okay, when i moved schools i started getting attention from guys, three in particular! the one really liked me, and asked me out, but i said i just wanted to be friends, now he is being horrible to me! what did i do?
the second guy i feel comfortable around, we talk, we hang out and i he asked me out, but right now he's fine with being friends! but now i think i want more from this relationship,what do i do? do you think it will ruin our friendship?
2007-08-10 02:48:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well. the first guy I think is being a total jerk, because he wants you but cannot have you and that freaked him out, he's just jealous I guess. If you really want more from the relationship then its up to you to talk to him, If hr likes you and you like him then nothing is stopping you from having a good time. If you want my advice, I'd say stay friends for a while, don't jump into something that you cant get out off. Normally when a guy wants a relationship you'll know, but you are new at the school if I understand correctly, so rather give it a bit off time and get to know more people before making that kind off decision. . . Good luck
2007-08-11 07:57:55 · answer #1 · answered by **AnGeLbOy** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you go out with a boy, we always like to think that if it doesn't work out romantically, we can still be friends. But, the truth is, it rarely works out that way. Once you are so close with somebody it is just about impossible to back up your relationship. Plus, when you break up (and you will eventually break up, unless of course you marry- him which is doubtful) generally it is because of a problem...Something that happened between you both that leaves you or your boyfriend mad or feeling betrayed therefor not wanting to be friends anyway. Do you understand what I mean? Good luck.
2007-08-10 09:58:45 · answer #2 · answered by miabeth1217 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The first one is acting that way because you are hanging out wit someone (slightly jealous). Ask him Why are you like that toward me and you wanted to date me? Did something change? And if you feel comfortable dating date the one you are more comfortable being around.
2007-08-10 14:16:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you feel comfortable with the second guy try to get the thing done.I other words, talk with the guy,explain to him about the feelings that you have and see what he has to tell you about it.The only way is, communications and understanding.First communicate, then try understand what is going on. Maybe he sees you as a friend.Perhaps not.Either one,must be resolve at once.
2007-08-10 12:50:27 · answer #4 · answered by Mario Vinny D 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just tell him you would like to be more than friends like boyfriend and girlfriend type of thing. And if it dosen't work out between you two you can still be friends.
2007-08-10 17:03:57 · answer #5 · answered by RichieSamboraGirl93 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol C you worry too much
ignore the jerk and let things just happen with the other guy friends are the best.
2007-08-10 16:27:13 · answer #6 · answered by Sharon's_future_husband 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lets things happen naturally, don't force anything. starting as a friend is the best thing to do. good luck!
2007-08-10 18:31:24 · answer #7 · answered by Pssssh Whatever 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the first guy .. you hurt his ego that is why he is angry........... the second guy, stay friends with him if you push it you may lose him. he will come around if he wants to change the status , of the relationship..
2007-08-10 09:53:26 · answer #8 · answered by tinkerbell 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I agree with Blu.
2007-08-10 15:59:24 · answer #9 · answered by Ray D dog 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I agree with Blu.
2007-08-10 10:58:19 · answer #10 · answered by Vin 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋