Family & Relationships - 10 August 2007

He knows it upsets me, and by nature I'm the jealous type, but is it right that he strikes up friendships with attractive girls online and writes them e mails/sends them comments and stuff like that? I don't think he'd cheat on me or any of that crap, but it still bothers me! I want to be the only woman in his life, why does he feel the need to chat it up with flirty internet girls? Is it right that I'm upset about it? What should I do?

2007-08-10 08:03:37 · 2 answers · asked by TermiteChokinOnASplinter 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 8mths. He is the most wonderful man I have ever dated. I have a history with a couple of bad relationships under my belt and he has been so patient with me. He taught me how to love and trust again after so much pain in my past relationships. I found true happiness when I found him. My problem is this.....I used to be intimate with him 5-10 times a week. I couldn't get enough of him. NOW...I just don't want it. I still do usually at least once a week, but I know that he wants it more than that. He never gets upset with me when I don't want to, but I know that it is disappointing to him. He does everything in his power to make me happy and 99% of the time he makes sure that I am satisfied before him. I know how lucky I am to have him in my life, but don't know how to want it more....Please help with any suggestions.

2007-08-10 08:02:36 · 11 answers · asked by ~*Live*~*Laugh*~*Love*~ 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Tonight my wife an I have a couple over to dinner. How can I propouse to do something herotic?

2007-08-10 08:00:34 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am talking with this man that I work with and recently found out that he is married? In working with this man I mean we have daily contact (not in the same office). So far all we have done is talked and made suggestive comments to each other. My problem is that after talking & meeting with him we both grown attractived to each other and want to take it to the next level.

I have not been in a relationship for over 4 years now and find this to be the most excitement I've had in a long time.

What should I do?

2007-08-10 07:54:49 · 154 answers · asked by Darkwoman 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it wrong to date a woman 12 years older tan myself

2007-08-10 07:50:02 · 2 answers · asked by likes j 1 in Singles & Dating

This was the conversation:

Me-heyy
Him-hey
him-wuts up?
Me-nm but guess what!
him-wut?
Me-I dont like you anymore
him-wait, wut is that suppose to mean?
Me-I used to like you and I dont anymore. Arent you glad that Im not going to bother you anymore?
me-u there???
me-hello?
******* has signed off.

I used to like him and i didnt think he liked me but now i think i brooooke his heart! Ive known him and been friends with him for 6 years! I AM SO STUPID!!!!!!!!!! WHAT DO I DO?! THE PHONE IS BUSY SO I CANT CALL HIM!!!!!!!! WUT DO I DO NOW?????????

I didnt plan on him totally ignoring me or totally hating me. I always wanted to stay friends!!! :((

2007-08-10 07:48:33 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok,wat can my sister get her fiance on his 24th bday?not hoteling,something diff and creative!any ideas?

2007-08-10 07:47:54 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

well first i absolutly LOVE anime im an anime freak. i also LOVE watching smackdown,ecw and raw. i love to draw. i play all kinds of sports there is. im a punk rocker not a girly girl. im terrified of rats. im a very shy and quiet girl when i am around people even friends and family. what type of guy would be interested in me?

2007-08-10 07:47:14 · 7 answers · asked by animelover718 1 in Singles & Dating

Why is it that when you find love in a chat, msn, ym ( a true spark) and the girl acts like it the same way.. they dissapear.?? It happened only a few times in my entire internet experience (1997) Are they shocked? Or do they already have someone and never thought they were going to feel something like that just from chat? Why they leave without a sign.

2007-08-10 07:47:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im sorry I didnt see a sex section anywhere lol. Umm this is super embarassing, but we tried anal sex and ever since Ive been having bowel movements like 5 times a day! Is that normal? It doesnt hurt or anything, just weird

2007-08-10 07:44:56 · 2 answers · asked by mandiliz06 4 in Singles & Dating

do guys like girls who jump int obed as sonn as posible?
or do you want a relastionship???
b/c my bf wanted to wait for some time... and now he wants to have sex all the time!!!

2007-08-10 07:43:07 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-10 07:38:30 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I love kids and I babysit, sometimes. I have just recently been allowed to go on real babysitting jobs though. The kids love me and we have fun no matter what we do, but does anyone know games to play, or do you have links to craft websites, or other sitting sites?

2007-08-10 07:36:51 · 3 answers · asked by lilvolley7 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-10 07:35:47 · 1 answers · asked by sunnysummer 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 8mths. He is the most wonderful man I have ever dated. I have a history with a couple of bad relationships under my belt and he has been so patient with me. He taught me how to love and trust again after so much pain in my past relationships. I found true happiness when I found him. My problem is this.....I used to be intimate with him 5-10 times a week. I couldn't get enough of him. NOW...I just don't want it. I still do usually at least once a week, but I know that he wants it more than that. He never gets upset with me when I don't want to, but I know that it is disappointing to him. He does everything in his power to make me happy and 99% of the time he makes sure that I am satisfied before him. I know how lucky I am to have him in my life, but don't know how to want it more....Please help with any suggestions.

2007-08-10 07:35:46 · 2 answers · asked by ~*Live*~*Laugh*~*Love*~ 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-10 07:34:29 · 1 answers · asked by darkness loc 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a serious crush on a married man. He likes me to but we don't do anything just flirt like hell. I was wondering what I should do?

2007-08-10 07:32:56 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

His wife and him (both around 40 yo) have no sexual relationship at all, no contact for over a year.. he wants it she doesn't, they have been to counselling (3 months).. all talk, no action still... and he's not a jerk, she just has no drive and tells him that all the time. How long should he go without sex before making a choice to go somewhere else for it.

2007-08-10 07:32:07 · 25 answers · asked by n_maritz 3 in Marriage & Divorce

about 3 years ago i met this guy on a cruise and we ended up dating for about 3 months after that, and everything was really good, then we broke up because he lived 45 minutes away and i didnt have a car at the time so it was really difficult to keep the relationship going. since then he moved away to college about 90 min away and we have managed to stay in contact over the years, whenever either of us is in town we go on a "date" but thats rare, well now we are starting to hang out more and i will be going to transfer to the same college he is at (not because of him, i had to finish my aa first.) and i know he still kinda has a thing for me, but i need advice on how to make him want me again, with out looking obvious. the weird thing is i am usuall very good with guys and can usually get their attention (w.o being slutty) but when it comes to him im clueless... please give me some advice.

2007-08-10 07:31:59 · 1 answers · asked by roodle18 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I used to go out to the clubs, and often enough we hooked up with girls on girls nights out that we knew had or most likely had boyfreinds - or more (as in, my freind hooked up with a chick with a ring). it wasn't that they were disatisfied, but we showed them some excitement and sometimes it paid off. those were crazier days for me - and i don't live like that anymore - but there were certainly guys who were way better at scoring than i was. worst part, it was sometimes - but not always - EASY with ordinary not slutty girls. once you got them having fun with you and turned on with talk and dancing, the deal often went down.

Now, my wife goes out with her freinds about once a month, often dancing at a club. I trust her and everything, but we hardly have sex like we used to, and she drinks a little, and i think she's hot enough to draw a player's attention once in a while. my freind and i were remarking - it sure would be better if they had protection. i mean, isn't there a certain likelihood it would happen and we'd never know? and isn't it better to not find out than to find out through an std?

So I was thinking of asking if she carried one, and suggest that she do carry one – but I don't know how that'll go over.

2007-08-10 07:31:47 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok I picked out champagne bridesmaid dresses without really thinking it through and it washes out some of the girls. There are seven girls and a few of them are going to tan a week before the wedding to get a nice glow to make the dress look better on them! I loved this idea and wanted to ask all of my bridesmaids to do that. I understand that some may not want to enter the "cancer box" but today they have all of the Gradual Tans and things like that. Is it too much to ask them to do that? Unlike some brides I REALLY want all of my 7 girls to look their best and I think everyone looks better with a healthy glow! I also want them to look not so washed out in the pictures. I will not force any of them to do it but is it too much to ask? Does is sound Bridezillaish?

2007-08-10 07:30:12 · 12 answers · asked by MadKat 4 in Weddings

2007-08-10 07:29:51 · 2 answers · asked by naadeco 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

about 3 years ago i met this guy on a cruise and we ended up dating for about 3 months after that, and everything was really good, then we broke up because he lived 45 minutes away and i didnt have a car at the time so it was really difficult to keep the relationship going. since then he moved away to college about 90 min away and we have managed to stay in contact over the years, whenever either of us is in town we go on a "date" but thats rare, well now we are starting to hang out more and i will be going to transfer to the same college he is at (not because of him, i had to finish my aa first.) and i know he still kinda has a thing for me, but i need advice on how to make him want me again, with out looking obvious. the weird thing is i am usuall very good with guys and can usually get their attention (w.o being slutty) but when it comes to him im clueless... please give me some advice.

2007-08-10 07:28:00 · 1 answers · asked by roodle18 2 in Singles & Dating

what is your opinion on that?

2007-08-10 07:26:50 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Do things like old toys or pictures or anything you threw out, you can get back in heaven? Because my aunt bought me something when i was little and i kept it forever and a few months ago i saw it in the garbage and left it their like a jerk and its tearing me apart. So can you get back things in heaven, whats your guess?

2007-08-10 07:22:20 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

What do you like most about girls?? Please be specific. Please don't be nasty.

2007-08-10 07:19:58 · 1 answers · asked by sammygurl™ 2 in Singles & Dating

People vicariously experience life in books and movies by pretending they are the main character what does that say about porn?

Are men watching it to pretend they are the stud?

Are women watching it to pretend they are the vixen?

If this is the case then women should not have anything to fear from the women in the movie, because in all truth men are focusing on the man in the movie. Think about it! Why else would the guy have to be hung like a horse, because their hero can't be less of a man then them.

Can I get any intelligent thoughts on this?
Or
Are you all going to be so caught up penis size to not even understand what I wrote?

2007-08-10 07:19:11 · 3 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-10 07:18:19 · 2 answers · asked by ,,,,,,, 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-10 07:17:57 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi i am 23yrs old,me and my fiance been together for lil over a year now. my relationship with his parents was very good till he told them about my past, My past is not bad, I am indian and i have had an arrange marriage before and i have a son from that marriage.after he told them his parents attitude start changing day by day, His parents live with me and my fiance.his mom became very rude and careless about me. His parents dont even talk to me that often now. She is always looking for something negitive to say about me. I spoke to my fiance and he said its all in my heart and in mind...they are still the same...i dont want to stress it with my fiance beacause i dont want him to think i am type of girl who will turn him against his parents infact i dont want anyone in the house to think like that. How do i make him see what i am seeing without making him think that i dont like his parents???? his parents also know that my first marriage wasnt my choice it was arranged.

2007-08-10 07:15:53 · 1 answers · asked by rohani 1 in Other - Family & Relationships