Family & Relationships - 10 August 2007

my bf had an arrange marriage he is from India he claims he did not no it was gonna happen until the his parents called and said this is what it is and he claims he had no clue prior to that call and then like a week or so later he had to get married i think he should have known like week or month prior

2007-08-10 19:15:00 · 6 answers · asked by princessangelgale 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-10 19:14:10 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ok, I have been with my fella for about 7 yrs. I am only 22 so you can imagine I have not "played the field" like most people my age. It has never bothered me before. I have been content in my grown up life with my kids and my job and my mortgage. Recently I have been feeling very resentful towards my partner and myself for missing out on those precious youthful experiences. I know it was entirely my choice to live the life i do and I suppose I think, "I made my bed so lie in it". I kinda spoke to him lastnite about it and he says if i wanna go live the single life for a while its fine because he doesn't want me to sdo it behind his back???? How can it be? Surely he is just saying that to test me, if I actually said, "OK see ya in a couple of months after I've shag*ed half the town" the relationship would be ruined regardless of whether I did it behind his back or not? I just cannot stop thinking that I will live for the rest of my life with regrets, your thoughts people please?

2007-08-10 19:11:58 · 20 answers · asked by Banny Grasher 4 in Marriage & Divorce

ok, i am 13, and my dads birthday is tomorrow.. everyone makes a huge deal about his birthday and my mom is planning a big dinner, and her birthday is on the 15th (about 4 days) and she told me that she feels bad and that she feels she is secondary.. everyone comes for my dad says OH! HEY GARY HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!, oh here is your gift liz. i love my mom so much and want to figure out how i could make her feel specail.. today at my dads work (paris hotel director of all operations) everyone came with a cake and presents, i dont find it fair bc my mom gets ignored.. my dad still does not know what to do for her birthday and she has been planing his for... like a week or two. i want to make her feel specail and make her a cake, and i am knitting her a scarf... but i still dont think it is enough. please help i feel so bad and i want her to know how much i love her. she is the best and my dad is too, but i think he could share the love with her..
ty in advanced everyone
please nothing rude

2007-08-10 19:07:19 · 4 answers · asked by meg 2 in Family

Pick your favourite from each pair
tall or short
skinny or curvy (not necessarily fat)
brunette(red and black here to) or blonde
pale or tan
hyper or chill
warm body temp or cold

2007-08-10 19:02:48 · 6 answers · asked by Pandora 3 in Singles & Dating

young people online, just to chat with. seems like everyone (men) is always after the same thing.

i just want a good, healthy conversation once in a while. sometimes its easier to talk to strangers (sometimes, you have to be careful) because they wont judge or criticize you.

2007-08-10 19:02:03 · 6 answers · asked by maya 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is going to college in a town two hours from my college town. He shares a two bedroom apartment with three roommates. There are two twin beds in each bedroom and they have a large sofa in the living room. I have been dating my boyfriend for a year, and have known two of his three roommates for at least a year. I feel very comfortable and close to them all, like they're my brothers. Whenever I visit my boyfriend, I sleep on the sofa, or in bed with him. However, my mother who lives near MY college town, says that she worries people will think I am a "bad" girl with a dirty repuation, because I spend every other weekend staying in an apartment where the male female ratio is 4:1. I say that it doesn't matter, she says it does and people will look down on me. Any advice? I love my boyfriend very much and we are discussing an engagment. Do I just ignore my mother, or should I find somewhere else to stay while I visit him to "save face"?

2007-08-10 19:01:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

......if you really like (or love) someone because I'm just very very confused about if I like this girl or if I dont I'm scared because she told me she considers me like her the brother she never had.

2007-08-10 18:59:20 · 10 answers · asked by First L 1 in Singles & Dating

I missed her, I left her in mumbai. I went far away to ferget her.
In the last 17 years I could not forget her, her memories are
always with me .what can I do ?

2007-08-10 18:43:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

hmmm....i know that this guy likes me too...but how can i tell him that i like him too....in different way....i want to notice me...because he is just looking at me...we didnt talk...

2007-08-10 18:42:14 · 1 answers · asked by michelle^^ 2 in Singles & Dating

For those of you who have done some not so good things in the past....Have you ever stolen anything from someone you love? If so, how did you make it up to them and regain their trust?

If all you have is something bad to say about it then please don't answer at all. Thank you!

2007-08-10 18:35:58 · 11 answers · asked by Mom22 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

please reply

2007-08-10 18:29:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What would you do if a family member just died ..he was in the ARMY. then someone you thought couldnt be so horrible said without thinking only real men join the marines.. then he tells you he was joking around.. what would your reaction be?? would u be pissed?? i kinda slapped him then ran away and cried.. and i mean he knew what is going on its my aunts bf.. .. what would yer reaction be ? would it be different.. then he kinda is just being an ***.. i mean today i have cied ... A loT snd he knew that.. HELP ME!!!

2007-08-10 18:27:47 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-10 18:27:23 · 8 answers · asked by Heart 1 in Weddings

My friend is getting married, and her sister is throwing her a lingerie shower but she already has so much lingerie. What kind of gifts could I give that may be good for pampering or something of the like?

2007-08-10 18:25:38 · 20 answers · asked by flossiemae324 2 in Weddings

Would you devorce if your husband loves you like a crazy, but due to financial situation you should live with your in-laws, who don't accept you?

2007-08-10 18:25:10 · 15 answers · asked by booboo 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-10 18:22:03 · 14 answers · asked by Pinkie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I went on a float trip with my x boyfriend who we are just friends now with the understanding that who knows if we could ever get back together or not.We were with a group of 5 girls 2 guys.We were drinking and on the subject of boobs because on member of the group had had a breast reduction and one had a boob lift.These girls decided to show us their boobs and we were all just laughing and having fun and they said come on you do it too.So i gave em a flash.i have never done anything like that before and it is out of character for me.After i did this, the X floated ahead of us and went back to camp.when i got back,he said,what did you do after i left show them your P***Y and have sex with them.i walked away.He continued to be stupid and embarassed me badly in front of my friends because i had flashed.Hesaid it was disrespectful to him and he could not believe i would do that.He told one of the people there something i had told him in privacy.i guess to pay me back.

2007-08-10 18:16:15 · 19 answers · asked by nousernamesleft 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-10 18:10:35 · 83 answers · asked by llgii i 1 in Singles & Dating

What are some things that turn you on, But in ways other then sexual or touching. Soo lik ehair, make up, eyes, lips

2007-08-10 18:07:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Are you attracted to them?

I am not bald.

2007-08-10 18:04:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Questions for bachelors in their 30s: When you're in a new relationship, do you want to call your girl every night? Can a nightly phone call be expected or is that too needy?

2007-08-10 18:04:01 · 11 answers · asked by Little Buttercup 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-10 18:03:19 · 29 answers · asked by Lost 1 in Marriage & Divorce

you would be saving twice as much money, is a better neigborhoood, and in a year or so i would be able to afford to buuy my own property.. im Very confused..

2007-08-10 17:59:35 · 9 answers · asked by agentaita1 2 in Singles & Dating

I can choose who to stay with I just love both of them the same and I just unsure and they both make me happy what should I do?

2007-08-10 17:57:25 · 1 answers · asked by brandon m 1 in Singles & Dating

I have done a lot of positive changes in my life these past few years. My mom and I have gotten along off and on my whole life. She tends to be controlling, judgemental, and critical. My dad and I get along well. Anyway, this past week I was thinking of my relationship with her, and realized that even though I love her because she is my mom, I don't really like her. When I try to think of ANYTHING we have in common, I can't come up with anything. I have wanted to talk to a therapist about this, but am waiting until I have health coverage. I fell like the way she raised me is the exact opposite of what I have become and I don't really agree with her beliefs. On top of this, she calls and complains endlessly about my dad. He works too much, is ever around, blah blah.... It's so frustrating. I can set up boundaries with her but she crosses them evertime. I am in my late twenties and married, but she still wants me to call her when I get home from visting her. Contd....

2007-08-10 17:57:23 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i lov a person and he also loves me very much but i havent tell him that i love him coz my parents will not be ready for our marriage plzzzzzzz tell me what to do should i tell yes to him or not

2007-08-10 17:55:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have court on tuesday, and need to know what to do, i just found out i failed a urine screening..?
And i have been the primary parent since my children were born, their father left for 4 years, and came back with what id call "Balls", to try to get SOLE custody...
We had our first court date, in which the judge was informed that he called CPS on me, but CPS did not even open a case. He told them im addicted to prescription medication, in which i do take due to being hit 2 x's in 7 months by drunk drivers , left me with 3 herniated disks in my neck, pretty painful, but manageable. My dr. gave CPS a letter explaining the medications, and i was issued two drug tests, hair and urine both times, 1st one i failed because they did not ask me if i was on ANY medication at all, so they all came up, after we established what i been taking, my second test , both in hair , and in urine, were clean?
And the weirdest part , , , , i had been coming up for Meth amphedimine?
Which when my ex said he wants me to get tested again, IN COURT, it came up again.. AND IM SO SCARED.
what can i do???

2007-08-10 17:55:16 · 5 answers · asked by sassygrl702 1 in Family

Ok, So im 17 and in 5 months im gonna be 18 but i no i wanna go into the army... my mom said it was my decision and i think it is too... but all of a sudden shes like ur gonna hafta wait till ur 18 cause im not signing any papers for you... i think thats selfish for her because i no what i wanna do with my life and just because he dont want me to do it shes gonna try stoppin me from doing it.... i mean i think its my life and i should be able to do it... shouldnt i??? what do u think?

2007-08-10 17:51:28 · 21 answers · asked by sweetz 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i feel like that i am doing something wrong.should i do something to make it so he enjoys it more? should i confront him about it? we have sex about 3-4 times a week. i don't know if we are doing it much and maybe should take a break from having sex for a few days. he's the first guy i have ever been with and i'm the first girl he's ever been with, so we both don't have that much experience. any ideas on what i should do?

2007-08-10 17:51:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating