We broke up for like 2 weeks now. I saw him last wed and we talked for almost 4 hours on the phone. But that was the last we are going to talk and see each other. After that, I felt so lonely and sad. I missed him so much that I wanna hug him and kiss him. I really want him back now. But he isn't ready for that yet. He said he's afraid that we will just broke up again and endure the pain all over again. Right now, all I know, is that I want him back. My life felt so empty and meaningless.
Any tips? I really need to get out of this feeling. I don't when he'll be back or if he's really coming back...
2007-08-10 02:51:27 · 6 answers · asked by faiwee queen 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
these cure me up from loneliness, emotional abuse, breaking up and on again:
make alot of friends
read books or study
watch funny movies or comedy shows
sleep alot, it relaxes your stress hormones
drink tea
go out with your family or freinds
write in your diary
listen to music that you like and sing along or dance
go shopping, get a new makeover for yourself
pray everyday
make a shcedule of things to do at your house everyday
buy a game and play it for example:
playing games like gothic 2, prince of persia, legacy of kain, stuff like that...
go for a 15 to 20 minute walk with a ffeind or relative & have a chit chat
find someone else if you can
2007-08-10 02:58:32 · answer #1 · answered by devil_nation 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is natural to feel the way you feel. Everyone goes through it. Just give it some time, and keep yourself very busy! Any activities will do. Hang out with your friends. Get a lot of exercise (a big help). Join a club. Do some volunteer work in your community. Watch some movies (preferably NOT romantic ones). Work. Whatever you like to do. Whatever will keep you really busy. Then just give it some time, and DON'T talk to your ex and avoid bumping into him. That will only delay you. Do all this, and soon you'll be ready to move on. And who knows? If you keep yourself really busy doing social stuff, you may well end up meeting Mr. Right! Good luck!
2007-08-10 09:59:26 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know what you are going through. What you should do is really get into something that makes you happy besides him. I got into church and reading devotionals. It helped focus my energy elsewhere and it also healed me. Getting yourself involved in other activities that you feel passionate about (would you be willing to do community service type stuff?) will help boost your self-esteem, confidence, and will help you become stronger. Women that have a very healthy and happy life outside of the man they love make them even more attractive. I know you can do it girl! Good luck!
2007-08-10 09:57:02 · answer #3 · answered by katysru19 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find getting a massage works. A nice foot reflexology....a facial....or aromatherapy. Getting a pup or a kitten helps tremendously too. It's something very nice to look forward to when coming home.
2007-08-10 09:57:07 · answer #4 · answered by Sarah 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel as of yesterday :( so i dont know sleep alot i guess? thats what im gonna try
2007-08-10 10:40:30 · answer #5 · answered by Avaria 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go get a burger.
2007-08-10 09:55:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋