Family & Relationships - 10 August 2007

If it's not true. I study in Harvard, like reading and sports and can speak 5 languages, but men don't seem to appreciate it. They don't want to go out with me because I'm not phisichally appealing in any sense. I don't have a pretty face but an average, I'm 5`11, very thin, 34aaa bra size, flat bootie and no hips.

All men around me go out with curvy or at least busty chicks even when they're dumb (I don't mean that curvy means dumb). Do any of you get interested in a girl just because she is smart without caring for her beauty?

2007-08-10 20:59:40 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

when they are
they get shy give you a half smile very Quiet around you
it is anoyin i dnt kno if he lyks me.
but ilyk him.

2007-08-10 20:52:20 · 15 answers · asked by =P te-he 3 in Singles & Dating

We are coming up to 10 years married and I would like to arrange a renewal ceremony, how much is this are we just paying for registrar or do you still pay for paperwork? Any nice different ideas on how to hold it would be welcome too thx

2007-08-10 20:49:34 · 13 answers · asked by rdm cherubs 2 in Weddings

I need a nice thank you message for someone...(an elderly neighbour) for her giving me a double bed frame she no longer wanted and that i needed. some times a verbal thank you just isn't enough.

2007-08-10 20:45:14 · 6 answers · asked by tracieisland 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-10 20:42:45 · 6 answers · asked by elvas41 1 in Singles & Dating

whats so good about sex? i mean... blah!

2007-08-10 20:38:27 · 35 answers · asked by Gwen Q 1 in Singles & Dating

of my 15 year old niece who is currently in another foster home along with her two other sisters? I am her mother’s identical twin sister, or Aunt, and the foster mother doesn’t like my neice, so she complains about her to the social workers so that they will remove her from the home. However, by doing so, they will be tearing her away from her sisters whom she loves very much. She is a good kid, a victim of abuse at the hands of grandparents, and I want to intervene before this really messes the poor kid up. Any suggestions?

2007-08-10 20:36:23 · 3 answers · asked by Mysteri O 3 in Family

She said this while going through her divorce which I can understand. But I think she could have the wrong intentions with this guy.

2007-08-10 20:36:15 · 3 answers · asked by Michelle Y 1 in Singles & Dating

One of my close friends has been going through some "regression" since someone close to him passed away. We've been friends for years and according to him and our friends, i was always the girl that "opened him up" - he felt comfortable w. me and could easily tell me things compared to other people where they would question him about things. He's a "shy" type with girls and keeps to himself with his own personal matters but open and outgoing with others.

Since we've met he's always adored/respected me. Earlier this year, i realized i felt the same way and he did, so we kinda "got together" (kisses/cuddles) and I was his first kiss (we're in our 20's). But after this, we decided not to rush and become friends. About a month later, he lost his friend and everything went downhill with out relatiionship.

The whole time i was just concerned about my friend and how he was doing; i didn't want anything else but for him to be okay and for us to be good friends again. Instead, he's been avoiding me the most - avoiding all his friends and only talking to "certain people" and i'm not included. He has no "problems" anymore, and he's back to this insecure, quiet guy who comes off as an a s s h o l e. The random times when we would talk now and then, he would be NORMAL but everytime he gets closer to me, he comes different - he's NORMAL with everyone else but with me, it's like i'm the plague and he wants to avoid getting sick...


Why doesn't he wanna get close again?

2007-08-10 20:36:07 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if yes..why?

2007-08-10 20:33:38 · 5 answers · asked by pink_b 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i always seem to meet guys and then we hook up and thats it.
How can i meet a guy that genuinely likes me and just wants to hang out and have a good time?

2007-08-10 20:31:43 · 11 answers · asked by vintagecrayon21 2 in Singles & Dating

he has been the best guy for me.he truly understand me.i have no prob with him and i feel so happy.it's like the best thing ever happen to me.we have the same interest,we even say the same thing sometimes,he loves me so much,cares for me & knows how to take my heart.even when i'm angry or sad or i'm not in d mood for anything he just knew it by the tone of my voice.i truly in love with him but we have a prob.in malaysia we can't get married without convert especially when he's a muslim.any suggestion marrying outside malaysia and no need to convert..?pls help me..

2007-08-10 20:31:00 · 9 answers · asked by mikala 1 in Singles & Dating

that makes me really mad and upset i feel like crap it even got to the point that i dont want to go out with him on the streets i told him not to do that when i am there he said thats how he is he just looking around not at the girls but its so obvios hes looking at them one more thing I NOTICE THAT HIS THING GETS HARD WHEN WE ARE ON THE STREETS IT THAT NORMAL like why that happens its because he looks at other women if so what should i do

2007-08-10 20:26:46 · 11 answers · asked by picis_nyc 1 in Singles & Dating

do you think its ok for guy's and girls to be friends cause my friend taylor thinks i cant just be friends with guys that i will go out with them some time or another

2007-08-10 20:22:59 · 19 answers · asked by magan m 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-10 20:22:50 · 27 answers · asked by SHASHI K 1 in Singles & Dating

say for instance, you've been running the streets(not running the streets anymore) and this guy had been trying to talk to you for two years.YOu finally give him the number recently but he only wants to meet in the morning time, spend a couple hours and then leave.I'm not with the booty call stuff and it seems that way with him.He tells me he doesnt just want a booty call but I think otherwise.What should I do?I already told him I dont want just a bootycall.

2007-08-10 20:21:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it ever possible to have a bad break up with someone and still be sex friends? I am just curious because the relationship I was just in, for a long time, was really about sex. and not mediocre sex either.

2007-08-10 20:18:47 · 6 answers · asked by Lisa K 3 in Singles & Dating

My Hubby cheated 7mth ago.We talked it over and decided to work it out.I can't get over it.what should I do? I mean before we got married I told him that I hated cheaters. Im trying to deal with it...but I don't think Im going to last...I cry like everyday...just the thought of him touching another women make me sick to my stomach. I really believe that he means it when he says hes sorry and It won't happen again but the trust is gone. I want it to work because I really love my husband but Im afarid that If I keep nagging him when ever I get up set its going to push him away.

what should I do to get over this?

2007-08-10 20:18:33 · 14 answers · asked by MEME 2 in Marriage & Divorce

we've been close friends for years and he's always "adored"/respected me (according to our friends it was "obvious"). girls always looked at him as "just a friend" and never a boyfriend. he's a typical "shy guy"yet he's outgoing with friends but very picky on who he likes. He's never had a girlfriend or a girl like him so he's never really been the type to "make a move" or has he had experience. Once he likes someone, he's very loyal and even though girls underestimate him and he's a "latebloomer", he'd make a great boyfriend.

earlier this year, I realized that i started having deeper feelings for him and after all these yrs, he STILL felt the same way so we kinda "hooked up" (no sex, innocent just kisses). I'm the first girl and only that's ever liked him and back and is the cloeset thing he'll get to in a real relationship; and his first kiss. i was so surprised because with me, he was so COMFORTABLE and calmly confident. He adored me with sweet little affectionate expressions.

Sometimes I feel like he needs more reassurance than me - for as long as we've known each other, guys have always tried to get with me and HE was the only there for me. He's insecure about his body so sometimes i feel HE thinks that i'll leave him if there's someone who loves me more or is "better". He always makes it a point that i'm a pretty girl and he gets intimidated...

if you put all those things together: latebloomer, shy, insecure, inexperienced, loyal...does he need reassurance? am i special to him?

2007-08-10 20:17:10 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Would you say, meeting up with your boyfriend, going to the beach, going bike riding, reading together, cooking dinner and then watching a movie and then falling asleep together. OR
meeting up, going to the beach, laying out, getting margaritas, maybe have a cig or two, going home having sex then getting ready to go out to a party, then coming home and passing out.
hmmm....

2007-08-10 20:15:49 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met my boyfriend at work. I've been with him for about 6 mos. His job requires driving all day cuz he's a tech. I just get to see him an hour in the morning, and communicate with throughout the day when he has to call the office. And then I'll get to see him after work sometimes. Sometimes I feel like he's embarrassed of me or he doesn't want to take me out anywhere. Or he's being too cheap. I'm always initiating going out. But rarely does he do. I know he's tired sometimes. But then he goes to the bar with his buddies with no hesitation, then at night he'd call me back. Which he did twice in a role when I had told him I wanted to do something. And the next day he's broke for me. I understand guys need that space. But what about me. I want to be able to be like the guys. But he says he doesn't want to take me to the bar and drink crazy. He likes me cuz I'm "innocent". What should I do w/o complaining.

2007-08-10 20:14:05 · 4 answers · asked by littleasiangirl2007 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiancee drives a truck for a living. He leaves early in the morning and is home every night. He loves his job and makes decent money. The problem is that I worry about him constantly when he is out on the truck. I try very hard not to call too often because I know that he is working but occasionally i break down and call to check on him. If he doesn't answer, I really start to worry.

The problem is that I know for a fact that he doesn't wear a seatbelt. Every morning before he leaves my last words are "I love you" and "be careful". If I forget to say it, I will call and tell him or text it to him. I don't want to be a paranoid crazy person, but this is a real fear for me. What can I do?

2007-08-10 20:12:50 · 6 answers · asked by Been here before 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

How do you keep a guy intrigued with you once you have had sex with him? How do you make him feel like he still has to pursue you..Cause I know guys lose interest once they think they have you totally...How can I make him think he is still chasing me?

2007-08-10 20:11:51 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this can put my work at risk...

2007-08-10 20:09:52 · 4 answers · asked by flor de mayo 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok, so basically when me and my boyfriend broke up I met this guy a FRIEND guy, I never had intentions of being more than friends. He just made me laugh and we had good times drinking and he took my mind off my ex. Well me and my ex got back together and now I feel bad ever hanging out wiht him because my ex doesn't know abou thim and he keeps texting me, that other guy asking to hang out and go out, for drinks. Is it bad that I go out with this guy and have drinks if were just friends? For some reason I feel bad if i did it. I text him back just saying that Im going to sleep. But if I were to hang out with him behind my boyfriend's back.....what is this? So weird....am i bad?

2007-08-10 20:09:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have this co-worker, we're good friends at work but dont see each other outside work., anyway, i think she likes me, she'll blurt out something provocative sometimes towards me. she'll call me hott once in awhile, she describes her perfect man identical to MY personality. its scary because i dont see her like that but i dont want to hurt her feelings. i hold everyones respect at work so i dont wanna screw that up by being an asshole just to accomplish this little task, any ideas?

2007-08-10 20:09:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A guy @work always used to make eye contact,when he walks pass..He looks at me,when he stand close by he looks deep into my eyes,he has those beautiful blue eyes that turns me on..Ive caught him looking at my hair,lips,even eyebrows lol,

2007-08-10 20:08:14 · 8 answers · asked by Cassý 1 in Singles & Dating

my ex boyfriend of 6 years who left me 4 weeks ago to move in with his suppo to be lesbian co-worker(not so lesbian after all), called me and told me he loves me. i did ask him to come back to me(i guess I am still under shock him dumping me) . now his reply was i will be back soon.
still wondering what that means ?
confused and hurt.

2007-08-10 20:05:57 · 4 answers · asked by maria s 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have pretty good evidence (Video tape and eye witness) of my wife is cheating on me. I love her with all my heart and i belive we can get past this. I wonder if i wll ever trust her agian, she has lied to me many times how do we create a trusting relationship and move forward?

2007-08-10 20:04:51 · 8 answers · asked by M P 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Every since I had my first son Its like I'm married, barely any sex everything is about the kids shopping for family cars, we are engaged but now all of a sudden I feel like married life is not for me, I'm only 22. I think its the sex that did it, her first son( he's about 3) won't sleep in his own bed and we never get the bed alone, and I come home from work every day and its the same thing I love her but I don't know if this is right for me anymore, I don't think I can handle not having sex more than once a month and never going out alone with my girl. (I try and try for us do stuff alone but some how it never works out, but always seems to work out when it has to do with the kids, even if we have a baby sitter) Am I dog? I haven't even got to the point to get tired of sex and its like its non existant already, I know she cares about me, but what the hell? we're still young can this be it? Can kids change your life that much or am I just tripping out over nothing?

2007-08-10 20:03:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce