I missed her, I left her in mumbai. I went far away to ferget her.
In the last 17 years I could not forget her, her memories are
always with me .what can I do ?
2007-08-10 18:43:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
firstly I salute ur love its great! I can gauge and sincerity of ur emotion, anyone can but your lady love not cared for such a wonderful heart u have anyway it is loss for both of u but she is at more loss than u because finding someone who loves u truely is very rare. I think it must be one sided love otherwise she may have at least attempted to meet u at least once in all those seventeen years she may have never remembered u. She dont care for u. Listen dear sometimes destiny play a cruel joke on us. Something like "Man proposes nad God disposes" life is like that but tell me why to cry for a person who dont have even a single emotion for u. Life is to precious to waste on someone who dont care for us. I know it is more difficult to overcome such intense emotion but you have to do it by accepting challnage till now by remembering her once and again u have hurt yourself million times now its time for u to reward for yourself dont feel pity. Start a fresh life again. Goodluck.
2007-08-11 04:30:07 · answer #1 · answered by sami s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a Picture of your self from 17 years ago, and look in the mirror. Do you look the same? No.
How many sit ups, push ups, pull ups and miles could you run 17 years ago with out tiring? How about today?
How many times a day could you make love 17 years ago, (go ahead and count self-gratification sessions too if you were away from her too long). When was the last time you had sex now-a-days?
17 years ago you could propably name every top 50 song on the radio, and sing along and you knew all the lyrics and could dance to every one of the Hits, and you had a romantic memory associated which each of those great old songs. OK name 5 of the top 50 rock songs on Billboard Magazines Charts right now. Name 1 that you know the lyrics to. Name the last YEAR you c an remember that a new song came out that YOU DID LIKE, and tell me what was the Song Name and Artist?
What was your waist size 17 years ago? What is it now? What did you used to do on the week ends 17 years ago - and what do you do these days on the weekends?
If people had asked your political affiliation then, I'm willing to bet you would have said "Democrat", now if you are a successful businessman, the answer might well be "Republican".
The Point is that we all change, we evolve as we age, our tastes and outlooks tend to change, to mellow, to expand our horizons, to be less tolerant, to become more tolerant, to be more rigid, to be less up-tight, to be less concerned with the details, to become detail orientated, - etc. So I think that it is entirely that while you both may have fond meories of one another, what you had at one time is long past, she is more that likely married now, rai
sing a family, looking forward to grandchildren in the not to distant future.
And what of you and how you have conducted your life? Good God man have you spent the last 17 years mooning for what might have been? You are in love with an obsession, a stylized memory of something that your psyche has created from a distortion of what might have been a sweet and innocent romance long ago into a twisted, desperate, and pathetic unhealthy fixation. I suggest you get professional help to get beyond this obsession, before you do something illegal or dangerous to your self.
2007-08-11 02:59:34 · answer #2 · answered by jtrall25 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cherish the memories and still find the joy in every new day. I know where you're at. I've been missing someone I will never be with for two years, now. Real love doesn't die. It redefines, with time. 17 years is a lot of time, indeed. Some are in our life for a season. Some for a lifetime. All leave an indelible mark and a lesson learned. I find some comfort knowing that I loved that hard and that it was real and tangible. I lost. But, damn, didn't I love!!!
2007-08-11 01:48:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Accept the fact you loved her and that you are not going to forget her .Remeber the good times and enjoy your memories of the past but move on look to the future knowing you had love in the past and can again .
2007-08-11 01:52:48 · answer #4 · answered by dishwashingqueen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to forgot her its Ur life but don't think that she come back to U. Because may she is very happily living in some part of world. So be happy and move on in Ur life for make happy to her.
2007-08-11 01:56:53 · answer #5 · answered by romy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a long time, it scares me that you still don't have an answer for this yourself, but maybe you do. My advice to you: find someone else. You might never forget your old friend, but in time you will have someone else that you wont want to forget.
2007-08-11 01:56:56 · answer #6 · answered by 5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget her man!!! Its been so long...you need to move on. If she felt the same about you don't you think she would have come for you???
2007-08-11 01:49:17 · answer #7 · answered by ♥♥♥GODDESS♥♥♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just think that if she has little bit of Ur craze she may recalled u so it is better to Ur mind away from her
2007-08-11 02:07:07 · answer #8 · answered by dinesh k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go and see her one time. talk 2 her freely. find out her situation. if every thing is normal. then move with her.
2007-08-11 02:00:24 · answer #9 · answered by bharath 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
search her ,if not keep loving her. she will definitely feel ur love and also she wont forget u
2007-08-11 01:50:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋