I got a boyfriend. Yesterday he still calling me about 6pm. And about 8pm, he gone out with a friend. Then i call him to go back eariler and he agree. About 12midnight, i called him again, he wasnt at home but sleeping at his friend house. He say he will meet me tomorrow at 9am. But today. it is already 10pm at night and his phone is off, i went to his house and he havent gone back. He dont even give me a call.
Currently we have this problem that, he been chatting with girl online and exchange number. but they are in another province. He told me that he did that because i did that to him first. I have quit doing that already and now he want me to pay back. But we still talk to each other nicely. And he stop calling all the other girls. He say it is just the internet, he wont get serious about it.
What should i do?
he been missing for like 1 day?
should i wait or move on?
2007-08-10 04:16:28 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1. Work on your english
2. It does sound like he is cheating on you, take your time and wait for him to come in person. Ask him questions, but just dont blow up in front of him. Talk to him calmly.
2007-08-10 04:19:32 · answer #1 · answered by PSU840 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think its childish for him to pay you back by doingthe same thing but I also think that neither of you are ready for a relationship if you both are chatting online and giving your number away and getting numbers from the net. I just think that you two need a break and mature and grow up before you have a serious relationship because this is an unhealthy one and its not worth trying to work out. There are some real trust issues here and if it were me I would have just left it alone. No matter how nice you talk to each other on the phone you guys don't trust one another and to be in a relationship one person has to be the one to keep the peace and in your situation neither one of you want to be that person. So move on and don't get into another relationship until you mature more and can trust someone!
2007-08-10 11:22:58 · answer #2 · answered by Simply Lisa 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What are you waiting for more pain from someone whom has clearly dumped you.He is not missing he has moved on and you are still waiting.You solved your own problem about him when you know he is talking to someone on the Internet.Baby let that cheater alone,pick up your self esteem add God into it and you will get over this,then your blessing about a man will be solved.In the meantime find another hobby instead of worrying about this loser and love yourself.Reward yourself with something new to wear and go to the movies,the mall,church and a nice prince charming will come into your life.Good Luck
2007-08-10 11:29:42 · answer #3 · answered by girlygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, It honestly sound like both of you are still very immature. That is just plain disrespectful of him to be gone for that long and no phone call, then you say his phone is off. That sounds to me like to many games. I personally wouldn't even go there with him or take part in the game. If I were you I would let it go
2007-08-10 11:23:30 · answer #4 · answered by ?? yaddajean ?? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say move on. he doesnt seem too interested in u. not enough to call u and say hey hows it going or just to say where he's at. His phone is off for a reason. He could be at a girls house for all u kno. This relationship doesnt seem like its going to go to far. so get out before u get hurt. Bc if ur boyfriend is trying to pay u back for something u already stopped and realized it wasnt helping ur relationship. Then who knows whats to come.
2007-08-10 11:27:54 · answer #5 · answered by Sara 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey he is only gone like 1 day.. what are you thinking about?? you thought that he might meet other girls.. well I can not say anything about that.. but how to think in positive way first.. after 5 days and no contact from him at all.. then move on~
and maybe you only to over react this to much.. are you on pms?? maybe that also the reason why you get really sad.. just think in positive way
2007-08-10 11:23:03 · answer #6 · answered by dirty_a_ngel1 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
first of all, calm down...guys arent as "on time" as girls, and he probably doesnt think that this is too big of a deal. just give it some time, and gain his trust so he will care more to call u more often. if its really a problem now, talk to him and tell him how to feel; reach a compromise. if all else fails, then he is not the right guy for you, and u should just move on.
2007-08-10 11:20:39 · answer #7 · answered by BWaldorf 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you need to talk to him about it, and ask where the relationship stands. The most important part of this is communication, and finding ways of finding a way to stay together. The best relationships have "honesty sessions" where you discuss how you feel about things, and find way to understand each other and work things out.
2007-08-10 11:19:16 · answer #8 · answered by Steve C 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Where the h*** is he? You'll never know... He's probably seeing someone else b/c he didn't care how you felt when he cancelled your 9:00 date. Move on, but take it slow. These things can be very painful. Sorry hun
2007-08-10 11:21:35 · answer #9 · answered by dcbossygirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find someone who is mature and not about paybacks. What is he, 10 years old???
Additionally, don't call a guy incessantly, you'll drive him nuts and into the arms of a woman who isn't so needy. Make sense?
2007-08-10 11:20:01 · answer #10 · answered by Amy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should move on, relationships are not about pay back, that is immature stuff. He is clearly avoiding you. There are plenty of guys out there who would love to have a girl like you.
2007-08-10 11:20:55 · answer #11 · answered by LaTrice B 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋