we were younger. The only time he acts like a big brother is when I bring home guys then he scares them away. Any suggestions how to deal with my brother?

have you ever had a family member so annoying, you want to tell them off?
how would you do it?

2007-08-10 16:17:31 · 7 answers · asked by Kina Kalinakailani 2 in Family

My sister in law and brother in law were trying to adopt a new born baby girl and for some reason the adoption fell thru about a week ago and they lost the baby girl. since this happened she will not talk to me or return our phone calls or text messages and we were behind them 100% even though we always didnt tell them that. I need to know what do i need to do as she was one person out of my husbands family i could truly trust and him and my hubby were super close and we are at a loss cause we miss the communication as we talked daily for hours and now nothing? please help me answer this and god bless each and everyone that answers...

2007-08-10 16:16:31 · 19 answers · asked by THE UK WILDCAT FAMILY 10 6 in Family

i work for an agency that cares for the elderly in their homes. 2 wks ago i started w/ a new consumer (btw ive worked for this company over 2 yrs) he is a very old mean man. he has no illnesses where he should be so mean. he cussed me out told me i was stupid (multiple times) and was just very vulgar and fowl. he also has a little dog that is trained to attack. when i got too close to the man the dog tried to attack me but luckily the man got him before the dog got me. i had to stand completely still until he got the dog preoccupied which took about 10 mins. on the first day of his services his dog bit one of r girls. i have expressed to my supervisorS that this concerns me and i feel it is a bad environment to work in and i refuse to work w/ him. i only work w/ him on sat.s they keep tellin me that if i dont go i lose my job. for over a wk i have been tryin to plea my case and b taken out yet again (after i was suppose to b out of there) i am told to go or else...should i go or just

2007-08-10 16:16:02 · 4 answers · asked by Jen 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm trying to determine what people think. I found a great lady and decided to marry her. She was in law school, so I moved across the country so she could finish after I quit a 6-figure income job. I have children in that state and they're young. I call them everyday. I have them out whenever I can. I pay my child support and alimony despite the fact that my ex left me. What do you think?

2007-08-10 16:15:44 · 12 answers · asked by PersonalImprov 2 in Marriage & Divorce

You bite your fingernails or pick at your hair. While these habits are annoying in nature and unnerving and frustrating to others, they aren’t as harmful to a marriage as the bad habits that married couples accumulate together. If you’re married, you’re probably familiar with the kinds of bad habits that can creep into your otherwise blissful union. Find out how to save your marriage from these common bad habits. Plus: What’s your movie star sex style or play girl books? when your wife ask you for sex and you say i dont need sex or if she has her butt showing this should turn his *** on but it dont again its your fault that we never had kidsPricelees Treasure tenderness that they will never have bad habits to him ,He can go in the bathroom and look at playgirl book and get trun on but not with his wife...... never has money she gets mad at him moves out, Divorce time never has the courage to tell her the truth that he lives in a gay life fighting always one big battle who gets this and that so lady's if you husband go to walmart late at night with out you he looks for blue light special lol,How can you go in a store with out money and shop? I would feel like a rejecte,I have alot of gay friends and i never did rejecte them i will be glad to say i am still your friend

2007-08-10 16:14:34 · 9 answers · asked by ladycenda2000 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-10 16:13:03 · 3 answers · asked by xoxo 2 in Singles & Dating

how many times maximum can a woman get in multiple orgasms?
I always ask my wife if she want another one after the second, but she always too exhausted

2007-08-10 16:12:21 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

towards the end of this year i was prettty much known for a slu* for doing some things

i dont want to start school off known as the slu* just a girl who want to have fun

if that makes any sence

2007-08-10 16:11:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The question is not about my grades, because I'm an A student. It's not about money, because I offered to pay for the expenses since I sold two of my laptops. The problem isn't my dad, it's my mom. She says I don't do anything around the house. i told her that she doesn't take notice of what I do. I am extremely busy with my career. I ma an actor and in between school, homework, acting homework and acting class, I can barely even find time to eat and sleep. let alone clean and do chores. I am so busy at times I eat late. What do i do? I need a break. I need to go to the concert.

2007-08-10 16:11:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am 21, my mom died last year of cancer. I hate to go to the grave, its depressing. How do you feel about it?

2007-08-10 16:10:57 · 22 answers · asked by Smiley 2 in Family

My ex is so cruel. He just came over to pick up the kids and told me that his girlfriend just lost a bunch of weight through weight watchers and now she's "too thin". I am on the heavy side. Me and my kids are living in a room together at my moms because he doesn't pay support and he told me that him and his girlfriend are going on a vacation. Then he told me that he is ripping up the deal that we signed for custody and everything and taking me to court all over again. He is a devil!!! How can I get over him once and for all??

2007-08-10 16:08:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

She is so mean, she used to be my BFF. Then she found another "BFF" Kelsie. And Kelsie hates me so now Shannon hates me too. We are out of school right now but I dont wanna go back coz she is turning everyone against me and calling me anorexic coz Im skinny (Im a vegitarian) and a lesbian. IM NOT ONE! I dont know what to do she is so horrible!

I have a few friends like Nicole, Katie, Cody, Marc, Nathan, and Matt (there's more) but Im afraid they will hate me too after her. A lot of people like her coz of me, its like she used me to get popularity then dumped me.

But I dont want any answers like " ignore her-or try being nice" coz Ive done that already she just pissed me off more and called me a lez. I have tons of friends but like harly any of them so to my school. I really need help! Its to the point where I am about to change schools. School is gonna start in like 25 days so I need answer NOW! please help me!

Sorry for any misspellings Im shaking a lil bit.

2007-08-10 16:05:12 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends