I love this girl im dating in different ways shae does. Theres days i get off work and im really tired but she calls me everyday after i get home and we're on the phone for ever it feels like and its hard for me to just tell her that i had a long day. plus i have chores to do and i normally dont get them done till 10:00 every night because im talking to her for two or three hours that feels like twevle or thirtteen hours. and im getting tired of it.
we've been together for two years and i love her and dont want to break her heart. so what do i do with her???????
HURRY PLEASE ANSWER QUICK????
2007-08-10 19:59:11 · 29 answers · asked by bubbak 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her honestly that after a hard days' work, you need some time for yourself & it doesn't mean that you don't love her if you don't call her everyday.
If she calls & you want to answer it, tell her that you can only talk for, say 10 mins or however long you want, but only just that because you need time for yourself. Don't let her override your time. Explain her that you need to do other things besides just talking on the phone with her.
Sometimes, all a girl needs to know is to loosen up... not a breakup. Try to tell her directly & honestly first... then see what happens next.
2007-08-10 20:07:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear Sweetie, tell her the same way that I tell my son who calls me and can talk for hours. I love him with all of my heart and I want to talk to him, but u r right if you talk so many hours u aren't able to get the other things done that you want to, like your chores. Be strong are u afraid that she won't like u if you tell her that you have to go because you have some chores that you have to do. Or I tell my son that my ear is hurting from being on the phone so long and it really is. You can say all this in a loving way.
2007-08-10 20:09:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love her then be honest with her. Don't string her along if you don't feel the same way. She might be picturing a future together with you. Believe me I know it will hurt, but i would appreciate a guy's honesty. And do it in person, not via email or phone. My ex sent me an e-mail and I think he is the biggest coward. Too afraid to face me. Don't do this. Be a man and tell her the truth.
2007-08-10 20:05:27 · answer #3 · answered by pussnboots333 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you really don't love her the same way that she love you then it's best to just sever the relationship as soon as possible. you're only fooling yourself and her if you keep it going. it sounds like there's a lack of communication going on and you're not willing to work on that aspect of the relationship...so since you're tired and desperate for a way out, just end it now.
she deserves a more compatible man.
2007-08-10 20:12:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
god just tell her that you dont feel the same way. dont play these games. there is nothing more that i cant stand then someone leading me on or just not answering the phone and ignoring. Just tell me. (i mean her) a heart is going to get broken either way but it hurts less to know whats going on.....
2007-08-10 20:19:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry you feel that way after 2 years, but you have to tell her. theres no way around her getting hurt you guys been kickin it for a while now but if you feel its over do it now man dont drag her along thats not love bro. handle your business dude. be straight up with her if you love her you owe her at least that. I dont mean no harm by sayin this but you need to man Up for this one.... Good luck & God Bless
2007-08-10 20:11:24 · answer #6 · answered by jumbo75 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with her and if she gets even more posessive you should probably back away a little. If makes her angry she's obsessed with you and possibly even a little wacko. If she is don't try to save her from herself. Nothing good EVER comes of that!
2007-08-10 20:10:33 · answer #7 · answered by bulruq 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest to her and tell her everything that you want in a subtle nice manner. It will do hurt but explain to her that it will be more painful when you will try to continue the relationship being suffocated in what she does. Time will heal somehow.
2007-08-10 20:06:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You just need to be honest. Don't sugar-coat the facts, but don't be harsh either. Just calmly explain how you feel. Maybe write down your main points before hand, so you don't get flustered and forget.
2007-08-10 20:07:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your adult enough to feel love for each other, then your adult enough to have a nice, calm talk.
Sit her down, and just tell her this. If she loves you she'll understand and back off until your ready.
If she doesn't, then you learned her love isn't unconditional.
Win-win.
2007-08-10 20:04:31 · answer #10 · answered by The power of pwn 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋