ok, i am 13, and my dads birthday is tomorrow.. everyone makes a huge deal about his birthday and my mom is planning a big dinner, and her birthday is on the 15th (about 4 days) and she told me that she feels bad and that she feels she is secondary.. everyone comes for my dad says OH! HEY GARY HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!, oh here is your gift liz. i love my mom so much and want to figure out how i could make her feel specail.. today at my dads work (paris hotel director of all operations) everyone came with a cake and presents, i dont find it fair bc my mom gets ignored.. my dad still does not know what to do for her birthday and she has been planing his for... like a week or two. i want to make her feel specail and make her a cake, and i am knitting her a scarf... but i still dont think it is enough. please help i feel so bad and i want her to know how much i love her. she is the best and my dad is too, but i think he could share the love with her..
ty in advanced everyone
please nothing rude
2007-08-10 19:07:19 · 4 answers · asked by meg 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
OH! another thing.. i keep asking my dad what he is gonna do for her birthday, he is like.. idk. it gets annoying after asking him so many times in one week and still not getting an answer
2007-08-10 19:11:52 · update #1
write her a personal note. tell her how much you love her. make her feel special. seriously just a note to her. she will love it no matter what.
2007-08-10 19:12:33 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pull dad on the side and tell him he has to get on the ball! Mom would love a special dinner out so she doesn't have to cook or clean up! She would like your dad to plan a special day for her at a local spa. How about a gathering of close friends and family? You could make the calls to get them to come and he can call and pay for a catered meal from her favorite restaurant.
A letter from you telling her how you think she is special and sharing a favorite memory of her would be a treasured gift, also. You gotta tell dad that mom needs some special time from him, too!
Best of luck in creating a memory for mom. You sound like a wonderful, caring daughter and she is lucky to have you in her life!
2007-08-11 02:15:58 · answer #2 · answered by dizzkat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My man is on the 3rd and mine is on the 12 of April. I KNOW how she feels!!! Family can always make it 4 the 1st bday but not the 2nd. U know how 2 knit? That is great!!!! Go get your pics taken together.
2007-08-11 02:13:53 · answer #3 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your dad and plan something big for her. Maybe ask her good friends over, decorate the place... so long its from you guys, she'll love it no matter what! Give her a day off, do the house work and all!
2007-08-11 02:10:58 · answer #4 · answered by journeytopolaris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋