he has been the best guy for me.he truly understand me.i have no prob with him and i feel so happy.it's like the best thing ever happen to me.we have the same interest,we even say the same thing sometimes,he loves me so much,cares for me & knows how to take my heart.even when i'm angry or sad or i'm not in d mood for anything he just knew it by the tone of my voice.i truly in love with him but we have a prob.in malaysia we can't get married without convert especially when he's a muslim.any suggestion marrying outside malaysia and no need to convert..?pls help me..
2007-08-10 20:31:00 · 9 answers · asked by mikala 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He wants to kill you, dump him. NOW!
2007-08-10 21:39:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I don't know about the Malaysian law, but in Sharia (Islamic law), you should be able to get married. In the fourth chapter 6th verse of the Holy Qur'an: it allows muslim men to marry chritian (catholic is a chritian sect) and jews women as long as they fully practice their religion. Not vice versa (Muslim women cannot marry non-Muslim). There are many people that argue today's chritians are not the real chritians, but again Qur'an defines then as they are today so that argument is baseless. Besides, if your country does not allow you, you may consider other countries that exercise marriage freedom. Just make sure that there's no external influence in your relationship, such as family, religion of the kids you are going to have (If there is any) etc. Good luck.
2007-08-10 20:51:48 · answer #2 · answered by CyberSom 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
According to Islamic law, a Muslim man is allowed to marry a believing, practicing Christian woman, as long as she agrees to maintain an Islamic atmosphere in the home and to raise the children Muslim. I know a number of Christian and former Christian women who are married to Muslim men.
(I'm a former Christian myself but met my Muslim husband after I accepted Islam.)
Are you sure you can't get married in Malaysia? Check with the government. If you can't, go somewhere else, get married, and go back.
2007-08-11 23:50:47 · answer #3 · answered by HayatAnneOsman 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry my dear... I am a Malaysian Muslim. I am not too strict though but I know the limits. It's nice that you found a guy as special as him. Unfortunately, if he's a Muslim, you'll have to convert. That's the only way. It doesn't matter where you get married, in Islam, you will automatically become a Muslim if you marry one.
2007-08-13 06:53:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
okay... look... either way you go... neither one of you would be recognized by your religions as a legitimate marriage... catholics have to convert their spouse in order for the church to recognize it... so move to the US or CANADA or some place like that... get married there where truly, religion can be circumvented in order to be married..
2007-08-10 20:50:58 · answer #5 · answered by Kevin c 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Assuming you can get the legal situation resolved then ...
The Catholic Church allows marriage between Catholics and non-baptized persons. You will have to get permission from the bishop. This is because the Church recognizes the tremendous challenge you have ahead of you.
For more information, see the Catechism of the Catholic Church, sections 1633-1637: http://www.usccb.org/catechism/text/pt2sect2chpt3art7.htm#1633
With love in Christ.
2007-08-11 16:21:54 · answer #6 · answered by imacatholic2 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i have an aunt that was in the same position your in
and it is so sad of a story..... she is so awsome and she deserves the happiyness of having a family.... but she fell in love with an athist and there religious belifs got in the way of there love.... they broke up and dont even talk to each other.... my aunt is a doctor from noter dame she is very inteligent... not just a doctor but a great doctor she lives in afirca helping those who cant help them selvs.... and i know when i talk to her and see her that she would love to have a family and take care of them....
but know she takes care of alot of africans like i said she is a great doctor and i belive that is her family and love of her life
she has done so much for other people she forgot about herself...
and that blows my mind
she had the love of her life in her arms but he was athist and she was christion...... love was lost cause of religoin
my self i dont belive in realigion ........ i tell u what if u find someone that makes u happy be with them and enjoy life
2007-08-10 21:30:29 · answer #7 · answered by enahs 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
according to Islam, a marriage is void unless both parties are Muslim. but I personally believe you should be allowed to keep your religion....even if you marry outside M'sia, I think you will have to show your papers when you come back to M'sia.....be careful with your family and his family because sometime there is conflict, best of luck
2007-08-10 20:36:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
oh..that's a hard one.I'm sure there are lots of places that you can get married without converting.hope you find one.CONGRATULATIONS!!
2007-08-10 20:38:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋