trying to change what guys think of me?

Question

towards the end of this year i was prettty much known for a slu* for doing some things

i dont want to start school off known as the slu* just a girl who want to have fun

if that makes any sence

okay when i say fun i dont mean still want to sleep with guys , i just i dont i want to have as much fun doing whatever the fuc* i want , but not be known as a druggy/slu8/whor*/bitc* or any of that

okay when i say fun i dont mean still want to sleep with guys , i just want to have as much fun doing whatever the fuc* i want , but not be known as a druggy/slu8/whor*/bitc* or any of that

Answer 1

Unfortunately some people cant tell the difference between a slu* and a girl who just wants to have fun. If you already have that reputation its going to take alot to convince people to change their minds. Basically you would have to act like you're bored all the time. Dont flirt or act like a twit. Just sit back relax, talk to people and be nice and eventually people will notice and forget they ever thought of you that way.

Answer 2

The hard truth is you can't change the past. You can't "un ring" a bell. Are you following me? Once you get labeled as a s!ut, you wear that tag for life. The only thing you could possibly do now is move to a different town and it may still follow you...depending on how far you move. Learn from this mistake and clean up your act. Having fun can come back to haunt you. Nothing in life is free. You always have to pay for what you take.

Answer 3

If you put yourself out there like that-that's how you'll be judged. There's nothing wrong with having fun, but you don't have to do it with everyone. If you're in high school that may stick a lot of people until the time. Do you, but do it with respect. Don't worry about what they say-only "you" know what really went down and that's all that matters.

Answer 4

The things you did that made you a sl*t is okay and you should never be angy at yourself. People make bad choices sometimes. Its ok.

If you want people to look at you differently about you then you should probably dress nice, wear a little bit of make-up (if you do wear make-up), just wear eye liner and some chap stick or something.

In order to change people's ways of thinking then you have to show them that you changed. Most people are visual learners.

Answer 5

I think you should watch what you are doing.If you find yourself in certain situations,its time to leave.and right then and there.You may have a low self-esteem problem.Sometimes we do not think highly of ourselves and wind up sacrificing other things,like our bodies.Try to think positive about yourself and who you are.You have a heart and I am sure you are a good friend.We all have something to offer,just look inside your heart.As far as a fun girl,heck start telling jokes.Everybody loves to laugh.

Answer 6

you cannot be known as a girl who likes to have fun....it is just impossible. you need to totally stop all behavior that is considered slutty. by the way, a good time does not equal anything sexual. i think you just need to feel accepted, so you do what you think guys want, but they are really degrading you!
you are much better than that!

Answer 7

well you had better change your way of thinking then because if you know what gave you that reputation then go the other way you will have fun too the only different is it will be clean fun sooo you will have noting to worry about take care

Answer 8

since you did "some things", stop doing them and start "having fun" the way you wanna be know for it. as in, stop "doing things" and have fun like a good girl.

Answer 9

i think its mature of you to change your behavoir, its going to be hard but you can do it! and dont change just for the guys, change for your family and you. the more good you do, the more good you're going to get!

Answer 10

don't have sex with any guys.
they will learn fast.
it will take awhile to live down your old behavior.
be patient. don't sleep with any guys.