we've been close friends for years and he's always "adored"/respected me (according to our friends it was "obvious"). girls always looked at him as "just a friend" and never a boyfriend. he's a typical "shy guy"yet he's outgoing with friends but very picky on who he likes. He's never had a girlfriend or a girl like him so he's never really been the type to "make a move" or has he had experience. Once he likes someone, he's very loyal and even though girls underestimate him and he's a "latebloomer", he'd make a great boyfriend.
earlier this year, I realized that i started having deeper feelings for him and after all these yrs, he STILL felt the same way so we kinda "hooked up" (no sex, innocent just kisses). I'm the first girl and only that's ever liked him and back and is the cloeset thing he'll get to in a real relationship; and his first kiss. i was so surprised because with me, he was so COMFORTABLE and calmly confident. He adored me with sweet little affectionate expressions.
Sometimes I feel like he needs more reassurance than me - for as long as we've known each other, guys have always tried to get with me and HE was the only there for me. He's insecure about his body so sometimes i feel HE thinks that i'll leave him if there's someone who loves me more or is "better". He always makes it a point that i'm a pretty girl and he gets intimidated...
if you put all those things together: latebloomer, shy, insecure, inexperienced, loyal...does he need reassurance? am i special to him?
2007-08-10 20:17:10 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes he needs lots and lots and lots of reassurance. Yes your special to him...your the only woman in the wold to him.
2007-08-10 20:25:00 · answer #1 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋