do you think its ok for guy's and girls to be friends cause my friend taylor thinks i cant just be friends with guys that i will go out with them some time or another
2007-08-10 20:22:59 · 19 answers · asked by magan m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its fine, your friend is ignorant.
2007-08-10 20:27:20 · answer #1 · answered by vtff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the truth of men and women being friends.... the reality is this.... in the beginning you and the guy have some sort of attraction towards each other.... now within the first few minutes, you probably have decided weather this guy only friend material or possibilities of more.... the guy on the other hand most likely has you in the possibly more zone...
so here it is... depending on who initates contact for the friendship can determine how likely a just friend friendship can occur..
if the female initates the contact, then it's possible to remain only friends.. with both being okay with that...
if the male initates the contact, well, it's a coin flip if the female is intrested in more, but more than not, the guy wants it to be more....
so there you have it... is it possible.. yes... are there occasions where one will want more while the other doesn't? that's more likely to happen...
2007-08-11 03:30:49 · answer #2 · answered by Kevin c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have alot of guy friends and thats all we are and have been for years. Alot of guys have told me that you can't be a friend with a girl, cause all guys have one thing on their mind, and if they're friends with the girl they like them alot. I don't see that to be true, but I'm not a guy so I couldn't really say.
2007-08-11 03:28:41 · answer #3 · answered by lil_rebell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some of my best friends have pe_ises.We can't exclude 1/2 of the population.Sometimes it will get weird if u want more and they don't or vise versa but it's worth it.When ur sittin next 2 them and they're burpin and watchin the football game there's just something magical...and gross about that all at the same time. That's friendship.
2007-08-11 03:29:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes its okay to be friends with guys? why wouldn't it be? your friend Taylor sounds worried that you might abandon her, if you do get in a relationship with a guy. but it doesn't seem like you will. just be friends with who you want to be without worrying what others think
Good luck!
2007-08-11 03:28:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course its possible to be just friends with guys. I have alot of guy friends, and you meet alot of nice guys in your life, doesn't mean you are going to date all of them. Lol
2007-08-11 03:28:21 · answer #6 · answered by Foxy_Lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hitch⢠says:
Of course it's possible. It happens everyday. Typically people are more drawn together if they are both single and hanging out with each other more and more. Other than that, it's possible to just be friends.
2007-08-11 03:27:39 · answer #7 · answered by Hitch™ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's ok. Maybe your friend has that mind set because she can't be friends with guys and figures no one else can either.............it's all about the individual.
2007-08-11 03:28:40 · answer #8 · answered by CluelessOne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes is perfectly acceptable i mena im friends with tons of guys that i never think that ill date cause there like brothers to me = P
2007-08-11 03:34:32 · answer #9 · answered by Traci 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not sure what you mean but i seen nothing wrong with haveing a friend thats a guy that sooner or latter your gonna go out with. if thats what you mean. i dont think nothing is wrong with that
2007-08-11 03:28:37 · answer #10 · answered by crack 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can just be friends...All most all my friends are males, i get along better with them...I have never dated any of them...
2007-08-11 03:28:42 · answer #11 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋