My boyfriend and I have been dating for 8mths. He is the most wonderful man I have ever dated. I have a history with a couple of bad relationships under my belt and he has been so patient with me. He taught me how to love and trust again after so much pain in my past relationships. I found true happiness when I found him. My problem is this.....I used to be intimate with him 5-10 times a week. I couldn't get enough of him. NOW...I just don't want it. I still do usually at least once a week, but I know that he wants it more than that. He never gets upset with me when I don't want to, but I know that it is disappointing to him. He does everything in his power to make me happy and 99% of the time he makes sure that I am satisfied before him. I know how lucky I am to have him in my life, but don't know how to want it more....Please help with any suggestions.
2007-08-10 07:35:46 · 2 answers · asked by ~*Live*~*Laugh*~*Love*~ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
hoenstly, i think its just a cycle. all relationships start out strong. me and my boyfriend were like you two, and now we areboth so busy that we get it maybe once a week too. its not unnatural... at all. maybe if you just had a day in bed, it would be nice for you two? a weekend spent in bed with fruit and chocolate can be a fun intimate time!
2007-08-14 07:33:34 · answer #1 · answered by OhioFantastic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to figure out what is diffrent between the you now and the you of back then....and change anything as needed.
2007-08-12 15:11:07 · answer #2 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋