if you were in a relationship for over 4 years and it started off with everyday sex and then 3 years later your girl got pregnant and her sex drive is at her lowest and she really doesnt want to have sex but still does about 3-4 times a week just to satisfy you in a way you like. and then she tells you she isnt going to have sex with you b/c she feels that you only want her for sex b/c you ask for it evry single day. (she is not cheating or anything she just wants to see if your with her for sex or b/c of love) how long would you go before cheating on her???
this is my situation so please help with real answers this is very important to me.
2007-08-10 04:56:52 · 8 answers · asked by TTC #2 Baby Dust MEEE! 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-08-10 05:10:02 · update #1
first of all the guy you are going with has a high libido.....be very carefull about testing something that aint broken...2...if he asks for it everyday its probably because he finds you very attractive.....why would you like to invoke feelings like jealousy, paranoia to the poor guy ...he has to deal with 3 times a week
2007-08-10 05:02:31 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey, Mama guys are horny muffins when they are young and as they get older, it slows down. He has been with you for four years, still with you while you are pregnant, that's a very good sign he wants to be with you. Question, how many weeks are you? In your middle and early third trimesters, you shouldn't have too much of a problem. Question, is your guy nice? If he is, he should understand that everyday sex while you are pregnant with his baby is not a very good idea. And you should not test him, let him know that for most women, their sexual drive goes down with pregnancy and have sex with him 3 times a week or so being reduced gradually as pregnancy continues. This will keep him from "blue balls"
2007-08-10 12:18:41 · answer #2 · answered by brainbox 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
On my part, I would cheat coz the relationship was primarily based on sex; on your part, you know then that there wasn't any relationship at all but I guess the guy was just getting his free sex in the guise of a relationship.
You can experiment further by charging him everytime you have sex. If he got mad, then I guess my assumption above is true. If he pays, then he's just after the sex and you've just been his free prostitute for over 4 years.
2007-08-10 12:47:11 · answer #3 · answered by wind m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he didn't really like you, chances are he'd leave you once he found out you were pregnant. Be happy that he still wants to have sex with you even while your pregnant, many women feel their men don't find them attractive when their pregnant. Dont test your luck on the other thing, he may in fact eventually cheat on you.
2007-08-10 12:51:12 · answer #4 · answered by guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would NEVER cheat on my girlfriend/spouse under ANY circumstances. These things can be worked out through communication, compromise, and even counseling. Sounds like your boyfriend needs to grow up and act like a man. Otherwise, you would be wise to give an attorney a call about child support for when you dump his sorry butt. If he does cheat, I would not even waste my time with the guy. I'd be on the phone with an attorney to protect my child. In any case, if I was in his position and not interested in being a responsible dad and boyfriend, then I would dump you, pay my child support, and move on with my life before I would ever cheat on you.
2007-08-10 12:04:24 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If she played this juvenile game I might cheat that day. The problem with 'testing' people's reaction to something is that often the reaction you get is them reacting to being tested.
Seriously if I was in this relationship and I found out you were 'testing' me to see how long I would go without sex before I cheated - I would go out that day and sleep with as many women as I possibly could and call you after each one so you could keep track.
2007-08-10 12:00:34 · answer #6 · answered by elurle 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I would never cheat on you(or any girl for that matter). This guy, maybe a great guy, or an ***. You never know. Just think about, since you are pregnant, you shouldnt be doin it anyway. Just calm yourself and sit tight and see what happens with your relationship.
2007-08-10 12:02:30 · answer #7 · answered by Nick W 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You're basically telling him "go out and look for another girl" because I don't think you love me. In that 4yrs, don't you know if he loves you or not? I don't think he will cheat on you, but if you push him far enough...he'll do it.
2007-08-10 12:09:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋