Ok, so my first date with this hot girl didn't go well.. I need advice. She cut the date short and then texts me 7 messages talking about how she felt it went wrong.. stating that it was me who wasn't talking or anything, but she barely said a few words too.
Well I asked her if there was physical attraction... she didn't answer me really. She said that would be decided if we had a next date. She said she wanted to friends if nothing else.... She said there was chemistry and I have a great personality but was holding back tonight... we only talked on the phone, never met.
What does this mean?
2007-08-10 03:02:33 · 6 answers · asked by andrew a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh, my gosh. Trust me the way things are going in this world (bad) you don't need drama, leave her a lone and move on.
2007-08-10 03:06:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she just wants to be friends for now.
If she does decide to go on a second date with you, perhaps you could suggest something less intimate (like you both can invite your friends - a group date if you would). That might release some of the tension that's going on between you two.
If you were not all that impressed with the date either, you should let her know. Maybe you're both misunderstanding where the other one is coming from or what the other is expecting.
Good luck!
2007-08-10 10:12:54 · answer #2 · answered by YSIC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That means that you need to find someone else and go on another date and forget about her. Coming from a girl this means that she doesn't want anything else to do with you but friends. Talking on the phone is always easier than meeting in person and talking to someone in person. Lets just say look for someone else because she spoke the dreaded word "FRIENDS"
2007-08-10 10:34:45 · answer #3 · answered by Simply Lisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its possible that she was just nervous and felt slightly uncomfortable. was it her first date? sometimes when im mad at my boyfriend, i only look at the things that he did wrong. it just makes me feel better about the situation. but in all reality, i share the fault also. i hope this kind of helps good luck! :)
~em
2007-08-10 10:07:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its mean you need to find another girl, once u hear the lets be friends bull sh*t its over. if u persue this your just waisting your time.
2007-08-10 10:07:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like she's unsure now about you.maybe she expected something more.maybe you didn't look like she was hoping.could just be nerves too.time will tell if your willing to hang in there.
2007-08-10 10:07:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋