i hang out with these group guys who i known since forever.and they always known me as one of the guys which i don't mind. and recently my sister came in to town and she a complete girly girl and she always wants me to be girly girl and dress up and all that stuff. so i decide since i rarely see her i'd cave in .so she gave me a total make over.so to celebrate she took me to a club and it just so happens the guys that i hang with r there. and they actually hit on me with out realizing who i was. i thought it was funny.anyways to make a long story short they came to realize it was me. and since then they haven't talk to me. its been 2 months and i don't know what happen. so can u explain. if they don't quit acting stupid i'm gonna have find a new group guys to hang with.
2007-08-10 19:41:37 · 20 answers · asked by lashalle 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
to cool breeze: no i don't sleep with them. we just hang out like play basketball, video games, go to sport events, play pool and etc.
2007-08-10 19:49:13 · update #1
I think they realised that you are actually quite hot, AND that you have very similar interests to them. They probably don't want to get ribbed by their mates if they like you as you have been a friend for so long. Maybe try to meet them again, but if it doesn't feel right, it may be time to hang with some new friends? It's so hard this stupid thing called life, but we have to live it. Good luck. Oh, plus they're stupid to lose a good mate.
2007-08-17 22:08:20 · answer #1 · answered by greyghost_84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All of my friends are guys, and from experience, they probably just now realized how hot you are.
Since they see you as one of the guys, that's how you appear to them-A GUY! with boobs of course. They are probably avoiding you because they feel like fools. Call them up & ask them to hang out, the usual stuff you would have done before the incident. If they refuse or ditch you, you need to have a serious talk.
But more than likely, they all found themselves attracted to a good friend & it scared the hell outta them!
2007-08-10 19:47:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd say they are embarrased. See when a guy has a girl pal he files her away in a far corner of his brain, the part for family members. She is not even a girl to him.
So then you fool them with the whole girly thing.....and they don't feel they can go back. Once your a girl, your a girl.
So yea, they are stupid....and you might want to get new guy pals.
2007-08-10 19:53:12 · answer #3 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is just a guess
Maybe they were hanging out with you because they were hoping for an eventual intimate relationship with the person that you were, not some club swinger. Maybe they think club-going girls just arent their type.
2007-08-10 19:46:01 · answer #4 · answered by CyEngin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the person, your friend is embarrassed about hitting on you. Or the person is insecure about himself, that your beauty shined on that evening. Lots of men are insecure towards beautiful women. He is afraid of competition from others-men, he probably thought that you were there to
pick up on guys, and his own imagination got the best of him, sounds like, well good luck. Stay as you are.
2007-08-10 19:54:30 · answer #5 · answered by roy m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They probably feel awkward about it, and ashamed that they didn't recognize you sooner, and its probably to them as if you were two different people, so the shock of realizing it was you probably made them freak. Just let them know you did it for your sis, and you're still the same old you... and that yeah, you know you looked hot, there's no shame in them thinking so too ^_^ it'll lighten the mood of the situation!
2007-08-10 19:46:17 · answer #6 · answered by Aubry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
grownup adult men are stupid whilst you evaluate it particularly is basically their nature. There are basically some grownup adult men/ boys who look mature. So no, it particularly isn't basically you. regrettably, i think of of portion of the rationalization grownup adult men act like it particularly is via the reality they attempt to get womens activity. without corny jokes, hitting you, etc, they have not have been given any thank you to get activity from the females. choose this helps!!!
2017-01-04 05:10:36 · answer #7 · answered by letitia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are funny that way, they came to know and love you as one of them. Then here comes this super sexy female instead who knows all about them and it a little em brassing to them, since they do not know how to handle it they shy away.
2007-08-10 19:47:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just go and ask them why they don't want to hang out anymore and if they come up with somestupid reason then they really aren't your friends.
2007-08-10 19:45:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A new group of friends isn't a bad idea. Heck I hate them myself now after reading this.
2007-08-10 19:47:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋