How can I turn them on?

Question

Tonight my wife an I have a couple over to dinner. How can I propouse to do something herotic?

Answer 1

First you have to do a little research. This may take more than one dinner. First find out if they are open to even talking about it. One way to do this would be to start a conversation about what turns you on as a couple. If they are open to talking about it then try to determine if they are open as a couple, and whether your opposite likes you or not. Then try to see if your wife's opposite likes her or not. If you get a negative response from any of this then act like you were just curious but don't pursue it any further. Some folks would be so offended by this that you'd lose them as friends. You cannot just start making sexual advances. That may work in porn movies but not in real life.
If you really want to experience something like this you have to be a good researcher and do a sort of stealth survey and find out if your wife is interested, then if the other couple is interested. If one or both of them are prone to be jealous or obsessive then it is better if you just drop it. If all parties want to do it then lay down the ground rules - The following are my 9 groupsex rules that I developed over a ten year period of successful open sex acitivity.
1. No cheating, no lying, no sneaking or attempts to talk to or see the other guy's wife without him being there etc. (same goes for the wives toward the other lady's man) Do not be too familiar with the other couple in public. Keep it discreet, never allow it to be obvious or there will be hell to pay.
2. Never freely take what you are not prepared to offer freely. Do not be jealous seeing the guy do your wife if you expect him to not be jealous to see you doing his wife.
3. Use protection. Never assume that you won't catch something just because you partner is nice or smells good.
4. Never tell anyone outside your group. Group sex is totally taboo to many people and it could cause a person to lose their job etc. At the very least you will ruin your chances of a repeat of you blab too much. Avoid swingers clubs.
4. Never make bisexual advances without talking about it beforehand. Remember, a group sex setting is going to cause you to be in close proximity to your guy friend naked and fully aroused, same for the girls. Many a promising party was stopped in its tracks when someone assumed it would be OK to go for some bi action without coming out and asking directly. If you breach the subject and they say they are not interested in that, you just say, "OK, I was just checking" This way they won't know if you wanted to do it or if you wanted to see if they wanted to do it.
5. Learn to experience the jealousy-free vicarious turn-on when seeing your guy friend making sweet strong love to your wife. It can be a little disturbing, especially if he is hung bigger than you are, or for him if you are bigger than him. In a group setting, jealousy is the big spoiler of all possible fun. Try to feel what your wife or lover is feeling being with this different man in front of you. This makes it easier for her to try to feel what you are feeling and approve. Both guys can be with one woman at the same time while the other woman watches, and then switch. Or if you are really lucky, all four can engange in various ways which I will leave to your imagination. This sort of thing can really get people turned on.
6. Always do your best to get your sex partner off before you come, no exceptions. Good sex is about generosity and freely given energy. The goal is to get your partner off, whoever they may be. Never lose sight of the goal.
7. Atmosphere is important, Always make sure that you will not be distrubed by kids, family or other friends. People can sometimes have a sixth sense about this sort of thing and will be able to tell if something delicious is going on under their noses. Quality porn videos of group action can be a great ice breaker, candles, music, incense, that great bottle of wine you've been saving, some expensive liquor or mixed drinks, smokables...party on! I would definlitely suggest to you that coke and speed or opiates are completely out of the question. These drugs will sabotage all your fun so avoid them like the plague they are. Never take your temporary partner into another room where your wife and her husband can't see you. Always try to get the ladies to start the action. You may have to come right out and invite your wife to get busy on the other guy. Make sure they all hear you. Don't worry, if she is as in to this as you are you won't have to ask her more then once to get started, and twice to have her happilly fondling him. Then once she has broken the ice, the other woman will naturally go for you. Get over any shyness you might feel. You wanted to do this, remember?
8. Do not try to set up another group date right after a successful group sex session. You can talk about how fun it was and whether you liked it or not and all that but don't try to make a new sex date right away. Give it some air, let some time go by. If they had a good enough time and want to do a repeat they will come to you and ask or they will hint at it in some obvious way. Sometimes it turns out that you never do it again with a certain couple but do it dozens of times more with another more compatible couple. They might even decide that they will wait to make sure there are no weird repercussions or problems from you before they bring it up again. People are cautious and it is good to be that way. Sometimes the girls will decide they want to do the group thing again and then it is fun to act like they are talking the guys into it. If you are lucky they might feel as though they need to put on a show for you guys, y'know, just to get you aroused (we won't tell them you were already aroused)
9. Last and most important rule - always make sure to have a raging good sex session with your wife or husband as soon as possible after your group fun. I found that my wife and I could not wait to be with each other as soon as our temporary partners left. I was so turned on to being with her after seeing her with someone else that we would have multiple orgasms, which was not uncommon for her but was certainly unusual for me!
Good luck. If you really want to experience this you will have to work at it but this could possibly turn out the be the most exciting sex you'll ever have, and you'll definitely remember it for life. If you are lucky enough to experience it, cherish it and enjoy without guilt or shame of any kind. If you are prone to guilt and shame, forget about it.

Answer 2

"Herotic"?

Is that where you wear a cape and tights and beg for some couples swinging?

Does your wife even know about your little plan to go 4-wheeling?

Talk it over with her first. If she's a go, you are halfway home.

My guess: you'll be sleeping in the garage for 6 months.

Answer 3

Like have a group thing? Very very carefully. Starting a conversation like that is like saying "Dear, you're ok, but bob's wife is really hot, oh btw Bob, do you mind if I give your wife a good rogering, I don't mind if you pork mine".

You are likely to wind up face down in an alley and divorced.

Answer 4

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Answer 5

You mean propose something erotic? Don't! You should not with someone who is not expecting it. If you and your wife are into that go to a website or something that is made for that. You need to find people who want to do that kind of stuff.

Answer 6

Herotic?? Your not going very far if ya cant spell man! Anyway try this. " Hi bob, welcome to my home. Damn your wife is hot, mind if i pork her? Go in the kitchen bob, nancy is just waiting to blow ya!!" Where in THEE hell do you people come up with stuff like this. Jeeeze

Answer 7

well you must be overly sexy to the other couple, and if the dudes bi, it will help, why dont you get steamy with your wife and pretend like you dont know they can see then maybe they're gonna want some loving too, hehe. whatever happens, Good Luck.

Answer 8

Play "Truth or Dare" then you can get info without putting yourself out there for embarrassment. See if they like that kind of stuff. Good Luck !!

Answer 9

First of all you need to spell erotic right! Go to the adult store and buy a game and then ask them if they are interested and if they swing then you will get your answer.

Answer 10

Don't. They won't appreciate it, and will most likely never come for dinner again. Unless they like that sort of thing. If you don't know, don't ask.

Answer 11

wow.
are u sure u can handle that ?

its a both way street. u ready to see ur wife f...... another guy ?

plus if it wont go right u will loose friends.
its not that easy.