Family & Relationships - 10 August 2007

I am college educated, but she has a high school education and is beginning college this year. How do I tell her she is not as smart/educated as me and is not allowed to go out with me?

2007-08-10 08:43:31 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Do guys dig skater girls?

2007-08-10 08:42:57 · 3 answers · asked by Salsa 1 in Singles & Dating

HISTORY: my STB ex-husband & i have been separated for a few months. he has a pregnant girlfriend whom he lives in another state with. when he comes here to visit our daughter, we have our own little fling going on (you know what i mean). i'm the person he calls when he needs to confide in someone. i'm the person he calls when he's down and depressed. and i'm there for him like a good person should be regardless of the situation. he's human, he makes mistakes.

QUESTION: anytime he gets frustrated with something, he calls me up and vents to me as well (as above). i'm taking about when he totally looses it & yells & screams & cusses. he always acts like it's my fault then later will call me back & act like nothing ever happened. i dont get it. WHY DO I GET THE BRUNT OF HIS FRUSTRATION??? why does he call ME to get angry?!?! & everytime he talks about killing himself. what i want to know is why he chooses me to be the person he takes it all out on? i just dont get it

2007-08-10 08:42:34 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My wife and I went out drinking last night and got totally hammered.

I woke up this morning with a painful rectum. And I saw a strap-on on the floor. While we were drinking last night my wife was joking about duking me in the butt. I guess she was serious.

I think it was a trap.

I couldn't control my bowels this morning and my doodoo just slipped out.

I called in sick to work this morning.

I didn't say anything to my wife because she leaves for work before me.

I don't remember anything. But she was really happy this morning.

Did she slip me rufies too?

How can I ask my wife about what happened last night?
Will my corn hole ever be the same?

2007-08-10 08:41:02 · 7 answers · asked by hershey highway road thug 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend and i have been together for over 8 months. i am a christian, come from a christian family, and have very strong beliefs. i go to church every week. my dad is even a pastor.

on the other hand, my boyfriend doesn't really even believe in God.

the first time i found that out, i was shocked. we started an argument over it. and i regret blowing up like that...

so now i want to just talk about it - to try to see where he's coming from. but he won't talk about this subject AT ALL now since he's afraid i'll get mad again.

i want to show him the love God has for him - and since God is such a big part in my life, i want a man that loves God, too. except, my boyfriend doesn't see this since he won't even talk about it.

the question is - how can i show my boyfriend that i want him to be open about this, and to see how important it is to me??? he thinks it's all a big joke, and that hurts...

2007-08-10 08:40:35 · 45 answers · asked by (( .gabi♥. )) 2 in Singles & Dating

A co-worker comes by my office and sees pictures of my kids, wife and me. First she asks if the kids are my nephew/niece...I answer "no, those are my kids". Its clear as day that those are my kids. Then see stares at my wife and says "your wife is pretty". Is there any hidden meanings behind her words. Background information: She came up to me and introduced herself and later I find out that she is married and has a son. Also, this is like the 3rd woman to look at my pictures and say nothing about my kids but seem more interested in how my wife looks. WTF???

Sorry its so long.

2007-08-10 08:40:29 · 24 answers · asked by rob h 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, I am leaving out of the country and my 13 yr can not come with me because her father would not allow it, which is fine, so I decided to let her go and live with him and his wife, being that he is just now getting back into her life after being absent from it for over 6 yrs. We fought for years to get him to pay child support and final after 7-8 years child support is being taking from each check and we get his tax return. Well he wants to have another child with his wife but she does not want to speacilly with the way he has treated his child. So he cried becaused he supposelly missed her growing up and he wanted her to come life with them. So, I asked her what she wanted to do and of course she wanted to live with him. But after her being there for the past month or so I was told by his wife only by accdent that he will be tring to get child support out of me. So my feeling are that he only wanted her to stop paying child support and with the help of his wife get me to pay.

2007-08-10 08:39:47 · 9 answers · asked by cher2802 1 in Family

2007-08-10 08:39:05 · 17 answers · asked by rani85blue 1 in Singles & Dating

we have bin together for a year she and i get along very good with normial ups and downs. she wants to keep a simple relationship with no tittles but no dating other people .am i not getting somthing here were is the growth if no movment. we almost live together cus of the time we spend together her at my house & me at hers ???? I am introduced as her friend.it feels like we r just hump buddys at times.

2007-08-10 08:38:32 · 22 answers · asked by Frank d 1 in Singles & Dating

First thing first, my boyfriend and I live together. He only gives me sex once a week, if that, which I would prefer it a lot more. I know funny its how the women is complaining about this issue. Any how, he is leaving out of town for 3 days and I thought before he left that we could be intimate seeing its going on 2 weeks of not making love. So, I tried last night and he claimed he was too tired and that he may give it to me in the morning. The morning comes and he denies me once again. I got all upset and he ended up leaving with us being on bad terms. We got into a verbal arguement. My feelings are hurt and to be honest, the whole situation makes me feel very insecure. He seems to have this theory that all I want him for is sex, but that is not the case whatsoever. I'm frustrated and don't know what to do. Has anyone every experienced this? I'm in a lost of words and really ready to call it quits. By the way, we are about to have an one year anniversary.

2007-08-10 08:37:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-10 08:37:47 · 41 answers · asked by Snively 2 in Singles & Dating

There is this boy at my job who I really like. Yeah i talk to him, I flirt with him a little when I get the chance. When I am with him I feel comfterable around him and I am myself around him. Out of the job I text him to see what up with him of course he text back.
He is a really a nice guy, this year and last year when he left for vacation he brought a gift. What is he thinking about between me and him? What else can I do? Am I going too far?

2007-08-10 08:36:39 · 10 answers · asked by celi b 1 in Singles & Dating

If you've been with someone 2 yrs ago and you see that person again.that person tells you he/she still loves you and wants a relationship even though you live in different city(far).and you see that person is sending messages to other ppl like "I want to see you again" that definitely means its a lie???

2007-08-10 08:34:20 · 11 answers · asked by Mia G 1 in Singles & Dating

choose work time over family time.

2007-08-10 08:30:02 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Just because I stole her husband away. They were having problems anyway; and I love living in her house raising her kids. But she stands out there on the street every day with her little bum sign and crying. I don't know why she is so sad? She's a free woman now!!

2007-08-10 08:28:03 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Cause I am never going to find a boyfriend!! It is very discourging!!

2007-08-10 08:26:59 · 18 answers · asked by truckie1976 1 in Singles & Dating

At 8mos. pregnant my husband had just started a new job, about a month into it he started acting strange. He was picking fights with me, being distant, and even disappeared a few nights until the next day...eventually I found proof that he was having an affair. We talked it over and decided to try to work things out.The morning after our talk, I found "her" name and # in his wallet. He went hysterical, trying to get it from me. A few weeks later he left me, moved to his mom's, and then in with the other girl. I ended up having our daughter without him, he didn't even see her until she was 6 days old. All the while, I was recovering from a csection and taking care of our 3 other girls.I still loved him though, and continued to beg for him to come back. The day after mother's day, he came to visit and stayed. At first I was happy, now I'm uncertain of his motives.The "affair" called later and told me she was pregnant with twins by him, dates don't add up,but I'm still confused and hurt.

2007-08-10 08:26:47 · 25 answers · asked by rollings83 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-10 08:26:02 · 14 answers · asked by help wanted! 2 in Singles & Dating

You have meant the world to me over these precious ___________________(number) months. Whenever I think of you, ____________________(name), I feel all ______________(emotion) inside. However, I feel it is time for us to change directions and find someone new. I will always remember with great fondness the time we __________________ _______________ ____________ , and of course which of us could ever forget how we___________ _________________ and ______________ __________ to each other.

2007-08-10 08:25:09 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

heyhey!
I was just wondering how old you were when you had your first kiss and what happened. (like where were you....all that jazz)

2007-08-10 08:23:56 · 17 answers · asked by XD 4 in Singles & Dating

My fiance & I have been getting along well lately after some rough spots. I just text messeged him "You make me happy and I love you". He responded right away with one word. "Ditto"
What the hell? Is he being a smartass or is that an acceptable response from a man? Lol, maybe I'm reading too much into this....

2007-08-10 08:23:21 · 20 answers · asked by SugarFreeRedBull 1 in Marriage & Divorce

just curious

2007-08-10 08:19:30 · 4 answers · asked by a-bay-bay...blackster 1 in Friends

I met her at a nice restaurant in LA, and I was her waiter, she was with 3 girlfriends and looked kind of sad, so I said what is wrong? and she said she was upset about her and Cash Warren breaking up(her former boyfriend) So I said what can I do to help you feel better? She said go on a date with her on Saturday to a trendy nightclub, she gave me her number and the place that she was staying at so I can get back to her on Saturday, so obviously I said yes. What do you guys think? If she wants sex I'll just tell her no, I'm waiting until I'm married and I hope she doesn't take it as an insult and upset her.

2007-08-10 08:18:02 · 54 answers · asked by Hello 1 in Singles & Dating

i haven't talked to my ex in a week, and three nights ago she texted me saying "i miss you". she has a new bf, and when i asked about what happened with him she said "nothings happened hes just no you". two nights ago we were texting and she said i miss you so much babe. and then yesterday she ignores me all day until late at night when she's really drunk. she sends me a message on myspace saying YOUR MY SOULMATE I LOVE YOU I JUST NEED MY TIME AWAY I DONT KNOW WHY BUT I LOVE YOU YOUR MY OTHER HALF I LOVE YOU I LOVE YOU I LOVE YOU. and then she called me like 10 times that night. i don't wanna get back with her, but do you guys think there's any truth to this?

2007-08-10 08:18:02 · 11 answers · asked by tmc2728 1 in Singles & Dating

im bored plz answer and dont be a dick about it please

2007-08-10 08:10:54 · 44 answers · asked by Randall F 2 in Singles & Dating

I live with my boyfriends friends which are a couple. I first lived with them when I needed an out so I could move out of my parents house. Now we live in a house that they signed the lease to and got keys before I had even seen it and I was cornered to sign the lease. Well our lease is up and I thought we had and understanding that we would go month to month now. They just dropped the bomb that they discussed it further without me and told our landlord to activate another lease and now they want me to sign it. I am sick of being teamed up on. The problem is I don't have anywhere else to move to quickly enough or enough money. Also I can't chew them out like I want to since they are my boyfriends good friends and I would still see them constantly even if I do move out.

So how should I get out without causing tension between all of us in the future?

2007-08-10 08:10:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Okay, so I have a backyard bbq, how classy are burgers and wieners? How on earth could I make this less like a children's birthday party? and then how do I get the guests to leave?!!!

2007-08-10 08:09:17 · 14 answers · asked by mommyoftwo 3 in Weddings

whould you want to 3rd person to be a guy or a girl? and why?

2007-08-10 08:08:34 · 7 answers · asked by bigjohnson0609 1 in Singles & Dating

i liked this guy (Daniel) from when i was 4until several months ago, which is bout 10 years.
he always knew i liked him and played hard to get. when i was 11 i found out he'd liked me when we were younger. then it was obvious he still liked me, but he never said it, and i was too dumb to catch on. now, i'm 14, almost 15, and he found out i like this other guy and he likes me back so he (previous crush)goes tellin him i'm easy and i like everyone blah blah blah, a bunch of crap like that.
that was in may.
in april a mutual guy friend (Jerome) of Daniel and myself, he calls me and we talk on the phone alot, well, in april jerometells me that daniel likes beyonce and lyndsay lohan, and when i ask y he told me that, he says "cuz daniel said that and i was like, ooh, i'm gunna tell (me)" and daniel says go ahead i don't care, so then jerome tells me.
and that same day on the phone jerome tells me he was following me around cuz daniel ditched him cuz "i stole his girfriend" by the way i

2007-08-10 08:07:09 · 33 answers · asked by Zoe 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok well my ex dumped me a lil over 2 months ago ( we dated for 4 years since i was 15 and she dumped me for someone else even though she denies it b/c she was dating him not even 2 weeks later and i'v cut all contact with her even though she thought after the break up that we would be best friends and she sends me messages ( facebook-even though i deleted her from that and msn, the whole works) asking if we can be friends and if we can start talkin blah blah blah and i just ignore them b/c it hurts me to c her and talk to her. I even gave up moving back to mexico when i was 16 to b with her and my entire family is down there. and i just found out that she's moving in with her new bf, anyways i have been trying to get over this. i party, talk to girl, and do alot of things but i just cant help but to think of her 24/7 and im sick of it b/c she's the one who left me, anyways anything u guys can suggest that will help me get over this b/c it just hurts to much,AND SHE SAID MY LOVE FOR HER WAS NOT ENOUGH. mean while i'v been through alot of crap b/c of her and she just leaves me b/c someone better at the moment walked in..what a B!T(H but still i love her to death...and well thanks for your advice and help..and if ur goin to write quit being a wussy blah blah FUK UR SELF

2007-08-10 08:06:40 · 31 answers · asked by Nanonan m 2 in Singles & Dating