2007-08-10 08:37:47 · 41 answers · asked by Snively 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He might be suffering attention decificit disorder?
Get him a new electronic toy....
2007-08-10 08:42:25 · answer #1 · answered by Drew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy gets jealous over you and your children then maybe thats not the guy for you then. Knowing you have children he should be understanding of you and your heavy load and responsibility that comes with raising children on your own. Your children should come first before any relationship that you might have and you need to let him know. And if he doesn't understand that then maybe you need ot move on to someone who will.
2007-08-10 08:42:13 · answer #2 · answered by SMX™ -- Lover Of Hero @};- 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not common for someone your dating to be jealous when you spend time with your kids. Don't even allow that thought. He needs to grow up and be a man, if he feels that he's not spending enough time with you then make time but he has to understand that your children comes first. He's acting extremely childish and immature.You shouldn't put up with someone like that. Either he deals with it or step off.
2007-08-10 09:56:21 · answer #3 · answered by VENA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not common. He just wants you all to himself, and that can't be. He doesn't like playing second fiddle, which is the case in such dating relationships. This guy is not a good candidate as a step father. Might be best to put off dating and concentrate 100% on raising wonderful kids until they are all 18.
2007-08-10 08:42:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is a serious problem. This means that he him self is a child...he really isn't mature. If he get jealous when your with your children...I'm sure he would get jealous if you would go out to visit a friend...stay away...seems like he's the type of guy that wants you all to him self.
2007-08-10 08:42:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No this is not common at all. Your b/f is too possessive. Your children comes first no matter what or who. If your b/f cannot accept this then he should not date a woman who has children.
2007-08-10 08:43:13 · answer #6 · answered by Vida 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I have been in a relationship like that before. That guy has problems. Get out of the relationship as soon as possible. Jealousy doesn't get better it gets worse. If he is jealous of your kids now, pretty soon it will be your friends, family, work, etc. It a form of control, and believe you me, it is not worth it. It is hard to get rid of them the longer you stay in a relationship with a control freak
2007-08-10 08:42:17 · answer #7 · answered by ?? yaddajean ?? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a single mom to a 2 year old girl. Luckily I haven't had this problem, though my dating experiences haven't turned into anything. I think it's important to make it clear in the beginning that your children are your first priority. If the guy isn't going to accept that, then he isn't right for you.
2007-08-10 08:41:14 · answer #8 · answered by shamrock girl 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
It's a big problem for you .You should let him go now.Don't you want someone to spend time with you and the kids? Someone to spoil them ?You and the kids deserve more. Don't settle for these men with jealousy issues especial with your kids .There is a good man out there for you but he cant have you cause your with this loser guy(sorry) . Spoil your babies .They are depending on you to find a man that can improve their everyday lives not bring tension and anger.Wish you well
2007-08-10 08:47:15 · answer #9 · answered by jennifer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is but it shouldn't be. my mom went through this when she was dating. one thing she explained to them was that her children came first. then if she was serious about the guy. she would involve him in things that she did with us. eventually he stop-ed getting jealous. also just a word to the wise and this isn't with every guy. but keep an eye on his jealousy level. some people (women too) tend to be well too jealous. it happened to my mom once. but just try to include him on stuff. if ur okay with him being around ur kids. that's what my mom did. now she's married to one of them.
2007-08-10 08:45:43 · answer #10 · answered by darkiwi7899 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ditch him. Any man that gets jealous of the time you spend with your kids is selfish. Your children come first and you need to make sure he don't forget it.
2007-08-10 08:43:15 · answer #11 · answered by simply_ch0c0late 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋