2007-08-10 02:45:37 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Start doing things for you. Just go out and treat yourself to an amazing day at the spa, go for a long walk by yourself, treat yourself to dinner and a movie (if you don't like dining alone and going to the theater, then order take-out and rent a DVD).
Become a truly independent person. Join some classes (karate works well!), volunteer (animal shelters are great), or take up a new hobby.
Slowly, but surely, you will find that you have better things to do than dwell on your ex. Let him (her) go and become the best person you can be.
Also know that it is ok to have one good, long cry (no more than a night's worth of crying).
A girl's night out right away is always fun and gets your mind off things.
Best of luck to you!
2007-08-10 02:50:16 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I spent two hours a day 6 days a week at the gym keeping busy so I could just go home and be extra tired and sleep without missing him. It worked! Excersizing made me happy and gave me a great body in which I found a new man with!!
2007-08-10 02:49:39 · answer #2 · answered by ~ ♥ ~ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Friends help to heal a lot during this period. Go out with them to malls, amusement parks, movies and just have fun.
Also, this is a golden chance... Don't let it go as this is the time you can spend with your family and create unforgetable memories, specially with ur mom or dad or ur sis... and you will see how their love and care heals you....
And believe in your heart that someday, somewhere you will find the right one ! For now, console your heart that he DOES exist and he will come....
2007-08-10 02:57:49 · answer #3 · answered by goddess_of_fame 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just avoid all contact with her and not even speak to her on the phone and do anything to keep her off my mind. My ex and my former friend were in our bed together and I caught them so it was easy to walk away and not think of her.
2007-08-10 02:52:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I no this sounds crazy but I dated other guys and we didnt work out so I went back to my ex about 4 or 5 times and eventually you burn out on him but it may not work for you!! Good Luck!!
2007-08-10 02:50:31 · answer #5 · answered by ~*His Little Angel*~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do stuff that interest you to keep your mind off him. You can hang out with your friends more, go out, meet other men, or just focus on what's really important to you. It's hard....believe me, but eventually, you won't even care for him like you use to as time goes on. Do, what makes you happy and just do some of the things you use to do before you met him. Go treat yourself!
2007-08-10 02:54:01 · answer #6 · answered by Carmelkisses 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be honest its been two years and in still havent got over him i loved him nd always will but i made a promise to him that i would always love him! but if you dont think of them then that will help forget them but as the her user said time does heal many things!
2007-08-10 02:55:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Found someone else to start spending time with......most of the time you can start going out with a guy that makes you forget all about the other one!!
2007-08-10 02:49:12 · answer #8 · answered by Sales Girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go out and find a new hottie to like..
dont nessisarily go 4 a relationship.. just go for a look.. "window shopping" till u dont even think about ur ex anymore.. Good luck =]
2007-08-10 02:49:47 · answer #9 · answered by becstar 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Work extra hour that what I will do(everyday) friend don't make you forget your ex! become they have your own life(wife,girlfriend) then you end up alone again....
2007-08-10 03:25:50 · answer #10 · answered by Afro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋