i feel like that i am doing something wrong.should i do something to make it so he enjoys it more? should i confront him about it? we have sex about 3-4 times a week. i don't know if we are doing it much and maybe should take a break from having sex for a few days. he's the first guy i have ever been with and i'm the first girl he's ever been with, so we both don't have that much experience. any ideas on what i should do?
2007-08-10 17:51:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should talk about it with your partner.
Don't ask us.
Talk to him and you two should work it out perfectly.
2007-08-10 17:56:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex as many other things, looses some of its original shine with the time, the magic of discovering it goes away, and then is all about you and him. Don't take me wrong... sex is always attractive and cool, it just can't stay the samething it was at the beginning. You can try new formulas, there are thousands of things, but at certain point you will find yourself making some crazy staff you have never imagine, and you will reach the same point you are now without new answers. In my opinion, the only formula is trying to have an open relationship, trying to be comfortable, look what are his expectations about the relationship and try to make him comfortable with you. As he will enjoy his time with you in all meanings, he will also enjoy having sex with you. Sometimes add an ingredient, sometimes make something different, not to often, don't play all the cards in the first draw, always keep one as with you, don't use it in a bad moment, I wil suggest the opposite... when things seem to be good, make them better, that will avoid the magic to die.
Good luck!
2007-08-10 18:14:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he's bored of it being like a routine, scheduled in on certain nights, right before bed...Make it more spontaneous. Wake him up in the morning in a special way*..Perhaps getting some books from the library to help you lay out a special romantic evening for just the two of you..and try different things to set the mood for your boyfriend....talk openly with him , ask him what is his fantasy? what makes him revved up enough to try something new and exciting*~ Bring some spontaniouty into the relationship..spice it up a knotch* :) keep on smilin*>hope that helped*~
2007-08-10 18:02:29 · answer #3 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There could be medical motives for an extremely low intercourse tension and there could be psychological motives besides. the terrific difficulty to do could be for the two one among you to pass to a psychologist or surgeon that focuses on sexual treatment. additionally, there are drugs which could have decreased libido (intercourse tension) and or anorgasmia (loss of sensation and challenge accomplishing an orgasm) as element effects. do no longer assume that he's gay or bi. consistent with risk he's depressed and needs to get on an antidepressant (if it is the case, Serzone and Wellbutrin have low incidences of sexual element effects). If he's depressed and you recommend he's gay or bi and he's no longer, you have in basic terms given him yet another something to rigidity approximately. melancholy would reason decreased intercourse tension. i'm hoping something i've got reported has helped.
2016-12-11 16:45:29 · answer #4 · answered by russ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because once a guy gets the free sex he looked for he looses interest.
2007-08-10 17:58:08 · answer #5 · answered by Missy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he thinks your not having a good time so he is trying to make you happy lol. Ask him would be the best.
2007-08-10 17:55:54 · answer #6 · answered by Will999909 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you kid 25 ?sex 3-4 a week be naked on the street?stupid even your not married it is aganist the law
2007-08-10 17:58:52 · answer #7 · answered by LiLGiRL#14 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
three to four times a week is probably more than the average person...I certainly wouldn't start worrying :) Just try and enjoy it, follow his lead, or ask him what his sexual fantasy is, I'm sure he would love to tell you
2007-08-10 17:56:38 · answer #8 · answered by Megan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have sex for a bit, tease him have fun! Then when you guys do have sex, it'll be that much more special, rather than routine.. haha.
2007-08-10 17:55:40 · answer #9 · answered by Ally 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
is the fooling around foreplay? if it is, maybe you should lay back and enjoy it a little more and quit complaining foreplay for some women is "get ready".
2007-08-10 17:57:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋