Does it bother you when your gilfriend ask you few times but not tooo often, "do you really love me?" and if it does bother you, explain why?
2007-08-10 03:32:45 · 9 answers · asked by jennpor 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We been dating for almost a year, I love my boyfriend and he's a great guy... I know he loves me tooo.. but sometimes I just ask for no real reasons...
2007-08-10 03:35:26 · update #1
Just want to add that he tells me " I love you" everyday...
2007-08-10 03:39:54 · update #2
no it don't bother me at all. my wife has been asking the same thing for the past 26 years. and i have answered the same way for 26 years ... yes i do.
2007-08-10 03:37:07 · answer #1 · answered by hurts so good 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, by definition "not too often" wouldn't be a problem. The question is whether or not he thinks it "not too often". Personally, I couldn't hear that question more than once or twice before it bothered me. It would bother me because it indicates a lack of trust in me. Assuming that I tell her I love her on a regular basis, getting that question is like saying "Can I trust you to mean what you say?"
2007-08-10 10:47:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its like a dog begging to be petted. Its cute once in a while, and occaisionaly very annoying. Most of the time its something you learn to ignore.
2007-08-10 10:37:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't bother me. In fact, I would ask her as well. Sometimes, you can't get enough of hearing someone say that they love you.
2007-08-10 10:38:48 · answer #4 · answered by Gunner For Life! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, because... we want our "declarations" of love to be our declarations and not those forced out of us because we don't want to hurt her feelings. You might wait and see what happens if you don't ask. You actually might get more spontaneous "I love you"s if you don't insist on verbal reassurances.
2007-08-10 10:35:42 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i does because when you are going out with some one you don't love them because it is not like you are going to get married.
and if you are still in school what is the point in loveing some one that you just meet. i mean when you get older and have your own house and can get married than you can love them but if you are still in school you can;t love them because it is not going to last
2007-08-10 10:38:21 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you ask it too much it comes across as you don't beleive what he's telling you. BTW this answer just put me at level 5 (YAY!!!!!!!!)
2007-08-10 10:39:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah it buggs the shet out of me cuz it makes me think that there's a doubt in her mind and then i waist my day worring about it when you ask "FOR NO REASON"
2007-08-10 10:37:10 · answer #8 · answered by Nanonan m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's annoying. I think it's sweet when a girl does that.
2007-08-10 10:42:52 · answer #9 · answered by mjvast1014 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋