This girl i like we were standing in a group i let her catch me looking at her b/c i want her to know i like her but when she caught me for like the 5th time she turned in my direction facing me, looking at me i stopped looking at her b/c i was nervous and didnt want to be offensive but I need to know what she ment when she did this oh and no words were spoken between us during the whole time and i know her but i dont really know her good. Oh and shes been flirty before with me as far as body languege like touching my arm while lauging. I hope she doesnt think im a perv.or something all i wanted to do was let her know im interested
2007-08-10 16:25:02 · 11 answers · asked by dhfdfg 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are not asking the right source. Ask her directly. Maybe she does want you to back off. Maybe she just wants you to be respectful. But no one in this site can tell you. Only she can.
If you wanted to show her your interest, I tell you, staring repeatedly at her b/c was a sorrowfully wrong choice. You should have rather stared at her eyes or hair, for instance. That way, she would have felt your interest in her, and not merely in humping her, which is very different.
2007-08-10 16:52:02 · answer #1 · answered by Santiago R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say stop playing games because sometimes the message gets lost when you wait too long. Also no offense but if I caught someone looking at me for the 5th time I would get kinda freaked out or wonder what the hell that person was looking at. Next if you want to drop lil hints be discrete and dont over do it. You should go up to her and tell her that your feeling her and see how she responds.
2007-08-10 16:34:28 · answer #2 · answered by skinneechica311 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She caught you staring at her for the 5th time. She knew you were looking at her and instead of playing some game all night, she was turning to you to actually make a move.
And you didn't.
So you lose. Try again next time, get some nuggets and talk to her.
2007-08-10 16:32:06 · answer #3 · answered by Katie B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, man, that ain't the way to go at all. You need to stop tryin' to understand headgames you think she's playin' and just talk to her. Just chill, man. Be real; don't act the way you think you're expected to... Good luck with that girl, and I hope she feels the same.
2007-08-10 16:34:57 · answer #4 · answered by Lucky Charmz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was letting you know she was uncomfortable by it, so she made you feel the same way. Let her know your interested by telling her, not googling over her goodies! It makes a woman feel like she's not appreciated for who she is, like all the guys want is her body. Just tell her, and definitely apologize.
2007-08-10 16:33:13 · answer #5 · answered by dafunkypunka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her as a friend, ask her if she wants to hang out sometime but dont come on too strong
2007-08-10 16:34:36 · answer #6 · answered by scorpio 1105 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She kind of senced you from where she was.Find a way to break the ice, it may help you to know how she feel for you before you go astray.
2007-08-10 16:32:03 · answer #7 · answered by ebiyedinak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You blew it dude! That was her giving you an opportunity to speak to her. Learn from this mistake.
2007-08-10 16:31:24 · answer #8 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is not telling you to back off. she wants you to be more sensitive about the way she feels.
2007-08-10 16:32:25 · answer #9 · answered by shante 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be friendly towards her, and speak or say something.
2007-08-10 16:32:11 · answer #10 · answered by lydia t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋