Family & Relationships - 10 August 2007

My boyfriend and I have been together 5 months and he´s just gone to sweden to stay with his mums friend and son. He hasn´t called me to say he misses me or anything. When he gets back how do i act so he gets the message that he could have atleast called me once? Do I act indifferently like I didn´t care?

2007-08-10 05:06:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anja M 2 in Singles & Dating

What is the funniest thing that you can remember or the hardest you've ever laughed and i'll pick amongst you to see which one i thought was the funniest!

2007-08-10 05:05:53 · 2 answers · asked by Balrog 2 in Friends

my cousin deb, is what i call a *****. when i was little she acted like i was stupid and ignorant, now i am 16 years old and she still acts like i am a baby. she smacked me across the face when i was little because i didn't give a crap about what she had to say. i babysit her son sometimes, i like her son, he's different from his mom, and she talks to me like i am five and she has to put everything in stupid terms. i tried not to hate her but it's impossible, she is so rude to me and when she calls my house, i ask my mom to pick up please help me. i know hating people is bad, but i hate her.

2007-08-10 05:01:48 · 8 answers · asked by cutething 2 in Family

2007-08-10 05:00:48 · 14 answers · asked by Eva 2 in Family

How do u know if a guy likes u ?

2007-08-10 05:00:01 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Thats right...now that I'm married and I had many lovers before marriage, I expect my man to own his vows and satisfy my frump!

There's no way he's gonna cheat on me again because I'm frumpy

2007-08-10 04:58:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

if you were in a relationship for over 4 years and it started off with everyday sex and then 3 years later your girl got pregnant and her sex drive is at her lowest and she really doesnt want to have sex but still does about 3-4 times a week just to satisfy you in a way you like. and then she tells you she isnt going to have sex with you b/c she feels that you only want her for sex b/c you ask for it evry single day. (she is not cheating or anything she just wants to see if your with her for sex or b/c of love) how long would you go before cheating on her???
this is my situation so please help with real answers this is very important to me.

2007-08-10 04:56:52 · 8 answers · asked by TTC #2 Baby Dust MEEE! 5 in Singles & Dating

In retrospect, what do you think was the cause. Jealousy? Insecurity? Did your mate end up doing things behind your back?

My husband and I are considering a threesome (I initiated it) and i've heard a lot of people say it ruined their marriage. Just trying to find the reason why if you went into it knowing what was going to happen (meaning, you willingly agreed to do it).

2007-08-10 04:53:53 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Normally I would just ask the guy, but I do work with him and he is my manager. This isn't my career and I could find another job in a heartbeat, so that is not a concern at all for me.

He is a little bit older than me, but this is what he does:

-He comments on my appearance

-He comments on how he enjoys working with me

-He always smiles at me and talks to me about things not work-related.

-He looks at me differently, I can just see it in his eyes

-He touches me a lot on my back, and jokes with me physically(pokes me, etc, etc)

-He congregates around me, whenever he comes around, it is by me.

What do you all think?

2007-08-10 04:53:15 · 9 answers · asked by lala2007 2 in Friends

2007-08-10 04:51:53 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Now I'm a not Picky dude, but l if your not attracted to a person physically i dont think it could work for some peope

but i do respect people who dont care about looks, because i couldnt do it, maybe as i get older, that will change, but
right now it means alot to me.

Now a pretty girl with a F'd up personality or Drug Habit becomes ugly to me

what yall think?

2007-08-10 04:49:45 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My best friend, let's call her Shaniqua, has called me repeatedly over the summer. At the start of June I always answered her calls. But throughout August and this early July, I haven't picked up.

It's not that i don't want to talk to her. I just have a lot on my mind.... my families been moving, I have 3 books to anotate for my advanced English course and my self esteem has been shot.

I don't want to make excuses for the way I've been neglecting my friend... but her messages are progressivly becoming more and more upset. It's so unlike her. I feel HORRIBLE for not calling her back.

What should I say to her? How can I explain that i wasn't ignoring her. I feel like such a bad friend and i want to make it better.

Please help me!

2007-08-10 04:48:14 · 15 answers · asked by Beetle Babe 2 in Friends

What is the sexiest, hottest thing about a girl physically?
Also...what, in your opinion, makes nice lips/mouth?

2007-08-10 04:45:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

would a guy say he is completely happy and satisfied at home and still end up caught up in an affair? He is not the type of guy to cheat just for fun (not a player type).

If he were sexually satisfied at home would he have the desire to seek sex elsewhere?????

2007-08-10 04:41:40 · 27 answers · asked by who me? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am about to see my friend/ ex next week. It was his idea and he called me yesterday to fialaize the plans. I have not clled him or persued him since the break. We are going out to a public placea and we both made it clear that we are just friends. However, I just saw that he has been paying compliments to another girl on Myspace. I know that i shouldn't have looked but curiosity kills the cat. Should I mention this to him and tell him I think he's a slut or should I just avoid the issue? We have a great time together as long as we do not get intimate. HELPPPP! He's driving me crazy. Is he just really trying to be friends with me? Or is he trying to get in my pants?

2007-08-10 04:41:21 · 7 answers · asked by bambi 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay I'm noy a **** or anything.
Honest I don't sleep around but I always flit or find new friends outside my relationship.I find it hard not to because guys always show me attention and my guy don't all he do is work and hang out with his guys.But my question is am I cheating or not?I amitt I have friendswho I know wants to be more and I enjoy being liked by them,even though I'm in a committed relationship

2007-08-10 04:38:01 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-10 04:37:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

They say it in songs, movies, life....

Do you believe that misery needs company?? Do you think that people who are bitter about past relationship failures, are wanting people to drown in sorrow with them?

2007-08-10 04:34:20 · 13 answers · asked by lookitsjenn 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i called a guy yesterday (he is very hot) and talked to him for like 30min. he told me that i was very privileged that he didnt hang up on me. he usually hangs up on people he dont want to talk to. then i asked him if i was supposed to feel special and he says 'yes' was that sarcasm or was he serious?

2007-08-10 04:32:09 · 28 answers · asked by hockeychic18 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok, I'm greek and my family has a lot of money there because of the estate that we own.
Well, I'm pretty on top of what's going to who, and what's being stolen from who.
However, my mom's side of the family doesn't exactly have that much money or a big estate that their going to inherit. So, their pretty jealous of what we have.
So, the way that they are expressing it is by saying, "omg, you could flick Greece right off of the map," or "I could buy Greece with pocket change"

I know I should be able to ignore it, but it really hurts that they are saying this stuff about something that I'm really proud of and is really important to me.

2007-08-10 04:32:08 · 4 answers · asked by Sali 3 in Family

i really want a horse but i have to show them im responsible? how do i do it? im 12. ?? please help i really want a horse

2007-08-10 04:30:23 · 4 answers · asked by QwertyHorsie 2 in Family

My mother became very emotionally and verbally abusive to me after my Dad died and my drug addicted brother moved back home. We were fine, never had an argument my entire adult life. Then my Dad died ( I was living there with my son), my brother came back home and then it started. The first thing she said was if any argument happens with my brother and I she would take his side no matter what because he can do more for her then I can. I am fully disabled from an abuive mariage that caused PTSD, anxiety along with auto-immine diseases. I just can't understand this at all. My brother doesn't do anything to help out, no rent, no food or really any help at the house. he may maybe cut the grass once a month. Nopw they pay someone to do it. So what is it that he does more for her then I can?? It so unbearably hurtful! Hope someone can help?

2007-08-10 04:27:26 · 5 answers · asked by Rebelheart45 1 in Family

2007-08-10 04:27:22 · 14 answers · asked by Vision 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I thought my fiance was like crazy in love. He usually calls 5 times a day just to tell me he loves me. Well I called him this morning to tell him that my moms friend is giving us a crib for free - we are expecting a baby next month. He was not interested at all, and I knew he was at work so I said I'd just call him later. I told him I loved him and all he said was "yup bye". That is not normal for him. Think there is a reason he didnt say he loved me back?

2007-08-10 04:24:48 · 29 answers · asked by camdensmommy07 2 in Singles & Dating

Did they turn out to be psychos?

2007-08-10 04:23:43 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was dating an asian girl and she always wanted to keep it a secret from everyone and when I met her parents, they used the N-Word more than a gangster pissed off black!

I am black and I was highly offended. They tried there best to be hateful and that what was offending me, not the words. Then she turned on me during dinner so I just left.

Then I went to dinner with this white girl and her so called "redneck" parents and had fun with them! I was so scared I was going to get killed but It was a blast. They did ask questions about black people and I answered them and they where like "Oh! So black people do that too?!"

But aren't asians supposed to be polite and nice instead of KKK general as I expected with the white.

I acted the same in both situations.

2007-08-10 04:22:57 · 8 answers · asked by Mr.DarkFire 2 in Singles & Dating

I told my wife that I had cheated on her and that my girlfriend is pregnant. My wife was mad and hurt when I told her. My girlfriend wants me to leave my wife and be with her. I love both women and I will definitely be there for both of my children. I want to be there for both women. You have no idea how much I love them.

2007-08-10 04:22:23 · 36 answers · asked by Handsome Stranger 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-10 04:22:23 · 2 answers · asked by John S2005 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok mii boyfriend Don is begging to take me out to ice skating and to dinner i am nervous and i don't no how to ice skate what should i do !!! and mii mom is like "its better if u go with him its the nicest thing to do" she puts so much pressure on me help!!!!

2007-08-10 04:22:08 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I got a boyfriend. Yesterday he still calling me about 6pm. And about 8pm, he gone out with a friend. Then i call him to go back eariler and he agree. About 12midnight, i called him again, he wasnt at home but sleeping at his friend house. He say he will meet me tomorrow at 9am. But today. it is already 10pm at night and his phone is off, i went to his house and he havent gone back. He dont even give me a call.

Currently we have this problem that, he been chatting with girl online and exchange number. but they are in another province. He told me that he did that because i did that to him first. I have quit doing that already and now he want me to pay back. But we still talk to each other nicely. And he stop calling all the other girls. He say it is just the internet, he wont get serious about it.

What should i do?
he been missing for like 1 day?
should i wait or move on?

2007-08-10 04:16:28 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating