i always seem to meet guys and then we hook up and thats it.
How can i meet a guy that genuinely likes me and just wants to hang out and have a good time?
2007-08-10 20:31:43 · 11 answers · asked by vintagecrayon21 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-08-10 20:49:44 · update #1
Hmmm... if you are meeting these guys in clubs i would say they are not the best place to find a guy to start a meaningful relationship especially if you are hooking up with them straight away. Try to organise to go out with a guy a few times and hold out on hooking up with them so as that they can find out more about the real you and begin to develope feelings for you. You will soon find out if the guy is only after 1 thing.
Also try to meet guys through friends of friends or within a sporting club etc. this way they will be more likely to see the real you and less likely to hook up with you for bragging rights with their mates, which is all some guys are out for.
2007-08-10 21:00:56 · answer #1 · answered by Aussie Boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay.. this will sound a bit dumb... but if you want to date a guy who doesn't base things on just physical.... date someone who you meet online... or in a chat room... okay yeah.. sounds dumb... how can you really date someone when you've never met them...
it's like this... realize that one, women hold the power as far as how far things go... two, if you are halfway attractive... it'll be hard for most guys to look past your looks, espically if they can hook up that quick... finally... a guy that likes you for you, and just wants to hang out and have fun that way.... is usually called a friend.... you don't have to hook up with the guy.. really... if you like a guy.. hold out for a few months or years even... (that's why I suggest the whole be with someone online... you can't be to physical in the virtual world..)
the more your relationship is built upon common interest and even uncommon interest before the physical becomes involved, the more likely you are to have a stronger relationship..
2007-08-11 03:40:35 · answer #2 · answered by Kevin c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try changing where you go to meet guys, like in a club probably isn't the best place... probably because most are looking to get laid. As far as meeting that guy I can understand it being hard, because thats all I want and I cant seem to meet very many people.
2007-08-11 03:39:05 · answer #3 · answered by images 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop "hooking up" so quickly. Get to know them better first and make them earn it. If they're sex-crazed, say good-bye. Eventually you'll find the right kind of guy.
Good Luck.
2007-08-11 03:41:22 · answer #4 · answered by Emily V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hitch⢠says:
Make sure you are upfront with the guy about this when you first start dating. He should respect it. If not, move on before it's too late. Look out for yourself. Good luck!
2007-08-11 03:37:02 · answer #5 · answered by Hitch™ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go out with diffrent guys. Stop going to clubs, bars or where ever you go now to meet guys. And go other places.
You also need to open your mind to the other guys out there....not just the sporty hot guys with fast cars.
2007-08-11 03:37:52 · answer #6 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say you just need to be upfront and talk to the guy more openly. just try to observe his actions and stuff because they will tell you whether he actually likes you or does he just want to get physical. OPENLY TALKING is the best way
2007-08-11 03:41:50 · answer #7 · answered by Muskan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um don't give it up on the first date. or the second third or fourth. wait months and if he sticks around then he's ok.
2007-08-11 03:39:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry lovie i dont mean to sound smart but if you figure that out i am sure every woman in the world would like to know..... to include myself......
2007-08-11 03:36:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop going by their looks and start going by personality.
2007-08-11 03:35:22 · answer #10 · answered by DancingInTheMoonlight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋