Should a girl carry a condom when she goes out to clubs or parties? even if she doesn't plan on getting any?

Question

I used to go out to the clubs, and often enough we hooked up with girls on girls nights out that we knew had or most likely had boyfreinds - or more (as in, my freind hooked up with a chick with a ring). it wasn't that they were disatisfied, but we showed them some excitement and sometimes it paid off. those were crazier days for me - and i don't live like that anymore - but there were certainly guys who were way better at scoring than i was. worst part, it was sometimes - but not always - EASY with ordinary not slutty girls. once you got them having fun with you and turned on with talk and dancing, the deal often went down.

Now, my wife goes out with her freinds about once a month, often dancing at a club. I trust her and everything, but we hardly have sex like we used to, and she drinks a little, and i think she's hot enough to draw a player's attention once in a while. my freind and i were remarking - it sure would be better if they had protection. i mean, isn't there a certain likelihood it would happen and we'd never know? and isn't it better to not find out than to find out through an std?

So I was thinking of asking if she carried one, and suggest that she do carry one – but I don't know how that'll go over.

Answer 1

Just play the safe part and easy one. Get some protection and put in your wife purse. After that, tell her about it in a nice and soft way.Just like that. No big fuss.