Family & Relationships - 5 August 2007

2007-08-05 09:07:22 · 33 answers · asked by big eyes 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is this legal? WAS gone for 4 hours came home and all was gone can she take all that? And what should I do? Should I call the police and fill a charge?

2007-08-05 09:05:39 · 20 answers · asked by chumpa 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am goint through a very though situation in my marriage and I know it will end pretty soon. Im not looking for anyone at this moment, but I have wondered if there are men out there that are willing to marry and be responsible for a child that isnt theirs. Im currently expecting my 1st baby and unfortunately things arent going anywhere with my husband. I plant to dedicate myself tomy daughter, and maybe later on in life perhaps find a good man that is willing to take me and my daughter. Are there still men that dont care about women that already have a child, or do you men prefer to marry someone that doesnt have any children at all? Im just curious I would like to know how some men think. Thanks!!

2007-08-05 09:05:30 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

the father has a mental illness and i feel he mentally is incapible of taking this all on himself ..the 15yr old and besides he used me to get him he was in a stable relationship with me and now he is moving out w/the child and there will be no stability and i know he cant controll this child and shouldnt have him alone with out someone over seeing things.. the mother lost all rights so what do i do here about this situation?

2007-08-05 09:04:32 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-08-05 09:01:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my grandma is the person i hate the most, she just blabbers about every little thing and she thinks shes right!

OMG! ive had enough that i wanna just bash her in the head, shes been treating me and my sister like dogs and worst of all we are on vacation and shes with us, everytime she sees something she goes "ooo" "ahh"

its just embarassing and shes so ignorant that when she sees people from other races or sits with her she looks at them with disgust.

any advice how to excrete revenge the most painful way you know?

maybe do it ala punk'd style?

2007-08-05 08:58:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Okay i love bad boys i cant stand it though cause i want a good boy but every time i try to date a good boy they are always way to muchy!! I wish i could combine them so thier not to muchy and not to stupid. do you think my expectations are to high..?

2007-08-05 08:58:11 · 10 answers · asked by lauraboo 4 in Singles & Dating

I was just wondering what you think... I had an interview on Wednesday for a job at the gym and he said he would be contacting people at the latest friday afternoon.. and I never heard from him. Well thursday I had written a letter of appreciation and time. I also called to ask him to see if he had gotten the email since he hadn't responded to my last one a couple of weeks ago. Well he did get it and said he hadn't made any decisions yet and friday I emailed him again to follow up but he never answered me and so I called the gym and one of the girls at the front desk answered and I asked her if she knew if he hired anyone and she said she hadn't heard anything. Well do you think he could be waiting until monday to call/hire even though he said friday he would make a decision most likely?? Can you please give me any advice?

2007-08-05 08:52:14 · 15 answers · asked by greenturtle 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

She called him early every morning for about 8 months.....left messages like if no cares i do. I ready you can pick me up...

2007-08-05 08:52:12 · 16 answers · asked by kenny 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my 19 year old brother in law moved in with us about 5 months ago after a tornado came through and destroyed his grandparents house.he was living with them. at first it wasnt a problem he was a good kid.we didnt bother giving him a curfew or anything because we could trust him but now,he's hanging around with the wrong people and has an attitude thats terrible.hes also partying every day and i do mean every day either drinking or smoking pot. he hangs around people that are 16 and none of them have vehicles so of course, they bum off him.he has a job so he buys his gas but they ride around all day and when he's out of money usually within two days after he gets paid he comes beggin me for money.we dont make him pay rent or anything all he has to pay for is his gas and insurance for his vehicle.he has a curfew of 12 right now bc i got tired of stayin up worrying about him. last night he tried to borrow some money and i wouldnt give it to him.am i wrong for trying to help him clean up?

2007-08-05 08:48:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My son tells me how the guys in his college get their dates, and it isn't very good.....That most guys are in it for the sex, alcohol, parties and even drugs, but nothing more, what is your take on this question. Do you respect girls or Use them? What would you like to see in todays girls?

2007-08-05 08:45:02 · 12 answers · asked by Mona Lisa 4 in Singles & Dating

I'm celebrating 900 points by spending 5 and I've been curious about the demographics of this forum. Give as much detail as you want, but I'm mostly looking for regions and age in decades. Ex. 10-20, 20-30, etc. I'm in the 50-60 in the Ozark mountains of Missouri. thanks in advance! peace

2007-08-05 08:42:49 · 26 answers · asked by Pilgrim Traveler 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-05 08:42:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend of 2 years broke up and i am devastated and im not even sur ewhy we broke up. does anyone know how to get over the pain of a break up when u trulyl oved and cherished that person?

i dont want to care anymore because its almost as if he doesnt care either and i just dont want to hurt anymore. i cry all the time and u would think i was going to break up with him because of the things he put me through not the other way around. but i love him and love conquers all and i need to start feeling like im better off without him. i need good advice to get over heart break because it hurts so bad.

2007-08-05 08:40:41 · 5 answers · asked by nygirlsrdifferent 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My girlfriend refuses to cook. We have been dating for 4 years, and I know this sounds silly, but I need a woman who can take care of my children. And that includes cooking for them. I love her very much, but if she won't cook I could never marry her. How do I approach her about this? It's that time in our relationship where I either break up with her or propose. And if she refuses to get in the kitchen, how I am supposed to propose? Seriously.

2007-08-05 08:40:32 · 30 answers · asked by Fratty Palmetto 1 in Marriage & Divorce

They are in their early twenties. What did you guys get for your weddings that you really appreciated?

2007-08-05 08:36:29 · 30 answers · asked by bumshelf 3 in Weddings

i live in one state and my wife lives in another state.I found out that both states i can file for divorce without an attorney.I got all the paperwork done and filed with the courts.I've sent the papers to my wife by certified mail and she didn't pick the papers up from the post office and now the post office is returning them to me.I heard that my wife has to receive these papers in order for the divorce to take place.The next step is for me to pay the sheriff office in the state that she lives in to find her and serve her papers.I really didn't want to do all that,but I don't know all the laws about this and I would like to know what are my other options to keep my wife from being served by a sheriff?

2007-08-05 08:36:16 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

She never let me be social since they came from pakistan. But i'm american born. I baraly get to go outside, and when I do, its with my cousins. And the ones shes thinks are "good". I am 17 now and I want my own life!! But thats not even what im anoyyed about. Since im not social i play video games in my room all day. and my mom keeps busting down my door and yelling for no reason. she tells me to turn off the game, so i said i want to go to the amusement park with my freinds tommorow and she gave the "look" to me. I swear i dont get it. She tells me my chores and yells at me, when i do the chores, and i go to mom tell her that im done with my chores she says " do whatever the hell you want with your life i dont care". so i found peace at night time. i stay awake just on the comp or tv. yesterday she caught me up at 2 o clock at night just on the computer. she made the biggest deal out of it woke up my dad and everything. plz help i dont want her to take my nighttime away too now.

2007-08-05 08:32:43 · 11 answers · asked by Waqas A 2 in Family

If your dad tells you to shut up and settle down if you talk to someone else, or whisper or talk to the dog in a polite way. Or if you step on a sticker and say Ow he says "knock it off!"(in other words shut up you stupid b****)

You're not hyper you're just minding your business and you get hurt and upset and feel like crying. How to deal with this??

You are now 22 and they controlled and manipulated you to the point of you not being able to get your drivers license, nor a job, nor a place to live except there. They're nicer to your brothers.

Suggestions?

2007-08-05 08:32:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Well....this past week @ church, we've had Vacation Bible School, and it was a lotta fun, BUT I met this guy, hes 16, and im 13, and at first, he was cute, but now I could careless. hes been texting me alot, and talking to me on myspace.....and he curses and drinks......and as a Christian, I think its the right thing to do, SO I am thinking about leaving him a message on the comp. and telling him that......I dont want to end up cursing, and drinking, so I dont wanna talk to you anymore, and he doesnt live in my town, and plus....I think thats theres a pretty big diff. in our ages.....well being as young as I am. So do you think im doing the right thing? For MY safty?

2007-08-05 08:29:47 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why do the courts seem to think kids are better off with there mothers than there fathers not all mohers are good parents some of them are deadbeats too

2007-08-05 08:29:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

so i FINALLY meet a great guy that i like alot. Hes smart, caring, very attractive and is very goal-orinented.

BUT.....

Last night he told me that his ex-wife gave him an STD. He also told me that he had it cleared up and it is no longer there. I know STDs cant be cured forever, but I dont want to be SHALLOW and stop talking to him just because he revealed that he has an STD. I am scared to have sex or to get intamit with him but im not sure what i should do. Ive never had to deal with anything like this before.

What should i do?

2007-08-05 08:29:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am a single male who wants to date women who have a shared interest. I have discovered during the last few years that I enjoy and am pretty passionate about the adult swinging scene.

So, in my effort top be honest with women I date, when is it appropriate to tell a potential mate of my desire to share this interest with my mate?

2007-08-05 08:18:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hubby and I argue on this. I refer to a day coming up in the
days to come as "this week". He says, "next week". Maybe I
should say, 'this next week', so he'll maybe understand better?
He'll get confused all the time on what I'm trying to tell him to
maybe mark on the calender an appointment. So what are
your answers to t his dilema of ours?

2007-08-05 08:17:18 · 6 answers · asked by Lynn 7 in Marriage & Divorce

i found him on myspace and sent him a friend request and he accpeted. a couple weeks later sent him a message asking him if he wanted to get together sometime,he replied with "owtay" and asked which salon i work at, so I responded with "why, you need a haircut?" and no response,its been a week and he has gotten the message.The thing is the past couple years he has tried talking to me but i always blew him off and now that i am into him it seems he does not want me,should i message him again?maybe he is not taking me seriously???

2007-08-05 08:13:58 · 8 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend just broke up with me && i dont know what to do.I really love him && this hurts alot.I may be young but how old do you have to be to be in love anywayz helppp i dont know what to do.I really love him && im heartbroken now.

2007-08-05 08:10:10 · 5 answers · asked by dancin619princess 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My hubby's family called on the way back from Chicago & asked if we would drop everything we are doing to have a final dinner with them. Since they are leaving for Texas in the morning. Now, I would not mind if I had my car, because then I could eat dinner & leave. But my car is down, & I must rely upon them picking us up & bringing us home! Hubby did not even ask me, the heat outside is almost 100,& he told them ok! He was just griping about needing work clothing, & me getting them done! WHICH is outside on the flipping HOT sealed shut, NO air conditioning back porch! I am 8 months pregnant & our son has asthma, & we were told to NOT be out in it. NOW, he makes plans for us to go out in the heat just to be with them? I mean I have seen these people enough this week! ALL DAY, Tues, until Midnight & all DAY Wed...until again almost midnight! Isn't that enough? When do I get to see my ELDERY folks? Why is it ONLY his family?
To me it is NOT fair.

2007-08-05 08:09:56 · 9 answers · asked by Midnight Winter WOLF 4 in Family

Because I want it to look slutty fun and sexy. besides i'm 18.

2007-08-05 08:05:54 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When a guy constantly text messages you, but won't call?

2007-08-05 08:03:13 · 30 answers · asked by kelly 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, I just turned 30 but I look at least 4-6 years younger, due to being trim, a full head of hair, and keeping in excellent physcial condition due to a strict, healthy diet and hard exercise.

Where I live, most girls 25+ are either married and unavailable; and because there is a college in town, there are lots of younger single girls in the dating pool. I don't see what the big deal is if I want to go out with a 19 year old. I offer lots than a 19 year old guy couldn't; I work a white-collar professional job, earn a good salary, own a car, my own place, etc. Plus, I'm more mature, and level headed than much younger guys.

My friends think I'm perverted for doing this, I just think they're jealous because they let themselves go. Is this taboo or is this normal in the grand scheme of things?

2007-08-05 08:00:38 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating