Family & Relationships - 10 August 2007

birthday (he is going with buddies). And on our anniversary he has a high school reunion that I am not very interseted in attending. We did not attend high school together and he is already very close with many friends from high school which we see on a regular basis. I can't help but feel a little selfish about wanting his attention on theses two important dates but I also want to be supportive and let him do these things with his friends, I just wish they didnt fall on days that I feel were meant for us to be together. How should I handle these situation that could cause a blow out in our house?

2007-08-10 03:29:17 · 27 answers · asked by imjustguessing 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I have been together scince we were 14, and I have a child with him (Alivya she is 2). And I am expecting twin girls in Nov.
Should we move in together? We live in San D. California.
I am 19, and he is 21. We hope to have two more children after our twins (they were a surprize). I work at a tanning salon, he is a construct. worker.
Sould we move in together? House or appart.?
We together make about 50,000 a year. Could we afford a home?

2007-08-10 03:27:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ther was this couple that were married for 20 years, and ever time they had s*x the husband always insisted on shutting off the lights.
Well after 20 years the wife felt this was stupid. she figured she would she would break him out of this crazy habit.
So one night while they were in the middle of doing it, she turned on the lights.
She looked down and saw her husband holding a dildo.
She gets completely upset '' you impotent b*stard,'' she screamed at him.
''how could you be lying to me all of these years? you better explain yourself!''
The husband looks hed straight in the eyes and says calmly,
''i'm not a man.''

2007-08-10 03:26:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The study showed that macho men were the least faithful and most inattentive lovers, and that women should consider falling for a different type of guy. I read all the unhappy women posting on Yahoo Answers, sick of bad relationships, would you consider a non-macho guy as a smarter choice?

http://news.yahoo.com/s/nm/20070808/sc_nm/masculinity_face_dc;_ylt=AgsCDkmG3MuKJQn4PXaEurgPLBIF

2007-08-10 03:22:14 · 14 answers · asked by Steve C 7 in Singles & Dating

i have noticed my husband doesnt give me any attention with my second pregnancy, he goes to the midwife with me but around the house he doesnt show any affection, i have confronted him but still no improvement, what can i do to get his attention.?

2007-08-10 03:20:14 · 21 answers · asked by abi darling 2 in Marriage & Divorce

of his ex wife's name on his arm?

2007-08-10 03:19:20 · 34 answers · asked by beba 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-10 03:15:01 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am throwing a party, and I accidentally (because there was a big master list) invited someone that my friend's sister has a big problem with. As soon as she found out, my friend told her sister instead of telling me first to see if I could fix it. Now her sister made a big deal about it and there was a big fight (her sister is my relative by marriage). Should I be mad at my friend? Why did she run and tell her sister when she knew she was not going to react well?

2007-08-10 03:14:38 · 5 answers · asked by buttlerfly fly 2 in Friends

i'm 15 and i am so in love(or infauated woteva) with my teacher, he is 27 and i no thts a big age gap and its illeagal etc but i love him so much and i think he likes me too. He compliements me on things(like my hair) and knows what lessons i have and always comes and talks to me and he doesnt do that to anyone else. I havent seen him for 3wks (its the summer hols) and i miss him like crazy but i cant tlk about him to knowone because every1 thinks its weird. i can't stop thinking about him and dont know what to do. Should i tell him what i feel or just try and get over him?

2007-08-10 03:09:35 · 41 answers · asked by Lizzie B 1 in Singles & Dating

Boys have you ever kissed another guy before?

If so, why?
Was is good?

2007-08-10 03:08:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have never cared about how big it is.
Never measured it.
Really dont wanna compare myself to other guys like that.
Never had any complaints.
Any other guys like me out there?

2007-08-10 03:08:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a 19 year old girl and I don't have any guy friends. I'm not really around them much, because I tend to get shy when it comes to the opposite sex. I'm not interested in getting into a relationship, but I would really like to make friends that are males. How can I go about doing that, being that I don't really know any guys my age?

2007-08-10 03:07:40 · 1 answers · asked by theamazingbartman01 1 in Singles & Dating

PLeeeeeease tell me if yuo do!! (sixth grade)

2007-08-10 03:04:25 · 4 answers · asked by boyfriend problems 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a normal guy, single father, successful business owner, and pretty good looking. I'm 36 yrs old. Have a great life.
This is the problem, everytime I meet a nice woman she seems to just go loopy. Wants all my attention, starts acting like she is going to marry me, even had one get jealous of the time I spend with my kids. What are they thinking acting this way sometimes after only a week or two?

This has happened 6 or 7 times this year alone.

2007-08-10 03:04:20 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, so my first date with this hot girl didn't go well.. I need advice. She cut the date short and then texts me 7 messages talking about how she felt it went wrong.. stating that it was me who wasn't talking or anything, but she barely said a few words too.

Well I asked her if there was physical attraction... she didn't answer me really. She said that would be decided if we had a next date. She said she wanted to friends if nothing else.... She said there was chemistry and I have a great personality but was holding back tonight... we only talked on the phone, never met.

What does this mean?

2007-08-10 03:02:33 · 6 answers · asked by andrew a 1 in Singles & Dating

But when I got over there I changed my mind because I have a
girlfriend. Somehow my girlfriend found out anyway that I met
the woman and she left me. I feel it it shouild have been OK
since I didn't actually do anything with the woman. It shouldn't be my fault for that reason. What should I say to make my
girlfriend understand that?

2007-08-10 02:58:42 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Died?? I hear kids (and adults) complaining about their parents...Why?? What if they weren't here anymore? My dad died (drowned) when I was 10 years old and my mom just died 3 years ago (from pancreatic cancer). I would give anything to have them back, my mom was my world. Love them, cherish them, never ever take them for granted!!

2007-08-10 02:56:24 · 7 answers · asked by 0 3 in Family

i met this guy in italy last month, an american guy, and we decided to be friends but more than friends with the understanding that we couldnt be together when i'm back in the states. kind of messy, i know. anyways, i've been a total disaster since i've gotten back... because i think i love him and i hate that he'll have all these girlfriends in italy while i'm gone. i wrote him an email when i got back to the states and told him i was coming up to italy in december. his sister wrote back and told me that he wanted her to check his email for him cause he doesn't have internet access at home, but that he would write me himself when he got to the states on monday to visit his family. instead, he wrote me the very next day. he told me he was doing well, we'd see eachother in the winter, and to respond. i felt like crap when i read it because it was so formal compared to what i wrote him and i had no idea why. so i wrote back and now, he hasn't written me in almost a week.
1. why was his email so formal like that? why/ how did he write back the very next day with no internet access?
2. why hasn't he written back to me yet? he told me to respond, so im really confused.
3. do you think he's avoiding my email and won't write back? why?
4. should i tell him how i feel when i go up there in december?
5. should i even go up there in december? what if he has a girlfriend?
6. how do i give up and move on..even if i don't want to and i care this much?

2007-08-10 02:55:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-10 02:53:06 · 11 answers · asked by Giggle Bear 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-10 02:51:54 · 56 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

We broke up for like 2 weeks now. I saw him last wed and we talked for almost 4 hours on the phone. But that was the last we are going to talk and see each other. After that, I felt so lonely and sad. I missed him so much that I wanna hug him and kiss him. I really want him back now. But he isn't ready for that yet. He said he's afraid that we will just broke up again and endure the pain all over again. Right now, all I know, is that I want him back. My life felt so empty and meaningless.

Any tips? I really need to get out of this feeling. I don't when he'll be back or if he's really coming back...

2007-08-10 02:51:27 · 6 answers · asked by faiwee queen 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

okay, when i moved schools i started getting attention from guys, three in particular! the one really liked me, and asked me out, but i said i just wanted to be friends, now he is being horrible to me! what did i do?

the second guy i feel comfortable around, we talk, we hang out and i he asked me out, but right now he's fine with being friends! but now i think i want more from this relationship,what do i do? do you think it will ruin our friendship?

2007-08-10 02:48:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

enjoy hurting and hitting your girl and making her cry?

2007-08-10 02:47:18 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-10 02:45:37 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been with someone for 11 years. He didn't pay any attention to me and I asked him to do things for me because I was lonely. He disregraded all of this and in the process I found someone that is the totally opposite of him and treats me like a queen. I broke it off with the one I was with for 11 years. He is now telling me he can give me all the things I want and is willing to change not for me but for us and he understands now what he has done to me. He asked why he can't have this chance to change and prove to me that this can work. He says that everyone deserves a second chance. I want to give him this chance but am afraid he will resent me down the line or he will go back to the same way he was and I will be unhappy again and may have missed out on the other one that treats me the way someone should be treated. Please give honest advice and only serious answers PLEASE!!!!!!!

2007-08-10 02:44:37 · 11 answers · asked by enigma2824 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-10 02:41:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

after we have sex i feel used and alone and empty.
i hate sex.
what is going on??

2007-08-10 02:40:25 · 29 answers · asked by happyeyes102 1 in Marriage & Divorce

he had made my life miseriable.i need help .otherwise soon i will die

2007-08-10 02:39:15 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

but it makes a good down payment. Do you agree with this?

2007-08-10 02:35:29 · 47 answers · asked by Tom S 7 in Marriage & Divorce

my ex, aka: "jerk-face mc a**hole",
exploits and mind-games....

1.) he called me just to say he never wants to see my face again
2.) he said his mom said that i was a sl**
3.) he ruined my reputation at my job
4.) which in turn, led my friends to desert me
5.) he thinks he can do no wrong
6.) he slept with someone two days after we broke up
7.) he threatened me
8.) and the topper, i think he's bi-polar....

i think we found a winner ladies!!!! :P

2007-08-10 02:34:58 · 26 answers · asked by Britt 3 in Singles & Dating