Hi i am 23yrs old,me and my fiance been together for lil over a year now. my relationship with his parents was very good till he told them about my past, My past is not bad, I am indian and i have had an arrange marriage before and i have a son from that marriage.after he told them his parents attitude start changing day by day, His parents live with me and my fiance.his mom became very rude and careless about me. His parents dont even talk to me that often now. She is always looking for something negitive to say about me. I spoke to my fiance and he said its all in my heart and in mind...they are still the same...i dont want to stress it with my fiance beacause i dont want him to think i am type of girl who will turn him against his parents infact i dont want anyone in the house to think like that. How do i make him see what i am seeing without making him think that i dont like his parents???? his parents also know that my first marriage wasnt my choice it was arranged.
2007-08-10 07:15:53 · 1 answers · asked by rohani 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
That is a tough one, esp since his parents are living with you and your fiance.
About the only thing you can do, is to have a heart to heart talk with your soon to be In-laws.
I had a strained relationship with my Mother-n-law for quit awhile. We are very close now. We finally talked it out and it turned out for the better.
Talk to your In-laws about the arranged marriage... Ask them if they have any questions. Do what you can to keep a open and honest relationship with them.
Hopefully Your fiance will open his eyes and help answer question and get things out in the open..
One more thing. I think it would be best, if you and your fiance had your own place to live with out his parents living with you, that cant be emotionally healthy...
`faith
2007-08-10 19:08:33 · answer #1 · answered by faith♥missouri 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋