My lady friend is 20 years old but she looks 14 and I feel very uncomfortable going out in public with her!?

Question

What should I do, stop going out with her or what?

Answer 1

Of course not. Who cares what other people think?

Answer 2

You should ask politely to see some ID. She probably is 14 and if you touch her you could go to jail. Better to be safe than sorry. You don't want to be labeled as a sex offender for the rest of your life. How old are you by the way grandpa. If you have white hairs growing out of your ears I see why you would feel uncomfortable. Stop baby sitting and get a woman near your own age.

Answer 3

Here is what I think: A friend is a friend, it shouldn't matter how they look on the outside because it's whats in the inside that counts. But if you really do feel that uncomfortable around her then maybe you should tell her. What is it exactly that makes her look so young? The clothes she wears ... her facial appearances ... what? But I don't think that you should stop hanging out with a good friend just because of how they look. Because what if that happened to you? Would you like it? ...

--hope I helped

Answer 4

I understand why you might feel uncomfortable but she can't help that she looks young if it is a matter of her genes. If it is the way she dresses then maybe you should go shopping with her one day. Buy her a nice pair of shoes and constantly tell her how nice she looks in them and how they make her look "more mature" not older. Truthfully, if she acts her age it will show. I'm 25 but I get ID for lotto tickets. As soon as I open my mouth, you know my age or if you observe me long ebough you can tell I'm not a young girl. If she carries herself like a woman then don't pay mind to what you may think irrelevant people who don't know you two may think.

Answer 5

How old are you? If your lady friend is a lot younger then you I can understand where you're coming from. Don't want people to think you are a pedophile. However, if you are in your twenties then keep going out with her. Think about it, if you two get married then she will be a total MILF. When she turns forty she will look in her late twenties. This is not a bad thing.

Answer 6

Be glad that she looks younger than she is. This lets you know that she will be young looking when everyone else looks so old. Do not be so shallow as to stop hanging out with her just bc of looks. You should not be embarrased by it in the least little bit.

Answer 7

I'll take her out. No prob. I dated a really short girl with a baby face once. I was 21 and she was 26.My family thought I was a jerk for dating a 13 year old. Ha! Bot, were they embarassed when they found out how old she really was. I got every one of them apologizing to me for thinking I was a dating a child.
Aside from that, she was a very sweet and intelligent woman. I really liked her.

Answer 8

I'm 20 and my boyfriend is 20 and Ive been told I look anywhere from 15 to 19 but usually younger. If it bothers you she deserves better

Answer 9

She's your friend and it's not your fault if she looks younger than she is, unless she's lying about her age.

Enjoy her company. If people ask, tell them the truth. If you get stares while walking, hold your head high or shrug your shoulders. You shouldn't let a little thing like this affect what maybe a wonderful friendship.

Think about it.

Answer 10

That would be unfair to both of you. Unless you just don't want to go out with her anymore, you shouldn't let her youthful looks stop you.

You know she's 20, you shouldn't have to explain it to anyone.

Answer 11

If you fear the public, you will always lose. It seems you yourself feel uncomfortable with her, so don't blame the public. Be honest friend and take her anywhere she likes (not you like, her liking first and your liking next).