I met this stunning girl and was instantly interested in her. However, I discovered that she was the daughter of a person that NOBODY wants to tamper with. She knew, I guess, that I wanted to hit on her but then realised that because of her "family", I had got cold feet. She however left her mobile number with a workmate of mine to give to me as she had realised that I was not even up to talking to her. What should I do about it? If I'm found out by her family, then the least they can do to me is kill me. Is there anyone out there who can help me on this??? I guess I love her because I haven't felt the way I did until I met her. What should I do??
2007-08-10 04:03:19 · 18 answers · asked by sircrunchie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There's not much more flattering to a girl than a guy that is willing to face the "horribleness" of her family to get to meet her. Specially if the girl was bold enough to leave her number.
Just don't disrespect her or her family. But 'grab your balls' son and give her a call.
It's better than thinking 'What if...' later on down the road.
2007-08-10 04:23:49 · answer #1 · answered by astryd13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, it is not love....at least not yet anyway. It is hormones racing and with her being off limits, it changes things. Just do not worry about her family. You never know, they could accept you. Do not judge them until you know them. It could just be an impression that they leave on people, but they could be completely different. You never know about things like that. If you do not talk to her, then you will never know. She gave you the number for a reason....for you to use it....so do so!!!! Call her!!!
2007-08-10 04:08:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dad is like Jack Burns fom Meet the Parents. Trust me, the worst they can do is pretend he was a colnel in the navy and get you to do push ups
Never be alone with her dad!
2007-08-10 04:08:47 · answer #3 · answered by lil_munchie_x 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her and ask her if you can date her. Then ask her how it can be the "right way", i.e. according to her family's rules. Be prepared to "meet the father". Dress up. Follow their rules or else. And if you are too young, then guess what. You can't.
2007-08-10 04:06:27 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you're good as gold w/ the family, as long as you don't hurt her...so, decide now whether you want to spend the rest of your life w/ her or not!!
2007-08-10 04:06:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she feels the same way about u why should her family do something stupid to u.. they should let her be and get on with her life.....u should at least get to know the girl and hang out with her.....
2007-08-10 04:06:56 · answer #6 · answered by *S!LL!3G00B3R*TTC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's obviously interested in you if you left you her number. Call her, really what's the worse that can happen?
2007-08-10 04:11:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if how family is part of the mob than heck, get into the business too. that would defintely get you some brownie points
2007-08-10 04:13:30 · answer #8 · answered by hockeyfreak 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tough one.....This reminds me of the time carolyn and peter went to montague north caronlina on retreat to find new sexual positions they cud use with their husband and wife respectively....things were all fine and dandy until one day, would you believe it, in a small town like that a bear came and crapped on the main road during the night. i think you get my point....ok so good luck ...glad i could help.
2007-08-10 04:09:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I believe if you two are adults then its up to her who she can or should date.. It should up to her not her family..You would be dating her not them..
2007-08-10 04:07:41 · answer #10 · answered by raisin4362001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋