about 3 years ago i met this guy on a cruise and we ended up dating for about 3 months after that, and everything was really good, then we broke up because he lived 45 minutes away and i didnt have a car at the time so it was really difficult to keep the relationship going. since then he moved away to college about 90 min away and we have managed to stay in contact over the years, whenever either of us is in town we go on a "date" but thats rare, well now we are starting to hang out more and i will be going to transfer to the same college he is at (not because of him, i had to finish my aa first.) and i know he still kinda has a thing for me, but i need advice on how to make him want me again, with out looking obvious. the weird thing is i am usuall very good with guys and can usually get their attention (w.o being slutty) but when it comes to him im clueless... please give me some advice.
2007-08-10 07:28:00 · 1 answers · asked by roodle18 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Purpose is the single most powerful symbol in the human languange. Which is what your relationship lacked. Shows because you guys gave up way to easy. Ether way unless you have some sort of purpose your going to add to this relationship other then, wow I really love this guy, don't expect much. You could just do the old tell him how much you care and see what happens, but if that doesn't work, its because of that, no purpose, no reason to it. Are you doing it because you lonely? Can't find anyone better? Are becasue you feel you have a lot to give this guy and him in return to you, that goes beyond simple romance and into the fact that its important towards you living this life in this world, if not its justs sappy love, if its intense reasoning you got behind wanting to be with this guy, then I can see how you both lost intereset....
2007-08-10 10:47:28 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋