i remember my first time i thought maybe it was because ive never done it before and i thought also that maybe the guy i was with was well...not so endoud. but after i had been with a few other men i just do not understand why it doesnt feel good. we've tried different positions and other things and nothing works. i dont know, its just really frusterating because i am 27 and i have never had an orgasm. i am currently with someone and i havnt told him about it with a fear of hurting his ego. i dont know what to do.
what is wrong and how can i fix it?!?!?!?!
and please i dont appriciate smart remarks or people against premarital sex. those topics are not relivant.
2007-08-10 19:37:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to be more specific but talk to him about it because if you dont it could drive a wedge between the two of you. If he really likes you he will stick with you through this. You might want to look into a condition called Vaginismus, its very common and has a lot to do with a subconcious fear of injury to the vagina which causes the body to make penetration near impossible. I wish you well, and remember talk to him and tell him the truth, im sure it will all work out.
2007-08-10 19:45:45 · answer #1 · answered by stickitywit 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It may seem obvious to some, but not others; foreplay, foreplay, foreplay. Also, you may want to try having your partner masterbate you to orgasm or at least a highly aroused state before intercourse; your imagination is a powerful tool use it to get to where you want to go.
2007-08-11 02:56:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should go see a Dr. There maybe something medically wrong. My cervix is positioned way back and in a down position and someways I lay hurts. So it would be good to get checked.
2007-08-11 02:47:15 · answer #3 · answered by countrygirl969702 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why because God IS punishing you
Thats the reason and you can't face it
You are a sinner
A fornicator
You are "endowed" .with stupidity ( NOT endoud )
Of course, you Don't "appreciate" my remarks because they are not "relevant" ( the correct way to spell it ) to an evil doer - a devils disciple.
It must be "frustrating" when you don't know how to spell
Just continue faking it -- OOOOOO Oooo aaaaaahhhhhh
Oh Oh Oh OHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH !!!!!!!!!!
Your biggest fear is that he finds out you can't spell
you need spelling lessons, You're 27 and can't spell
BUT Know you are a bad lay
What is this world coming to
2007-08-11 02:41:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
some women never orgasm get him to build up to it slowly try licking sucking caressing each other before you actually have intercourse if the moments right it can make all the difference
2007-08-11 03:12:28 · answer #5 · answered by john s 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
oh, thats a tough one. I would get a kama sutra book and just start at page one :) Also toys can help
2007-08-11 02:43:58 · answer #6 · answered by Flying Spagetti Monster 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i agree with McPhoo13, foreplay, foreplay, foreplay
2007-08-11 07:00:42 · answer #7 · answered by shesanaussie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋