If it's not true. I study in Harvard, like reading and sports and can speak 5 languages, but men don't seem to appreciate it. They don't want to go out with me because I'm not phisichally appealing in any sense. I don't have a pretty face but an average, I'm 5`11, very thin, 34aaa bra size, flat bootie and no hips.
All men around me go out with curvy or at least busty chicks even when they're dumb (I don't mean that curvy means dumb). Do any of you get interested in a girl just because she is smart without caring for her beauty?
2007-08-10 20:59:40 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Men's answers, please!!!
Thanks
2007-08-10 21:03:10 · update #1
Well initial attraction is usually physical.
But as far as dumb vs smart, I'll take the smart one.
The smart one would be definitely better as she'd have more to talk about then what was on the last episode of Gilmore Girls. That and she'd most likely be able to understand what i was saying without me having to figure out how to dumb down the conversation for her to understand it.
Also the smart one as for potential longterm relationship is usually the better choice. Let's face it, they are going to approach problems in the relationship from a more enlightened view. Plus, really a chick that can earn $50k+ a year is someone who is going to be able to help out financially.
I'm sure there is a guy out there for you, just be patient. You really wouldn't want the ones that are chasing after only the curvy ones anyways. Those guys are only looking for a piece of property, not a partner.
Just another thought, I highly doubt that you are as physically unattractive as you are making yourself out to be. Experience has taught me that women tend to be thier own worst critics when it comes to thier appearance.
2007-08-10 21:31:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
"Do any of you get interested in a girl just because she is smart without caring for her beauty?"
At your age few of us guys do, and a lot of those are intimidated.
- Later on is when we begin to appreciate the intelligent chicks.
- Wait, they'll come.
2007-08-11 04:35:55 · answer #2 · answered by Irv S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound fascinating to me. However how could anyone know all of those things about you the moment that first impression is made? First impression is always visual , though it sounds like anyone who would take the time to get to know you may very well become attracted to you!
2007-08-11 04:08:05 · answer #3 · answered by seizod 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋