he has not paid and left me in arrears i paid deposit and have been paying his half since i want rid of this man forever
2007-08-10 04:04:25 · 15 answers · asked by NICKN S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It has been 4 years and you are just now thinking of this? You must be having trouble paying the mortgage.
2007-08-17 09:56:27 · answer #1 · answered by laceyluedwards 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you wait so long? Hitting him now seems like trying to even the score. But legally, yes you can hit him for 1/2 the bill. If you truly want rid of this man, then let things go, sell the house and keep the money. Don't bring him back into the picture. Save yourself from some drama and more pain.
2007-08-17 13:36:32 · answer #2 · answered by Susan G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey he was a "Boy Friend" with the emphases on "BOY". Looks like you get the bill and the "BOY" gets a free ride. That's how it is when you hook-up with a "BOY". If he was a man you would probably be married and he would be providing a home for you like a real man should. However, you hooked-up with a "BOY". When will you "Girls" ever learn. When a "BOY" moves in it's just for the ride and you usually pay.
2007-08-16 14:05:57 · answer #3 · answered by Edit My Profile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you kick him out or did he leave? why should he have to pay for a house he has not lived in? why did you not refinance or get a roommate? if you want to be rid of him so badly, why are you chasing him down? if i was trying to hit someone with a bill, i probably would not have waited 4 years.
2007-08-18 01:55:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take him to court, but be sure you have all of your proof with you. Any signed contracts and agreements you guys made together to show the courts. You should win your case hands down. If in doubt...consult an attorney.
2007-08-16 05:20:04 · answer #5 · answered by kystarlyte_kystarlight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes but remember if its half the house then its 1/2 his house also and he can make it very bad for you if his name is on the mortgage also? be very careful.
2007-08-16 16:00:59 · answer #6 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you both signed the deed then yes you can sue him for half of the mortgage payments but you may not get it because he hasn't actually lived there with you. it's up in the air.
2007-08-10 04:10:44 · answer #7 · answered by Victoria J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If his name is on it yes....He might have you sale to get his half also of the House even though he hasn't paid anything. Better ask a lawyer...
2007-08-10 04:08:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes if he is named on the mortgage,but why would you want to after all this time?Isn't it time you moved on? Your bitterness is gonna eat you up..Let it go!
2007-08-10 04:16:52 · answer #9 · answered by shuggiegh1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can try it, but it doesn't mean he'll necessarily pay up. The laws vary from state to state. Talk to an attorney.
2007-08-10 04:11:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋