She is 43 years old and he is 20 something.
2007-08-10 04:01:09 · 39 answers · asked by Michelle Y 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She has been married. She divorced last year. She has two kids. One is a 16 or 17 year old daughter and a younger son.
2007-08-10 04:45:34 · update #1
Nothing. It's her life and none of my business.
2007-08-10 04:03:34 · answer #1 · answered by elurle 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My brother-in-law is going through the same thing. He got married when he was 19 to a woman who was 39. He was only 17 when they started dating. She has children older than him. She had already had her family and could not have any more children. At 19 this did not seem like a big deal. Now 12 yrs later (he is 32 she is 52) he wants children, she refused to adopt. She is very jelous of all younger women. And when he was around her she acted like she needed him to lead her around. When she is with anyone else she is fine. Don't get me wrong I really loved my sister in law, she is a very good person. I just think that at 19 she should have told him to wait a few yrs. and see if he felt the same way then. They are now in the middle of a divorce and he is going to have to pay her allimony. But he would not listen to anyone. You can give your friend advice but don't expect her listen. People will do what they want to anyway. Hope it will work out better for her.
2007-08-10 04:21:17 · answer #2 · answered by motherof3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well part of it depends upon the age. Lets assume she is 45 and he is 25. I would ask her what she liked about him and if she had any issues due to the differences in their likes such as movies music food outlook on life. I would ask if they considered children. But a large part depends on how long they are dating and what her circumstances are. Did she just get divorced?
Don't sweat it too much many people have romances with people a lot younger or older and they just burn out on their own. Make sure she does not give money or expensive gifts to him and let her have her fun while it lasts!
2007-08-10 04:06:49 · answer #3 · answered by komondor4 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. She is an adult who is capable of making her own decisions regarding her life, despite what anyone thinks (good, bad or indifferent).
Unless she specifically asks for an opinion about her relationship, it truly shouldn't be offered. If this guy is no good, at 43, she has enough experience to know that truth if/when it comes out.
2007-08-10 04:05:12 · answer #4 · answered by foxyblu75 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats is an Ok match as long as shes not as mature as her age lets on guys mature slower than women do so if she acts her age itll never ever work out so if it makes her feel good let her at it if she starts "falling" for him Id meet him and find out his intentions before drawing conclusions. Tell her at the least to be very careful!! Especially if shes well off..
2007-08-10 04:06:49 · answer #5 · answered by flgrl8585 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
THE GUY IS TOO younger
he problem's needs to have some one younger
like someone better
like someone his own age group
that is what you called a Jaguars of the night
they like way younger men
2007-08-10 04:12:17 · answer #6 · answered by ♥wh♥tஐAre♥U♥Lஐஐking?ஐALEXANDRAஐஐ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A 43 year old woman bags a 20 year old man and you hear, "good job!"
A 43 year old man bags a 20 year old woman and you hear, "pervert!"
2007-08-10 04:14:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her way to go! She got herself a hot young stud! As long as she's happy and he's happy about it there's no problem. She should be able to date anyone she wants regardless of age. Age is just how long you've been alive. It shouldn't be the deciding factor in a relationship.
2007-08-10 04:05:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I wouldn't tell her anything. It is her life, and if that is what she chooses to do with it, then so be it.
As long as they are both happy, then age should not matter. However, if you know of some legitimate reason why they should not be dating (e.g., he is a playa, he is using her for money, etc.), then I would discuss the issue with her as gently as possible, in order to ensure that she is aware of it.
Otherwise, Demi and Ashton it is!! :)
2007-08-10 04:04:10 · answer #9 · answered by BK 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
they dont have anything in common at all! maybe the sex is great but is it really worth it? you dont say whether or not she has children or has been married if those issues are present that makes it even worse. tell her to stop making a fool of herself. men who marry young women are looking to be young again or be fatherly to a woman what is her problem?? she could use counseling
2007-08-10 04:06:10 · answer #10 · answered by ronk 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would ask her why is she dating someone so much younger than her. But you know if both of them are okay with it than no one can say nothing about it. But you should talk to her..why so young
2007-08-10 04:06:22 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋