Family & Relationships - 10 August 2007

2007-08-10 04:15:37 · 6 answers · asked by MarisVX 2 in Marriage & Divorce

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2007-08-10 04:14:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

see, every thursday night, one of my friends goes to this church in irving. she has been wanting me to go with her for so long so finally i went two weeks ago, and i told her that when i get another thursday off, i would go again. well i was off last night but i canceled with her to go swimming at the lake with some other friends. i had been telling her for the past two weeks that i would go back with her but i blew her off for someone else. does that make me a bad person?

2007-08-10 04:14:48 · 21 answers · asked by rissa 1 in Friends

i'm going to the college where all my friends are going. so that means i'll be hanging out with the same people i hung out with in high school. does that mean i won't meet any new people? i won't get dates?

2007-08-10 04:11:46 · 6 answers · asked by snowangels 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-10 04:11:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Do you think it's weird if a 13 year old boy [going to be 14 in february 2008] dates a 14 year old girl [going to be 15 in November 2007]?

2007-08-10 04:07:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

His father died last year and has a beautiful John Deer tractor for doing yard work for a 5 acre yard. His mom is moving to a much smaller house in a neighborhood next month and wants to sell the tractor and divide the money between all the siblings. The problem is my husband is attached to this tractor for centamental reasons and wants to keep it in the family. His mom agreed to store it in her 3 car garage, which she will only be using one side of. But now all the sudden she has told him, no and she wants to sell it. My husband has thought about taking the money from the tractor and buying a boat for the family to share but I don't know if that will fly with the rest of the siblings.
I don't know what to tell him is the best thing to do with it. We have no room to store the thing and have a regular lot also.

2007-08-10 04:07:08 · 6 answers · asked by feathermree 3 in Family

i'm a fairly recent widow and i haven't worked in 20 years and i love staying home but now its harder because he took care of me and now he's gone but i still enjoy being home.

2007-08-10 04:05:20 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am trying to determine the approximate date when my husband's girlfriend got pregnant, she is due on November 14.Can someone help me determine when she got pregnant because I am trying to determine if he is lieing to me.

2007-08-10 04:04:57 · 18 answers · asked by cuylee 1 in Singles & Dating

he has not paid and left me in arrears i paid deposit and have been paying his half since i want rid of this man forever

2007-08-10 04:04:25 · 15 answers · asked by NICKN S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I met this stunning girl and was instantly interested in her. However, I discovered that she was the daughter of a person that NOBODY wants to tamper with. She knew, I guess, that I wanted to hit on her but then realised that because of her "family", I had got cold feet. She however left her mobile number with a workmate of mine to give to me as she had realised that I was not even up to talking to her. What should I do about it? If I'm found out by her family, then the least they can do to me is kill me. Is there anyone out there who can help me on this??? I guess I love her because I haven't felt the way I did until I met her. What should I do??

2007-08-10 04:03:19 · 18 answers · asked by sircrunchie 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-10 04:02:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

this is for a project, please tell your gender, the age when you first had sex, your current age, and if you regret it or if you are happy you did.

2007-08-10 04:02:15 · 12 answers · asked by gh1204 1 in Singles & Dating

nths behind on the mortgage.. & we want to keep the condo in the family..My moms ( his sister) name is also on the condo & if he cant pay up by next wednesday then he will be out on the street & we will have to make back payments as well as the current payments.. My mom has paid his way for years & can no longer help him out..She is 2 years widowed. He has a on & off job so he has had income...I dont know what he does wiht his money.... I would hate to see him out on the street. I have no idea where he would stay... but I would hate to see the condo be sold. My grandma wanted it for her grandchildren.. I could stay there & make the payments but I would feel bad for my uncle. Should I even approach him about it?? I feel stuckk...

2007-08-10 04:01:54 · 5 answers · asked by raisin4362001 1 in Family

She is 43 years old and he is 20 something.

2007-08-10 04:01:09 · 39 answers · asked by Michelle Y 1 in Singles & Dating

What should I do, stop going out with her or what?

2007-08-10 03:59:59 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I took my ex back to court for unpaid CS and to set future CS according to guidelines. We came to an agreement at the courthouse (not with a judge, but both of our attorneys were in the conference room). The details were written on a court minute, signed by me and my ex and both of our attorneys. The judge signed the minutes and filed it with the court clerk.

My ex went home and calculated CS based on the income I was assigned and figured out he could pay less if my income is assigned differently.

I have been a stay-at-home mom for 2+ years, thus my income was $0. This was my choice. Prior to that I worked 3 years and my income was $25k per year. He asked to have my income calculated at minumum wage for CS computations. (Ex's attorney had my tax returns and income statements for the past five years six months before we went to court.)

I want CS to remain as it was set in negotiations. Can it be altered because my ex changed his mind after seeing what he will pay?

2007-08-10 03:58:26 · 9 answers · asked by Why 2 in Marriage & Divorce

he's aware that watching it makes me feel like am not satisfying his sexual hunger even though he often praises our sex life as being extremely healthy and interesting. I dont know if am making something out of nothing or if there is something he's wants and is not telling me. i want to keep the sexual part of our marriage alive but feels degraded when he watches porn , what should i do?

2007-08-10 03:54:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Just this morning I told my husband wanted a divorce. He says my reasons aren't good enough and wants to try to work things out. Here are my reasons: fist off we've been together since i was 18, am i now 23, we have 2 kids.We lived with his parents until febuary of this yr. he would go and leave me there with the kids while he went to play computer games at his friends house in another county. When i would try to talk to him, he would walk off from me or ignore, me and now all of the sudden he wants to talk and i can't talk to him because of the way he did in the past. I've felt misserable for at least 2 yrs. staying depressed, and crying alot. i fell i am bettering myself for wanting to go through the divorce.
He hardly ever acts likes he wants anything to do with the kids, or me for that matter. Yet he says "why do u want to do this to me, why do u want to leave and take our kids away, why do u want to leave u are the only reason i try to work, is for you and the kids"

2007-08-10 03:52:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have been together for 5 years and Married 1. We have always gotten a long until we go married. We seem to fight a lot and want different things. I want to have kids and start a family and he wants to go out a drink and come home at all hours of the night. I feel like I come last on his list. The relationship seems like it is based on everything that he wants. I have tried talking to him about this but he just yells and tries to throw everything back on me. is marriage really this hard? I thought we should be happy and spend a lot of time togehter. Is there anyone who is going through this? How did you handle it?

2007-08-10 03:51:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

kk im 17 and i see girls on the bus, train etc,,,, that take a liking to me (not to sound big headed). Only problem, is that I am awful at guessing ages.

Example, i saw a girl today on the bus, she looked about 15-16 but her mates looked slightly younger.

I sat on the bus three places in front them. The oldest one (i believe), moved away from her friends and sat in between them and me (the seat behind me), as soon as I sat down.

She kept looking at me, so obviously liked me!

She was really attractive but i would feel embarrassed, if i asked for her number, only to realize she was only 14, when i believed she was 16 lol.

Im 17 and i would probably go as low as 15 (if she looked older than her age).

Any help?

2007-08-10 03:50:42 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Females and Males have sexual needs, which is why I think you shouldnt wait till Marraige, I think you should atleast try sex to see if you like it. Because what if you do wait till marriage, then you have sex, and you dont like it, you say its uncomfortable and not pleasurable, but your other partner likes it but you dont. And because yall are married, yall cant seperate that easly like a bf/gf can. So what do that leave you with? If your partner isint being satisfied with you then it may lead to cheating and damaging the relationship. But if you wanna wait, then theres nothing wrong with it but you have to think of the things that may happen.

2007-08-10 03:45:17 · 14 answers · asked by ♥♥904SOUTH♥♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

Have decided to move jobs. Have two interviews lined up. Boyfriend none too happy about me moving as we are getting bits and pieces together to apply for a morgage. Am hoping to have finished with morgage application before I move..

Am moving b-coz I am miserable and extremely bored where I am at the moment! Have mentioned this before on yahoo also. Boyfriend thinks I'm unsuppportive for wanting to move at this time! There both only possibilities at this stage but if one of them was what I wanted (they're both positions associated or to do with HR) then I want to take it. Am I being unreasonable here?

2007-08-10 03:41:15 · 26 answers · asked by Tilly 2 in Marriage & Divorce

He is like a 6yr old. He is disgusting. Everything he touches, he makes a mess. I cleaned and mopped the kitchen. It was spick & span. He comes in, gets a spoon, gets a scoop of chocolate ice cream out of the container, spills some on the floor and down the refrigerator, throws the spoon in the sink, and leaves. Just like that! Now there's ice cream on the floor and running down the fridge. When I bring it to his attention he says, "Oh, I didn't see that." That is his answer for everything. Or he'll say, "I wasn't thinking." I can't take it any longer. I have been married for two years now. I love my husband dearly, but this boy is terrible! He has taken my husband's car without permission and crashed it. He had a party while we were away over night and his friends went in our bedroom and stole a coin collection that my daughter and I had been collecting for ten years. I could go on, but there are not enough characters. My husband always defends him. I am ready to leave this marriage.

2007-08-10 03:39:52 · 6 answers · asked by Jonsie 1 in Family

2007-08-10 03:38:37 · 19 answers · asked by D. G 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok my husband and I have been separated for going on 9 months. We have a 15 month old daughter together. He'd been living with his new girlfriend since March but he recently dumped her. He called me Wednesday and as soon as I answered he said "will you marry me?" I know he was kidding but then he asked me and my daughter to go to dinner with him. I told him I'm not taking him back if that's what he's getting at (I'm trying to play hard-to-get b/c I've been here before and if I run back to him easily he changes his mind) Then he called me Thursday night and I told him I was thinking about calling off the divorce so I could get a new lawyer and as soon as I said that he was like "I don't wanna be married to you anymore... let's just get it over with" Do you think his attitude changed cause I hurt his pride the day before by saying I didn't want him back? I'm not sure if he wants me to "marry him again" or go thru with the divorce.

2007-08-10 03:38:20 · 21 answers · asked by newmom06 2 in Marriage & Divorce

She recently got kicked out of her girlfriends place when her friend moved, is living in a trailer that the safety inspector said she shouldn't be living in, and just crashed her car. She comes over to our house after work when she can't get a ride to the trailer but has been slowly moving in her clothes! What can I do? I dont want her living with me because she's an alcoholic and becomes mentally abusive, and just wont listen to reason. My husband doesn't want her around either because she usually says such harsh things that she puts him to tears.

2007-08-10 03:34:23 · 16 answers · asked by Lori 3 in Family

Does it bother you when your gilfriend ask you few times but not tooo often, "do you really love me?" and if it does bother you, explain why?

2007-08-10 03:32:45 · 9 answers · asked by jennpor 2 in Singles & Dating

If someone swears while complimenting you, does that diminish the value of the compliment or enforce it?

I was just wondering this because a friend told me I am: "*****ng drop dead gorgeous" (which I'm not, they were just complimenting me)

so yeah, that got me to wondering, so if people could help me figure this out I would greatly appreciate it.

2007-08-10 03:29:24 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been seeing someone who is going thru a divorce. Her soon to be ex planned a trip to florida with the kids and she freaked out being away from them for so long. I think she went on the trip with them cause as soon as the day came to leave she said she needed a break and she was going to the lake for the duration of there trip and would be back when her kids came back. She is totally lying to me and she is with them isnt she???? please help

2007-08-10 03:29:22 · 8 answers · asked by patrick b 2 in Singles & Dating