I went on a float trip with my x boyfriend who we are just friends now with the understanding that who knows if we could ever get back together or not.We were with a group of 5 girls 2 guys.We were drinking and on the subject of boobs because on member of the group had had a breast reduction and one had a boob lift.These girls decided to show us their boobs and we were all just laughing and having fun and they said come on you do it too.So i gave em a flash.i have never done anything like that before and it is out of character for me.After i did this, the X floated ahead of us and went back to camp.when i got back,he said,what did you do after i left show them your P***Y and have sex with them.i walked away.He continued to be stupid and embarassed me badly in front of my friends because i had flashed.Hesaid it was disrespectful to him and he could not believe i would do that.He told one of the people there something i had told him in privacy.i guess to pay me back.
2007-08-10 18:16:15 · 19 answers · asked by nousernamesleft 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he was jealous of you and didn't want the other guys looking at you like that.......... he must really have some feelings for you.
never let anyone pressure you into doing something that is against your values............
2007-08-18 17:51:49 · answer #1 · answered by tennessee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cannot understand what the big deal is - why DID you show your boobs to those other people. You are not very grown up and it is a situation that should be embarrasing to you. If the X was upset, I do not blame him you need to stop with the kids stuff, no one is really interested in your boobs anyway, they just want to make fun of you and draw you into their stupidity. You hanging melons do not interest anyone anyway in a sincere manner. By the way. YOU are the complete jerk.
2007-08-19 00:05:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok.. first off ..don't fall into doing what everyone else does, like boob flashing .. you might be playing around, but.it can get you into things that you are not ready for or don't want. Not smart.
2nd. Your x still cares about you. Maybe or maybe not as a GF, but he got hurt, watching you show yourself to someone else, even if you felt it meant nothing. He acted out in jealousy. You need to figure out how you feel and decide how you really feel about the relationship and, either way, talk to him. He may be hard to talk to for a bit, because he is hurt. It's best to at least respect the past relationship and talk to him.
2007-08-18 23:54:57 · answer #3 · answered by Bev T 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's an ex for a reason, he had no right to speak to you that way.
So you had a little fun and flashed some breast. BFD
If he can't take that then he isn't worth even thinking of getting back together with.
Find someone else who isn't a jerk.
2007-08-11 07:47:57 · answer #4 · answered by Terri 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No...you made a decision and let people use peer pressure to push you to do what you ordinarily wouldn't...you said so yourself...and in the process you stepped over the line of what your ex boyfriend finds acceptable.
You actually showed him a side of yourself, he didn't like and he let you know it. My guess is you have really hurt the possibility of any future relationship because to him it lacked respect for yourself most of all.
Sorry...think you blew it! You should never let "people" determine you own values.
2007-08-18 21:54:30 · answer #5 · answered by samantha 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think because he was your ex boyfriend at the time you did this, he should have never said anything to you and should never even got mad. Because he did get mad and retaliate, it's obvious that he still loves you. I don't think girls or guys should be exposing themselves in front of other people, friends or not, it kinda demeans yourself and makes you look like your not in control of yourself, but, even though I don't think you should have shown everyone your goods, doesn't mean I think what he said and did to you is right. I think both of you were wrong in what yall did, but he definately should have kept his mouth shut.
2007-08-11 01:26:34 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
darl he was just jelous that the other guys seen yr boobs im sure if the girls asked to see the other guys willies and they showed then asked him 2 he would have too, dont be to hard on yourself and forgive him 2 he just was hurt at the time and we all say things that hurt when we hurting inside, just promise him you didnt mean to upset him and youl'l never do a silly thing like that again and tell him how embarrased you were when you did it if he doesnt forgive you then perhaps there is more to this than his letting on or he is a imature guy who needs to grow up, and if he doesnt forgive you then you lost nothing darl ive had girls do worst things then that and i forgave them cause i loved them very much and they loved me 2 at the time, but unfortunately that didnt stop them from hurting me again and again till i couldnt forgive them anymore but hey ..... thats my story hehehe dont strees of wat you did it happened same as wat yr boy friend did if you love each other just forgive and forget
2007-08-18 22:34:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Screw HIM! He is your ex boyfriend for a reason.
Did you get imbarassed?? Dont worry about what that jerk says honey, being spontanious is HOT. Disrespectful my ***.
You need to let sleeping dogs lay! Move on to someone that enjoys life. And as far has what he said about whatelse you may have showed them, he's jelious that he aint getting it any more!
2007-08-11 01:26:59 · answer #8 · answered by benowensby28 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
He's a complete jerk. However, expect that some guys will be jealous and won't want you flashing your body where everyone can see it, particularly if they are younger and not as mature.
2007-08-11 01:22:51 · answer #9 · answered by Marc M 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ok he is just being a total ***. he had no right to do that to u. it was ur choice to flash and he shouldnt have gotten all up in ur face. and he defanitly shouldnt have told them that secret.
u didnt do anything wrong. hes just being a total jerk about it
Just ignore him, he sounds like a total territorial ***. Just let him be an *** and forget about it.
2007-08-11 01:25:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋