if yes..why?
2007-08-10 20:33:38 · 5 answers · asked by pink_b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You say "past"?Was it one time or more than once? Does that mean you are thinking about getting back together? If so, think long and hard and take it slow. I wasn't going to tolerate my circumstance, however I have seen my friends go through this, some split for good, some have gotten back together, but I will tell you this, although one of my girlfriends went back to her husband 15 yrs. ago, to this day, she still worries about it. They really seem like a loving couple and I know for a fact she has never fooled around on him, but she gave him another try and they have 3 beautiful happy children. So you have to look at "your situation", Oh...he slept with his receptionist. Gosh, good luck to you, and think about yourself, could you handle it "if" he did it again? Take care ~
2007-08-10 21:04:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well: Can you: Yes, probably so! The real question is should you! It really depends on the circumstances surrounding the cheating! I know most people say no, once a cheater-always a cheater! But the older I get, the more I think it depends on who, who with, when, why! Life isn't cut and dry, it's full of circumstances and what if's! So, I can't give a yes or no answer to this one!
Say it was a one time thing and it wasn't sex, but other-then I would say that's forgiveable! Or if it did have sex, but was with a stranger and someone they would never see again, then maybe that's forgiveable!
BUT, if it was my best friend or a co-worker that they have to see everyday, then no, I know I couldn't get over that!
Good luck, this is a tricky topic!
2007-08-10 20:42:51 · answer #2 · answered by jen 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. I don't think so. If they did it once I'd always feel like they could do it again. My aunt says "once a cheater, always a cheater." This may very well not be true for everyone. I'm sure there are people who have only cheated once in their lifetime and felt remorse and have never done it again. However your question was not will they do it again? It was can you trust someone not to? I'd find it hard to. I'd always wonder...
2007-08-10 20:42:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it will take time, but it's possible. But only if you really care for him and you know for a fact that he won't hurt you like that again. if the 2 of you really try, you can get through it.
2007-08-10 20:47:10 · answer #4 · answered by chris_saiyan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you? Yes.
Should you? No, not rigth away.
A cheater should expect that he's got
some proving to do.
2007-08-10 21:04:24 · answer #5 · answered by Irv S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋