Cause I am never going to find a boyfriend!! It is very discourging!!
2007-08-10 08:26:59 · 18 answers · asked by truckie1976 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're very entitled to wait until marriage to have sex.
But guys (and girls) are also entitled to prefer knowing that the sex aspect will be part of the relationship before the relationship gets too serious.
If you end up holding out, that's just fine, but it means you're less common. You would need to find an equally uncommon guy who wants the same thing.
2007-08-10 08:32:04 · answer #1 · answered by Buying is Voting 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
SEX SEX SEX, and Guys...... Look, those who reject or say put out or get out... Well these are the guys you dont want.... The first time is the only thing you can give to the special someone, only once.. Once in your entire life and there's.... If they can not wait or won't for the right time, and place... Then I would have to say they may not be the person you need to be with.. They sound shallow, and looking to "score" and the big question I have to them is, why would you want seconds, thirds, or be way down the line, when you could be first on the list, and also be the man on top....
Just wait, don't allow your self to be taken in and dumped out.. You will hate your self for it and they will say oh yea, got it... Keep strong, keep brave, and stay pure....
2007-08-10 15:45:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are. And that would make a difference. Are you looking to marry? Then date guys in the age range and maturity and financial catagory that lends itself to eligible mates - those who are also looking to marry. That will narrow down your choices to guys that might be ok with this.
Or date guys in the religion that would typically promote this.
Good luck - there's always someone out there for someone else so don't fret.
2007-08-10 15:36:07 · answer #3 · answered by Delay 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the first poster: STICK TO YOUR BELIEFS. ANY guy who doesn't want you because of that is not a guy worth having. Trust me. Honestly think about it... do you WANT to be with a guy like that? A guy that dumps you or rejects you because you're saving yourself until marriage? There ARE decent guys out there, by the way. You'll find him soon.
2007-08-10 15:32:46 · answer #4 · answered by Cochy 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I am saving myself too. Don't settle and have sex before you are married. The guys that are rejecting you because you are waiting aren't the guys you want to be dating. They don't respect you.
2007-08-10 15:57:16 · answer #5 · answered by HoliKanowlee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont u see a problem with the guys...they are rejecting u cause u dont want to have sex...that shows that they arent looking for a deeper relationship...they want sex....u stick to ur morals and values....ur doing what millions of other people shoud be doing...ur respecting ur body...ur being a strong women and not a hoe....dont stress urself out..ull find the rite guy and it may not be anytime soon, its hard finding the rite person for u
2007-08-10 15:38:28 · answer #6 · answered by D.C 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When you find a guy who really loves you he will not care about that. Also, don't tell a guy you're dating right away, just because you don't want them to judge you just based on that ya know.
2007-08-10 15:33:41 · answer #7 · answered by Afisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont let it get to you. Your worth waiting till marriage. One day you will find a guy who will wait till marriage with you. Dont let them everyday guys get to you because all they want is sex. They dont care about anything else.
2007-08-10 15:36:07 · answer #8 · answered by bRoWn EyEd BeAuTy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good things are worth waiting for. Some guy is waiting to meet a girl like you, don't disappoint him.
2007-08-10 15:35:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick to your guns, you'll find the right guy. You don't want the ones that are rejecting you anyway, because they are obvioulsy only after that one thing.
2007-08-10 15:31:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋